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Archived questions from: 10 November, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm obsessed with sex, but still need it to be meaningful

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am deeply concerned with my obsession with sex, it has interfered with my ability to concentrate and focus. I recently broke up with my boyfriend so I do not know how I can get rid of my horniness! I do not want a one night stand though. I have always been... (169 words)

I want to start a relationship but I'm inexperienced. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

10 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've never had a girlfriend and I'm in my early twenties. It's not through a lack of asking girls out as I've been on a couple of first dates. Its really worrying me that my university life is getting busier and busier and women are losing interest so quickly. I may never ha... (115 words)

Should I cut him out of our lives so I can start feeling better again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. So I had a best friend of 6yrs, we decided to try a relationship late last year. The pill failed me and I fell pregnant barely 2 months into the relationship. We were both very shocked, he wanted me to abort but I couldn't and didn't so he stopped talking to me and ... (253 words)

I'm crazy about her -- do I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4027 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've known this girl for a while now, She's my bestfriend, but I think I'm starting to fancy her, a lot. I've never felt like this with another girl before, so it's a strange feeling for me. I've never thought about being with another girl before, she is the only girl that I've ... (293 words)

He's 21. Is that such a big age difference? Will people judge me about the age difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a lovely young boy who is 21. He is cute and nice. He's trying the best to makes me not feel the age difference. My problem is, do i date him or tell him to find a girlfriend his own age, or can i continue date him because i do love him? I found out after we met abo... (89 words)

Worried that he can't completely let go of his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I kind of have a problem. I don't think my boyfriend can completely let go of his ex girlfriend. When we got together he was still missing his ex and not completely over her. He's still basically friends with her. They talk and text each other and still have mutua... (158 words)

Relationship issues! Do I sound clingy by caring too much for others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4027 days ago

10 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My all relationship get off to similar start and end in a same pattern. In short words, girls like me being sweet and making them laugh. As time goes on, they find me little cheesy and care too much for them which makes them bored of me. Like when I had a Girlfriend in US... (192 words)

Am I wrong to be angry about the benefit fraud a person close to me is committing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - What would you do if you found out someone you are close too is committing benefit fraud? I completely disagree with people who do this. I believe benefits are for people who are in real need of them. But what I have found out, that this person is claiming benefits but ... (77 words)

What should I do? I have realised that I deserve better than how she treats me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

10 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I have an issue which has many facets so I will try to summaries it as best as I can. - Been with girlfriend for 6 years (she is in mid twenties) - She has a minor disability and I look after her every need.. probably too much! - Lived together for at-least 4 y... (436 words)

How do I deal with a coworker where I feel there's some kind of chemistry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3856 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupids... Started a new office job a few months ago and been working closely with this guy. Since the beginning there was some attraction however we've always acted in a professional manner (no personal conversations, just regular superficial small talk). However.... (415 words)

He forgot my birthday! Is this normal for a boyfriend to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Boyfriend of 4 years forgot to wish me happy birthday despite having texting the whole time. I was giving him the benefit of doubt and waited. When I confronted, he said he's busy rushing some work. I know what all of you would say but really, how hard is it to just slip in ... (176 words)

Can't orgasm with women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

10 November 2013 (M) age 26-29 - I've had trouble coming to an orgasm with women. I've been sexually active with two girls.. One we just did oral and the other I've had sex with. When the first girl gave me oral I had trouble reaching orgasm and finally after having to take control of her head was able to ... (158 words)

Been off the pill 5 months ago but still can't get pregnant.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I was just wondering if people could share their experiences to help me see what's "normal'. my husband and I are trying for a baby. I came off the pill 5 months ago and we have been trying since then but no luck. How long did it take your or your partner to fall pregnant... (190 words)

Please help me figure it out because I don't understand his behavior!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband flirts with EVERY pretty woman. Even on our honey moon he did invite woman to go out,and he would ask me to go with him too. He is a nice,charming,and smooth voice type.Was handsome but now his is getting fat belly,bald,but still smooth operator. 10 years marriage... (317 words)

Am I the only one who is not interested in sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have very little interest in sex and it has become a huge problem in my marriage(understandably). I honestly do not care if I ever have sex again... it's just not important to me and I really don't get much out of it. I really have never had an interest in sex and I don't ... (289 words)

I feel like I've done everything I can to get over him. What else can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3855 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I love someone I cant have and I don't know how I can get over him. I was with my boyfriend for 8 years. I started working in a new job last summer. There was a guy there who I immediately hit it off with. We had so much in common and we instantly became friends. We ende... (510 words)

Haven't heard from him for 30 hours. Should I wait it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing someone from work for the last three months or so, its going really well but we've kept it on the down low as he was my supervisor. Although now I've been promoted and no longer under his supervision it doesn't seem as bad but anyway we decided to keep it quiet ... (564 words)

My girlfriend is a liar, bad mouths me but would not let me go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is nothing but a liar and i resent her for it. I recently noticed she had made our relationship status on Facebook hidden, to which i asked her why and for whose benefit, she became agressive with me because she knows she got caught, i already know its so the ... (416 words)

How do I deal with retroactive jealousy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, this will be long but I'm in need of help and would appreciate the time and any advice you can offer. I'm 27 living in Los Angeles Cali, working at a video game company. I have suffered from retroactive jealousy since my very first boyfriend. It's an ongoing... (741 words)

My mum's a selfish evil cruel gameplayer. I don't respect her at all!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - so it was about a year that i knew bout the fact that my mom was cheating on my dad. their relationship was AWFUL. they tried to get divorced when i was 5 but they didnt becuz my little brother came along.well according to what my aunt said they knew each other for only 2 ... (511 words)

I trust him, but I worry he will cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I trust my boyfriend but last time he went out with the boys he got drunk and slept another woman. Now he's out again and I'm afraid it will happen again. I want to trust that he will make the right choice this time. I just can't make myself stop worrying. Does anyone have any ... (69 words)

I found a HIV-test. Did she cheat on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

10 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a steady girlfriend from past 2 years. Before I came in her life she had around 5-6 men in her life. But I am sure that from past 2 years it's been just me. I moved to another town close by - 2 hour drive from my current place for a work assignment for a year. We did ... (153 words)

I didn't say "I love you" to her, and now she considers kicking me out of her life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I recently broke up and things have been going downhill from there. She said she needed time because she was so angry but I told her I needed her and she deliberately chose not to be there for me. That hurt me deeply. She still maintains that her time was more ... (385 words)

Still haven't let go three months after the break up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I guess I don't have an exact question I just need to vent and need some advice.. I can't stop thinking about my ex boyfriend. I have not contacted him at all since he broke up with me 3 months ago, neither has he. I feel good that I've maintained "no contact". But I am still... (182 words)

Dealing with workplace infatuation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

10 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 5 years, we are in it for the long haul I believe. Some complaints here and there, but overall happy and a good couple. We've been planning to get married as soon as we stop moving around. Built a nice nest egg together and going to buy a house ... (202 words)