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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What kind of porn do straight girls watch?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - What kind of porn do straight girls watch? And how often do they do it?... (15 words)

Doggy style and the problems that go along with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm worried about me and my partner's sex life and I need help. Our favourite position is doggy style it's one of the only ones that work for him and i constantly have trapped air as in fanny farts. I constantly feel like I need to expell it. After a while my vagina goes really ... (118 words)

Why he is making a big deal over a missed call from me? We are friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Cupid, I have a question. I'm really good friends with this guy that I've known for a little over a year. We hang out and talk on the phone regularly. We haven't dated at all, except remain best friends and I'd like to keep it that way. Last week I attended a party... (192 words)

Should I leave him alone to stop being desperate, or be always after him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, My x said that he loves me I do too., but he keeps on flirting. Whenever I talk to him, he doesnt wanna talk, he seems like a bad mood, but whenver he's in a good mood he wanna talk and that gets annoying, so should I leave him alone to stop being desperer... (62 words)

She won't go out with me because her friend likes me. I'm fed up of considering other people's thoughts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have finally met another girl I really like after I had a bad experience 6 months ago. We get on really well but when I asked her on a date recently she replied. "I would love to however, one of my friends really likes you. I knew this before we were good friends, im sorr... (116 words)

My moms health is getting worse and she refuses to see a doctor?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I could really use some advice. My mom is not well. She has some kind of mood disorder which causes her to cry, lash out in extreme anger, and then be perfectly fine. Sometimes all of these moods happen in the same day. I have asked a doctor, who told me she is not bi-po... (217 words)

How do I know when a boy likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - How to get a boy to love me and how to know when a boy loves me ... (17 words)

I think I'm in love with my brother's best friend's brother's very male best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I'm in love with my brother's best friend's brother's very male best friend. I only really got to know him because I have to pick up my little brother (Freddie) from his best friend's (Leo) house. I've always disliked Leo's older brother, and found his friends anno... (257 words)

I want to give my b/f a bj for his birthday. Need advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i'll try to keep this short so as not to take up your time. me and my boyfriend are quite intimate already, the only problem is, is that it's always my boyfriend doing everything, he's always pleasuring me (i say it's a problem!) But anyway, it's coming up to o... (127 words)

He is draining me of energy with his constant need of attention!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now, we are both in our 40s, I have children but he doesn't. We live in different towns around 30 mins drive away. I would say we see each other around 3-4 times a week depending on his football plans. When we first started dating h... (298 words)

How Do I Prove To Women That I've Finally Matured?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I let a really good opportunity slip years ago when I might have had the chance to have a girlfriend, and now I'm determined not to make the same mistake again. My question is how do I show women that I've matured and am not the rotten person I once was? I used to believe that ... (116 words)

I want to earn money and get experience but can't find anything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - so i feel a little deflated because i am unable to study in the usa in the fall. i still plan on studying in the usa but i just can't afford it at the moment. i have no job and no money i don't feel depressed just down a little. i want to do something in graphic design a... (87 words)

Fiance blames me and calls me dumb

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My partner and I have been together for 6 years and recently, we are engaged and going to get married soon. However, things been up and down and I've been feeling really confused and depressed and started to doubt. I'm afraid, worried and insecure in my relationsh... (351 words)

I told my girlfriend I am gay and don't know how to comfort her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I just told my girlfriend that I am gay. It pretty much killed her and I feel like shit. I know I had to do it and it was the hardest thing that I have ever had to do. I stay with her to comfort her but I don't really know how or what to say. I keep telling her that it will get ... (73 words)

Am I crazy to make a 6 hour drive to see her graduate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Scenario: After meeting her through a friend at a salsa event, we connected through Facebook. I live about 6 hours way. I picked her up from her flight after New Years so she could take her week long course. I hosted her when she was back for a networking, and it was reall... (176 words)

Do men bond more during sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this guy have been seeing each other for over a month now and we've been having sex consistently.So far its all going very well and he tells me how much he likes me and cares about me. Each sex session has been really intense and I can't seem to get enough of him... i ... (169 words)

My bf has accounts on dating sites -- how should I handle it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend are engaged and have been togather for along time. every thing seems to be great we rarely ever get in to big fights. But i saw on facebook that he is using this app called zoosk witch is a dating website. and his bestfriend witch is also now my bestfriend ... (145 words)

What do you think about a guy who's ever even kissed a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hello i'm 21 years old and i never been in relationship, never had sex or even kissed a girl. some girls told me i'm handsome and cute and i really thnik so, but when is time to talk wuth them and ask them out ,i feel weakness from inside. and i need your truth opinion wh... (81 words)

