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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Online dating..what kind of men should I stay away from?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age - I have had my share of bad men now I am on an online dating site well thought 2 were intersted that did not work I cannot seem to pick myself back up and keep at it what kinds of online dating sites would be good for me. I am single 50 mother of an 19 year old special need... (133 words)

Is he asking me if I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I was wondering what this means sometimes when I am in bed with my fwb if I tell him I love him doing whatever he is doing he looks at me and asks me what else I love n then grins at me what do you think he means by this thank you ... (55 words)

Could this gym instructor like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all, Just after some advice. I signed up to a gym a few weeks ago, had my induction with one of the gym instructors, who I then had a personal training session with a few days ago. Thing is i quite like this guy and not sure whether he likes me too. Since the ind... (241 words)

Should I dress up and a nurse? or french maid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for a year and I am trying to spice it up a bit I am planning on dressing up for him and surprising him but I was wondering what is a guys favourite a nurse french maid? Any answers would be greatly appreciated thank you :)... (53 words)

Our past is preventing our future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like our past is preventing our future. We have gone through a seperation before. It's seems as if our past just keeps haunting us. No matter what we fight about the past always comes up. I feel as though I let my husband come back out of pity and being lonely. I am so ... (159 words)

my instinct tells me he is unstable but is it abusive ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I will try and condense a story and I feel that I would really like to know peoples opinion on whether the would regard the following abusive.I have been seeing a Italian man aged 41 .our relationship gas been great and enjoyable until a few days ago when he came back after a ... (425 words)

A man I had an affair with will not leave me alone and I'm getting scared!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there, everyone... The situation in nutshell: I am married, but for over a year we were separated: we lived separately and led separate lives. During this time, I met John (a friend of a friend), we went out for a while, but I broke it off (admittedly, we had sex). Well, ... (289 words)

Why are all the men she knows named Scott? Its starting to sound very suspicious

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I.ve been dateing this lady for about 3 months now we have a wonderful relationship we spend 5 to 6 nights togather mostley at her house we go to church togather we go out on dates we text each other at least 5 To 10 times throughout the work day. We are very romantic and enjoy ... (345 words)

How do I act around my co-worker now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

2 May 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I was tierd because of my allergy and stuff and at the end of the day I was photocopying stuff when my colleage came and we chatted for a minute or two then I continued with my work, I was reading and then he asked me a question, I lifted my head and simply said : "no", then he ... (199 words)

After giving up a baby now I really want one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I have been with my fiance for 4 years this summer I am 17 and we have lived together since august 2011 and we get on really well. I found out I was pregnant last september but he is still at university and we didn't have the money so his mum said the best thing to do would ... (242 words)

My life is perfect, so why am I so terribly sad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - (This may be long.) Hi, I'm sorry this isn't a relationship question, I just really hope that somebody can help me in some way, shape or form. (Also, please don't let the fact that I'm a teenager bring a judgement that I'm some reckless good for nothing kid, I'm really not.) ... (851 words)

Discovered that my husband is on dating sites and talking about his 'soon to be' ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in need of advice once again. I have wrote on here in the past and I guess here we go again. My husband and I have been married for almost a year. He started out good but as the months went on, he started acting different. Saying things like I need me time. That was f... (301 words)

What's wrong with me? I love her very much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, I love her very much and I know she loves me, she is beautiful,loyal,kind, everything I could ever want, she is the only girl I have ever had sex with, whereas she has had 4 boyfriends previous and 3 other sexual partners, in the ... (151 words)

How would you deal with finding out about a one night stand?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Guys or Gals, please share your thoughts. What if you found out a year into your relationship that your girlfriend or boyfriend had a one night stand after being drunk at a bar with another guy/girl they barely knew only a few weeks before you both became exclusive? Take into ... (95 words)

How do I get over a celebrity crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so yesterday I met the band member i've had a crush on for years, based purely on his appearance, but meeting him yesterday he was one of the most amazing, kind and funny people i've ever met, and I was really taken by him! i use the term celebrity loosely, he's not really ... (193 words)

What do I do when she shows me her boobs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - i send you my problem but it was so short and not telling the hole story so let me explain it completely then i ask you to answer me again pleases : i am an Arab man (but also a Christian). the rules and traditions in my country told men to treat women except their wives as... (1411 words)

