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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

His story put me off -- am I just naive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So I met this guy and I'm trying to decide if he's dodgy. He said he went on holiday to a 5 star hotel which was practically empty because it was a front for money laundering, so they have fake guests staying in suites for 2000 a night, staying for a month and in this way put ... (136 words)

I don't want to come across as a stalker, but my feelings for her are only getting stronger

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry for the length, any advice is really appreciated. 6 1/2 years ago I met a women who from the moment we were introduced I felt a connection and we clicked, for 2 years from that initial point I questioned my feelings towards this person, as I had never doubted my sexualit... (448 words)

Now that I'm losing him I realize that he's great

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - where to I start? i meet one of my brother-in-law's friends earlier this year. He tried to get with me but at the time i wasn't interested. After a few months I decided to called him. we were talking for a month or so. by the way i live in usa and he live in Dominican ... (290 words)

Should I have sex with my cousin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - should i have sex with my cousin hes 4 years older than me im 17 hes 21 nearly 22.Me and my cousin have been having a special connection for years a couple of years back we kissed and i touched his penis we both remember that night till this day.Last night we was speaking and ... (85 words)

In a new country and not sure how to make friends...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all! I moved in another country and been living here for few yrs now, but I have difficulty to make new friends.. most of the time Im very lonely and getting depressed. I have partner but most of the day he is working and I miss my girl friends just to chat and gossip, go ... (87 words)

He freaked out just as he was gonna go down on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4061 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey.. Ok My boyfriend and I have been together for a month, I'm 16 and he is 18 we are both virgins and have not done anything other than had a handjob and been played with abit In past relationships, we were mates for ages but yeh, basically we aren't gonna have sex yet, bu... (466 words)

Is there something wrong that I'm so fixated on oral?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2776 days ago

7 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I don't know what to think about my sexual desires, am I a pervert for loving to give oral sex to women? At times it's to the point where i don't even care if they do anything in bed with me as long as I can make them orgasm giving them oral sex. I love making them orgasm, am I ... (232 words)

I feel like I'm masturbating too much

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all I am a 16 year old girl who is a virgin and I masturbate really often and I feel that I do it too much and I am getting addicted as I will masturbate when I wake up and when I get home and before I go to sleep also I watch porn while I'm masturbating which I've grown up ... (71 words)

The baby is due in 6 days and I feel completely doomed...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

- Hi Cupids, Long time answerer, first time asker. What brings me to the question board? I'm 6 days away from my due date and I'm freaking out. I've been freaking out pretty much the whole time. It's not my relationship - I've been with him for 8 years, married 4. We have ... (1101 words)

I thought that he liked me, but now he completely ignores me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4062 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so last year I really liked this guy and I had a really strong feeling he felt the same about me cause I could tell by the way he acted. He's really shy and I understand cause I am also, he says hi to me every time he sees me, but after I saw him at my friends party we ... (184 words)

We're not on the same page about parenting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

7 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife tends to fly off the handle when we disagree. I need some advice about how to handle this. Thanks in advance. This morning, our daughter was being very whiny. She's 2 1/2. We've been teaching her to use her words and not whine. After a long bout of whiny-ness, we t... (152 words)

Can't deal with my husband's anger and negativity, but leaving him means leaving the U.S.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am marriaged to an American for more then 12 years now. I went to USA to work and study with a scholarship in Arts. We met through a friend from my Master´s Degree University. He is an Artist too,but from another University,but doesnt have a Master´s Degree.I do have some... (416 words)

I got away from a controlling guy and got my life back, but am suffering acute anxiety. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, Please help - any insight would be most helpful. I have just recently got out of a really toxic relationship.( around 3 - 4 weeks ago) for good and have cut all contact. I was seeng a cruel and controlling man for around 3 years. I got very weak, and was drinking a ... (429 words)

I'm not sure whether to go to my friend's birthday night out?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4054 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure whether to go to my friend's birthday night out? I know this isn't much of a problem, but i'd like some advice. My friend has invited me to her birthday night out next week. The place we are going to is a restaurant and a nightclub. I like going to restaurants, ... (222 words)

Should I continue being friends with my ex-lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if I should continue being "friends" with my ex. My hopes is of course to get back together. We dated only 3 months, he broke up with me due to still not over his ex who left him for another man. Said he was not ready for a relationship and I think he still loved ... (292 words)

I'm very confused by these lingering feelings for my ex! How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, need some help here please. its been 5 years since my ex and I parted (we were each others first loves) as he had a year-long commitment to concentrate on but he told me he will come back to me after that, which he did. but I rejected him for fear that he would ... (357 words)

Why do I experience such bad pain during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 27 and I've been sexually active for the last 10 years but I can't explain this. Sex hurts on and off for me. This recent guy I've been seeing it hurts like a knife is going through my vagina sometimes before he even full enters me and other times he's all the way in and ... (202 words)

Do guys really mean it when they call a girl beautiful, sexy, pretty, and hot? And what do they prefer-natural or make-up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

7 November 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I was wondering what your opinion is on this question. Do guys really mean it when they call a girl beautiful, sexy, pretty, and hot? Because I think I am attractive but when I look at myself in the mirror I don't like my stomach,(have a few inches on my belly) my jiggly a... (141 words)

How to avoid being screwed over in the workplace again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I worked for a small company for many years and was always a hard worker. Yet constantly overlooked because of nepotism. Recently a new boss took over and made other people full time. But not I and others who have worked there for years. When I asked all I got was lies and my ... (61 words)

Why do abusive men cheat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got out of an abusive relationship. Not only was he physically and verbally abusive but now I found out that he had been cheating on me our entire relationship. He always had accused me of cheating and now I know why because he was the one truly at fault. I've heard ... (75 words)

Why do exes try harder with someone else?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had an ex who turned up blind drunk on a date, with a friend. Then demanded I take them home. Obviously I stopped seeing him after that. Then months later begged me back, stood me up, gloated about his "new life" and kept sending me various verbally abusive text messages. So ... (77 words)

What to say to queue jumpers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I waited outside in the heat yesterday, to get my book signed by a famous entertainer. I'm heavily pregnant and still people thought of nothing of jumping the queue. I always seem to be an easy target for this sort of Behaviour? I unfortunately couldn't get someone to come ... (62 words)

My boyfriend and his family complain about everything ALL THE TIME!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My BF is a whinner. He is all the time stressed up with everything. He complains about money all the time and I feel that I cant ask for anything. When he is stressed he screams,yells,and break things. I try to make him happy and make him feel ok,but it is getting hard. His ... (165 words)

I feel terrible after viewing porn- what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

7 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so embarrassed, but I have been very sexually frustrated lately (21, virgin) and have unfortunately watched a bit of porn lately. I have only watched it like 5 times in my life, but I was raised that it is wrong (and I totally agree it is) and I always feel sick and ... (100 words)