Is it wrong to send flirty messages when one is married and the other involved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age - Question I trust my guy of over 16 months but angers me that he send flirty suggestive taggs to one particular woman and she sends them back, she is married. I feel this is sends out the wrong message and when I sat down and talked with him about it he said he is tired of me ... (148 words)

Friend's troubled relationship...what do I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please advice what to do!! This guy has gotten inside my friends head and is messing with her mentally and emotionally, and probably has no idea... Basically she's seeing this guy, they both made the effort a few times to see each other since they don't live close to each ot... (454 words)

We're friends with benefits but I think I'd like to be in a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Im 16 ad male, she is 16 as well! One night we were at a party and she told me that she had given up on relationships because so many of hers had failed. I said to her that i k ew what she meant! She then told me that she wanted a friend with benefits. Any the convorsation ... (155 words)

Is my boyfriend disrespectful and controlling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think my boyfriend is disrespectful and controlling ?. He is much older than me. Yesterday, when i was at his house, he was angry and he said " you act like a teenage autistic girl ". I have never been diagnosed with autism, so i don't know what made him say that. Also, ... (413 words)

Is he just missing what he had, or does he really think we can try again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Does he just think we can.get back.together forget the past and play happy family's? My.ex and I broke up 6 mths ago. It was I who ended.it as he hadn't treated me very well during our 8 yr relationship. To cut a long story.short, we had 2 kids. He lived with his mum on/ off as ... (208 words)

I need help deciding whether to end my 6 year relationship or not....

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Contemplating ending a 6 year relationship with a good man who loves me. Nobody's perfect and I have ongoing beefs with him but he is loyal and true and MAY be doing his best to make me happy-- I need your input to decide. We have very different backgrounds. He's Latin from ... (814 words)

What are the chances my girlfriend still loves her ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - this is a question going out to the ladies out there, can you go from a 4 year relationship to a new relationship (say within 1 year) and love the new guy? To make the story short, I basically starting going out with a girl who got out of 4 year relationshp aprox 1 year ago... (178 words)

What makes a man want a FWB and not a relationship?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone just a quick question all the guys I meet only want a fwb, what makes a man want a fwb with you but not actually a proper relationship? thank you ... (32 words)

I don't want my mom to wear a bikini on holiday, its so embarassing!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Having some trouble with my mom. What should I do? My mom, my younger brother and I will be going to Hawaii soon. I'm 15 years old. I'm all excited about going to Hawaii but I'm not happy with my mom buying a two piece bikini. She's in her early 40s and she got breast implants... (114 words)

Do most relationships end when one of you goes to college/university?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a wonderful girl though a friend 4 months ago, and that was it. We see eachother most nights and all weekend and it's just great. I'm really fussy but she is just perfect and she tells me i am the perfect guy that every girl dreams of. Her family love me ( apparently they ... (305 words)

Should I give my ex another chance? I love him but I'm not his number one priority....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused about giving my ex another chance. We went out for about 10 months but it felt longer. We were an odd couple but ended up being a cute couple we did a lot of things together. Our families loved us. His friends loved me but mine not so much. We even had plans of ... (180 words)

My boyfriend wont let me speak to any guys, not even to help out my friends!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiii dear cupid..my question is why boyfriends are so possessive..im in a relationship..my bf is kind such a lovely guy..we met online on facebook..he doesnt allow me to talk with any boy..i accept this but there was a friend of mine who want my help..he broke up with his ... (212 words)

He gets his kicks from sex but I don't get mine! How can I get him to pay more attention to my needs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

9 May 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I have been posted a question but I found no response. I am trying to know that what is missing in our love relation. My hubby is very hot for sex. He likes sex, and lots of it. I found him sexualy hot but not emotionaly.he cares about my happines but I am no... (90 words)

She has been playing games and wont commit, now she has deleted me off Facebook! Should I call her in a few weeks? Or do I let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well this story starts off with when i got broken up with a year ago and i got a message saying "hey your cute." I thought really nothing of it so i decided to just say thanks. So low in behold a year later during christmas we start talking we talked for about a week and then ... (915 words)

Did I make the right decision by asking the question I was afraid to have an answer to?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I just cornered my boyfriend of a year and a half and asked of he saw a future with me. He said he can't make me any promises and that his future is shady - but that he loves me My gut has been fearing this for awhile. He told me to get Some sleep and we will talk about i... (141 words)

How do I deal with this girl? She is always judging me because of one comment I made!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this other girl who's 2 years older than me (let me say she's Girl A) at school. She always judges me and claims bad things about me. We are both acapella singers, so we are part of the school choir. Last week friday we had music competitions at my school, we were ... (258 words)