He slept with other girls 2 days after we decided to have a break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex had dated for nearly two years. The first year of the relationship was amazing. The second half didn't go well. His life was not full of fun and crazy things anymore. We lived together and he said he didn't had enough freedom to do crazy things with his friends. ... (354 words)

The power of pride or call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i have dated for 8 months and i've got along with him pretty well. The only thing that bothered me was that i had always call him or text him if we should meet. He always answered, but never called or texted me first. I asked him about that and he said that he's used t... (286 words)

We had sex, and do these signs mean anything?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so im 18. I liked this guy which is also my friend... He used to be a womenizer but he changed,he kissed,but he said once he is more for a combination. My friends think he probaly likes me. So anyway we had sex. He slept before with this slut, so basically she ca... (152 words)

She lied to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with the person I love and wanted to be with. We have been in a relationship for a year now and decided to get married as we both are 28 years old and ready to settle down. We were honest to each other and very loving but recently she told me somethi... (203 words)

The girl I like isn't taking me seriously and there aren't many around!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I live on a very small island and theres not much girls but me and my friend to go out with the girls we most like but the one I'm going out with is not taking it seriously and it gets really annoying but there's not much girls on the island and I kind of like her what do I do ... (65 words)

How do I move on, get over him, stop thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with the love of my life about a year ago. He was all good at first, but at the end of our relationship he turned into this horrific monster. I have every right to hate him. But i just cant get over him. I still love him, and im still grieving over him. He has moved ... (277 words)

How can I stay away from the Friend Zone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm tired of being friend zoned by girls. The only time I wasn't friend zoned by a girl was when I was in my rebel years. Back then they were asking me left and right if I had a girlfriend. I was the guy that straight up ignored every girl in sight and I would literally tell ... (353 words)

Should I just be super forward and tell him I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! So i've posted questions in the past relating to my ex-bf, who i was with about 3 and a half years but anyway thats over. The thing is, before I was with my bf there was this guy at college and it was so obvious to everyone we had chemistry (except my ex who wasnt my bf at... (369 words)

Does this guy have more feelings for me, and isn't letting me know about it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy who said he wanted to be friends with benefits with me at first, but i didn't want that, so he said he would just be my friend. I have a boyfriend now though, and he knows this, as he spoke to us both once when we bumped into him in town.He came up to us out ... (162 words)

Help me lie to my mom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have planned an trip with my boyfriend for three days without my parents knowledge now how do i make them believe tat i am gonna go with girls .my mom is telling tat she wil come to the station to drop me but if she cums she wil know the truth tat am going with my boyfriend ... (85 words)

Do all men think about is how to get a girl into bed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm just wondering if all men's goal is to bed a female when they approach them? I feel kind of silly asking this because I know all men want something from the girls that they date... Many of the men that I've dated actually let me know that all they think about in the ... (216 words)

Is it wrong that I love the smell of my girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and me don't really sleep together but every now and again we do get intimate. I have a real fetish of sniffing her knockers though. Is that wrong? She kind of knows I do it but it isn't talked about. I just love the smell of her...... (50 words)

How can people not think of pornography as cheating?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have something bothering me i've read and discussed this and people say that a boyfriend using porn is no different than him imagining someone in his head but I strongly disagree. Masturbating to porn is alot worse it is an actual picture but when you use your mind you have ... (139 words)

Is it too early to ask him where our relationship is heading?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 32 years old and have been dating a guy for 3 months. We get along really well, he does everything "right" - ie texts and calls me every day, makes time to see me as often as possible, is kind and considerate. But something is missing. I am falling in love with him bu... (507 words)

Girlfriend broke things off saying she didn't feel the chemistry anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner of 7 years has just decided she wants to separate. Our relationship has been a tricky one because I had to work away a lot (she had no work, but stayed at home raising our 3 year old). A couple of weeks ago, out of the blue, she announced on the phone that she ... (289 words)

Neighbors are talking down about our family. Should I just overlook it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Like my family, I am educated, good-looking and working women with a good profile in an IT company (where sometimes i hv to work till late). My sis was also working in a 5 star hotel on a good profile. In addition to that we were all rounders of our respective schools ... (243 words)

My husband is out of the country and I'm falling for a co-worker. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! after a year im here again, dearcupid was been my adviser for all of my lovelife and good they dont fail me to help. I am now married for half a year, me and my husband we've been together for 2 years, I love him of course hes been a 20 years older than me, sudd... (328 words)

