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Archived questions from: 22 November, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it normal for men to feel insecure in regards to sex toys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

22 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all! I had posted previously about me leaving an abusive relationship. He was very manipulative and plain awful to me. My ex couldnt make me orgasm,so we got a toy to try and help myself, and when he caught me using it he would flip on me, make a scene, storm out of the... (450 words)

Do I go to the party or make an excuse not to go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice on what to do. I was seeing someone from work for about 5 months. He left 2 months after we got together and i left a month later. We were a tight group at work and we both still see the gang we worked with regularly. At first we kept our relationship a ... (284 words)

I've never experienced intimacy with a person and don't know how to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

22 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello My problem is I’ve been rejected by girls sooooo many times in my life that I’m no longer able to be attracted to them. I literally don’t like people anymore and I don’t know what to do. And if someone shows interest in me I shun them or give them reasons to not invest i... (616 words)

I don't want to seem too needy or clingy... What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for the past 7 months. We have had our ups and downs but things are good now. He says he loves me and I love him. I am somewhat insecure about the relationship and we have both had some trust issues because of past relationships. We both took ... (483 words)

Trying to save my marriage. Husband calls me names for having had sexual partners before we met. Help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

22 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband for 7 years and we have been together for 14. We have 4 children together. Recently, he has told me that he wants to leave me because I had sex with multiple people (a total of 6, including 2 one night stands) before we were together, which I ... (167 words)

I accidentally missed a call from a guy I'm interested in. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy tried to call me late last night. What should I say to him? I met this guy last weekend, and we have been texting each other quite a lot this week. I texted him last night, asking him what he was doing, and he said he was going playing snooker. I'm assuming he was ... (341 words)

Is this gay guy seriously blowing hot and cold, or was I off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - So I met this guy, we hooked up, he refused to kiss because he said he was in love with his best friend in another country, who was also in a relationship. He said he wouldn’t kiss because he felt like he was betraying his best friend (!!!!). Alarm bells slightly went off at ... (303 words)

Desperately craving attention and affection from my girlfriend. Is it her, or our circumstances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

22 November 2013 (M)

- Hi everyone, thank you for your thoughts, I really need your help... I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years. Incredible start to the relationship, it was exciting, such a buzz, never-ending sex, fun, we were students and we met up at the weekends as much as possible. Th... (504 words)

Fighting! Now I remind him of his ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

22 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now. Our way of handling stress is much different. I'm suprised we've lasted this long. He is hot headed to the point where he says and does the first thing on his mind. I am pretty quick tempted as well but I've learned to ... (221 words)

What can I do really quickly to improve my skin? I am attending a wedding and I have too many pimples and other issues.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

22 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi friends. My problem may sound really silly but I really need some help please. I have a marriage ceremony to attend day after tomorrow and I have soooo many pimples on my forehead. I understand that having pimples is normal but it’s too much and some of them have even tur... (149 words)

Three days ago I suffered a miscarriage. Do I tell my ex bf/good friend I miscarried his baby?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend and I are 11 years a part, Im 18. We dated secretly to avoid the scandel as we knew he was moving away in december. Last week he ended it early and we are still on really good terms. Its tricky when we both are attracted to each other still but we get on re... (176 words)

Its great that he's a good dad, but I want to feel important too!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years has a 2 year old daughter. I have changed myself to accept this situation and moved past it. But now, when he invites me to hang out with them, i usually don't bc i don't like how it makes me feel around them. And i don't mind him spending time with her. ... (174 words)

How do I approach the topic of sex without hurting his feelings/pride?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I putting too much pressure on us both? Dear Cupid, After a long distressing relationship and a painful break up with a dead-beat guy about half a year ago now, I finally met someone wonderful who I adore. He's kind, funny and so sweet. He was a virgin when we met, a... (331 words)

Is this likely to be true? Will I end up alone as a cat woman, with no one who ever wants me? How do I find someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I can't say this to anybody I know because it really does sounds so pathetic and I know it shouldn't bother me this much.. So I am 18 years old, and I have never had a proper boyfriend (I.e someone I can connect to ect.). And it is starting to get me really down- I try not ... (223 words)