My friends and family always seem to call me when I'm with my boyfriend! Is it rude to tell them not to call me when I'm away with him this weekend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - It seems like everytime I hangout with my boyfriend my friends and family all seem to call and text me. Sometimes it is just a weird coincidence. My one friend likes to call me a lot. I plan on staying with my boyfriend this weekend. My question is, Is it rude to ask my friends ... (108 words)

Boyfriend is ready to lose his virginity to me, but I'm not ready! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a virgin and a teenager. My boyfriend is also a virgin but he's ready to lose his virginity to me. But Im not ready. And he gets sexually frustrated. What Am I suppose to do?... (36 words)

I made a horrible mistake, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone,my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years,and due to college we are doing long distance. For the past few months,his best friend keeps telling me that i should find a guy and maybe kiss since i havent seen my boyfriend in a long time,i repeatdly said i ... (334 words)

My ex has really damaged me emotionally and I'm struggling to move on, how do I figure all of this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and me dated for almost 2 years. He had a serious drug addiction, everything was fine for the beginning, we had our problems and he would have anger spurts a lot, it was a constant rollercoaster ride considering he relapsed a few times, which altered his ... (771 words)

I've never had a girlfriend, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - ive never had a girlfriend but i do like someone. i need help because never done this before. im not looking for sex. i just want to know that i love her and she love me. how do i ask her out. is there something wrong with me to for never having a girlfriend... (55 words)

This is my second marriage, what's the right way to go about it? Is it inappropriate to make a registry,have the shower, get the big dress, have the ceremony with attendants, and the traditional reception?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I are getting married. We are so excited!!! The problem is. This will be my 2nd marriage and his first. I don't know how to approach the planning process. My fiance and his family want to experience all the joys of a first time wedding. The traditional bridal ... (212 words)

I'm dating 3 guys and having sex with them all!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - well im currently dating 3 guys and have sex with all, im not proud of it , but i was the average good girl who loved a guy with my all, and in return he cheated and caused lots of heart aches,anyhow i started of as friends with all and well, i feel love for each of them, i ... (107 words)

Is it true, what my doctor says, that erectile dysfunction is just a part of ageing, and is not a result of any medical problem?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (M)

age - Do you think is this true, what my doctor says, the erectile dysfunction is just a part of aging, and its not a result of any medical problem? I have very sever erectile dysfunction, and a total lack of desire. He checked everything , did go to urologist too.And everything is ... (140 words)

Self esteem problems, especially around my fiance's thin, beautiful friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have some big problems with self esteem. I am 20y/o and engaged to a lovely young man who I love dearly. We have a fantastic relationship. My problem is about his female friends. He's the sort of guy who has primarily lady friends but never dates them. We are all going out ... (213 words)

Should I try and get over him? Or wait and see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok sorry its long. in the end of 2009 a guy that is friends of my family and i started talking. we both flirted but he was living in AZ n me in IA, he came back and visited and he came over and we hung out, drank a little and played Rock Band, nothing happen between us. He ... (458 words)

I know I am the only woman he is seeing but I cant stand his online flirting! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age - What do I do been with this guy for 16 months friends with benefits, I have feelings for him but not in love with him, I cannot get him to show affection, he wants a relationship wants me to act as a normal friend should and wants no committal, he is site tagg and flirts by ... (170 words)

I cant imagine life without him, but I feel like breaking up with him is something I have to do. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know if I'm in love with my boyfriend anymore. We've been together for 2 years and we've been through A LOT together, so much crap a relationship shouldn't have to withstand. For about 2 months I've been thinking about how I want us to break up because I don't think ... (774 words)

Fiance won't leave his ailing mother to move in with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been with my fiance for 4 years. i am 41 and he is 49. he is my true soulmate and we have been very happy together.unfortunately he lost his dad 2 years ago and his mum became unwell so my fiance decided to move back home and look after his mum. she has asthma and ... (166 words)

Boyfriend says he loves me yet is always insisting that he has to put up with "so many of my problems".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years. We don't live together, but he spends the night some, and he does little to help me around the house because it is not "his place". He is 35, I am 41. I have been married before, and have two children, he has never been ... (436 words)

I just got married but had a fantasy of kissing my husband's friend. Whats wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always been someone who has felt a great deal of guilt, and lately this problem has come back to bite me. I'm wondering if I have overreacted. I recently got married to the most wonderful man in the world. It was a small wedding, and the service was beautiful. After... (181 words)

I'm unsure if my boyfriend is over his ex or not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My current boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. There have been a few things that have happened lately that have made me wonder if he is over his ex or not. I will write out the clues and would be able to tell me your opinion on this situatio... (373 words)

Boyfriend avoiding me, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid I feel for the past few days my bf is avoiding me. I know after 2 years relationship, i am not expecting him to text me or call me every few hours. But i do expect him to listen and talk to me when we are together. He is not paying attension to me at all, h... (151 words)