Be honest: would you date a 24-year old virgin or would you pass her up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - To start off I want a completely honest answer from you guys. Don't tell me what I want to hear, but your real opinion. So, here goes: I'm a 24 year old virgin. Would you be open to dating one? Or would it freak you out? I'm not looking for reassurance, just truth. If you do... (771 words)

Does he expect me to care for him or what? I can't tell from his actions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - yesterday my boyfriend messages me to call him "call me i wanna talk to you" ..he did not have a balance in his phone and was just back from work. he has a shitty life full of financial struggle,hard work and always a negative bal. in his account. we are on a LDR we have bee... (512 words)

Why are people kinder to goodlooking people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey aunties, I was just wondering lately why people ( in general) are nicer to other people who are pretty? In daily life I've noticed this, but I can't really think of why because in this case men who are nicer to beautiful women won't really get anything out of this, and ... (66 words)

She said I was her best boyfriend and then broke it off with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I had been dating this girl for about two months. one day she told me that I'm the most amazing guy she had ever met. She said i'm exactly the kind of guy that she wants to marry and have kids with. Then she told me that she has no feelings for me and broke up with me....She ... (102 words)

I have a narcassistic friend, why do I even care what she says?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So this person and I say person because I hardly would call her a friend these days. Well any ways, I was blessed to get pregnant and have a beautiful girl, long before I had became friends with let's just say "J", J was a really cool person, I considered her a good friend of ... (466 words)

What can I do to help my relationship with my boyfriend get better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What can I do to help my relationship with my boyfriend get better? We have been dating almost a year and I really love and care for him, but lately things have not been goin so well.I want to do something or him to show him I really care for him but I dont know what to do. I ... (168 words)

My boyfriend is really heartless about my feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4617 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age - My boyfriend is really heartless about my feelings. When we have a argument he leaves and ignores all contact from me. Its sad to say but for some reason when I hold my ground and act like a b***h he seems to want me more. However at times when my feelings are hurt and Im ... (90 words)

He respects me when I hold my ground, but when my feelings are hurt, he's heartless

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

Is this a sign of jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a dude that I really like at school. In the morning we do not sit far from each other, but far enough to where we cannot hear one another even if one of us yells because everyone else in the cafeteria is talking. There is something that I have noticed that is ... (389 words)

Should I wait for him to change or just break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4617 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Ive been dating my bf since Feb 14(: He did some things.. He saw me crying this morning about what he did,, At the END of the day he said sorry, he said he will change, and loves me blah blah! I told him he better change, and he says he will.. If he keeps on doin... (99 words)

What is her problem? She ended it and I've stopped replying to her texts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 44 and 17 years older than my gf and was with her for 5 years, until this January when she ended it. She said it wasn’t working out and that she wanted to be on her own. It wasn’t working out because for that entire 5 years she wouldn’t tell anyone we were together. None ... (398 words)

I am confused about my sexuality, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a male in my twenties and i am here because i am completely confused about my sexuality, i'm not even sure if i am gay or not. A couple of years ago i would not even think of asking this question since i was positive that i was 100% straight, i had a girlfriend (who i was ... (274 words)

Does my ex still like me? advice please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend, who is dating my ex best friend at the time, has returned to my life off and on for the past 3 months. She claims she always comes back because she cares about me, and feels that she needs to talk to me. We talk everyday, all day unless she is at work. We hang ... (238 words)

How long do people go when they work in the air force reserve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is enlisting in the Air force reserve and I want to know how long most people are gone for this? I know what they tell you but I know most of it is lies. So if anyone has gone through this or anything please? I'm not even okay with him leaving and don't know what ... (76 words)

My boyfriend will not face his depression, how can I help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. I love him more than anything and I know he loves me too, despite issues he has had in his past that make it hard for him be in love with anyone. He's depressed however, and won't talk to anyone about it but me. He thinks it's a ... (185 words)

How can I spice this relationship up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

2 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, im not sure where to begin, I've been with my boyfrined for 2 years, in these 2 years alot has happend trust issues cheating blah blah blah, weve overcame it, but lately, and this has nothing to do with his chetaing, but my sex drive with him has gone done, its like ... (223 words)

My girlfriend is always with her friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend is always with her friends so I hardly ever get time alone with her what should I do??... (20 words)