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anonymous
writes:Does he just think we can.get back.together forget the past and play happy family's? My.ex and I broke up 6 mths ago. It was I who ended.it as he hadn't treated me very well during our 8 yr relationship. To cut a long story.short, we had 2 kids. He lived with his mum on/ off as he is 42 and was always reluctant to committ. His mum is no longer with us and left him her home which he sold. He moved in with us and we were a family for a time. Until things turned sour and weren't going his way. He.wanted me to give up my.job and be a stay at home mum. He had a awful temper so after another outburst I ended it. He bought a new home and moved out. He went out his way.to make it seem he was happy, filling it with.posh.furniture etc. Now he has decided to ask if I could ever love him.again. for me I feel he has moved out and how can you.continue a relationship once its gone wrong, but he says he will never give up. Is this a phase of him missing what he had or foes he really think its possible to try again..
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reader, nobu  +, writes (10 May 2012):
the only thing you can do is to follw your hearth if you still love him give your relationship onother chance perhaps you minght go far this time
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reader, oldbag +, writes (10 May 2012):
 Hi
He probs sat in his new house with new furniture and thought how empty it all is. Thats not your problem. He did not buy the house for his kids,you and him,was happy to live at yours, he has a bad temper,is controlling and he has never committed to you 100% in EIGHT YEARS. What is there left to go back to for you? Ignore him is best but its up to you,do you think he will ever change.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 May 2012):
 he probably misses what you had
he wants to try again
BUT he's probably not going to change... I'd be very wary of letting him back in..
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (9 May 2012):
 Why didn't he buy a new house for you and the kids??
Commitment phobes never change. Unless he's shown proof that he's serious I would just ignore him.
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