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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel attracted to girls and guys and I don't want to hurt my parents if I'm gay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - please help im a female ive had two boyfriends.then in high school i had a crush on my friend sence high school but he said its good that were friends he has a gf but i still have a lil crush on him i see him in collaage. . but the thing is that for some times i feel like im ... (122 words)

Will I be more than just a hook up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have fallen for my sometimes hook up. We see each other only a few times a month. We chat every other day or so. He is not into having a relationship. I knew this and was ok but something about him is so amazing other than sex. I tried to break things off by telling him I ... (181 words)

My wife had sex with 10 guys by the time she was 19 Is that normal?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 35 and my wife is 34, and she has had sex with 11 men in her life including me. That might not sound like a massive number of partners relative to her age, but the other 10 guys were all between the ages of 15-19. From 19-30 she was with one boyfriend, before meeting ... (176 words)

He asked me out, broke up with an email then said he never felt anything for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Really hope you can help me! I can't stop feeling down about something that happened quite a while ago. I was seeing this guy, it was my very first relationship so quite a significent moment in my life. I used to let guys pick me up and drop me because it felt comfortable (my ... (298 words)

How can my husband say he loves me when he is seeing someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Here's my situation. I have been married for 13 yrs. Three out of these years my husband and I have been apart. He rented a house but still comes here and sleep at times. We have four kids. When I asked him where are we going with our lives he says he plans to spend the ... (262 words)

Am I wrong to want sex most times we see each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, wondering whether I can get any good advice. I'm 37 and my girlfriend is 36. We've been together 8-months and we're definitely at the in love stage. I've just one little worry... Due to our work patterns we usually only get to see each other once or twice a week. Th... (456 words)

How to suggest sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to have sex with my girlfriend,I dont want to be forceful or anything and im not sure how to ask...... (22 words)

One time with oral sex and now he says we shouldn't do it again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been having troubles with my relationship (if you can call it that). Lets call the person I dated Mark. Mark is 18, I am almost 17. Mark and I have known each other for about 3 years. We had become really good friends. About 4 months ago we started kinda flirting... (325 words)

I've fallen for my 26 year old communication teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This is about another young adult going crazy over a matured teacher. More specifically, about a 22 year old post grad student falling for a 26+ year old communications skills teacher. She was a replacement teacher, who took very few (only three) sessions with us. In the ... (390 words)

My girlfriend hasn't been herself since her grandmother died

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, back in March my girlfriend's great grandma died, and she was very close to her. She was sad for about a week, and then she started to be normal again. Then all of a sudden one day she just starts acting different and not happy. Then eventually we went on a "break" and ... (278 words)

Does it seem like he likes me? How do I get his number? And how do I show him I like him without telling him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Helloo :) my crush is in the year above of me. We only talk in person (which I prefer to be honest) Because he is in the year above, he is in none of my lessons, however we walk home together sometimes. He flirts with me alot, he is playful like tripping me up, chucking things ... (564 words)

Why don't I feel what I should be feeling for my lovely boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, okay so just going to jump straight in to this... Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now and he is genuinely the nicest, kindest, most thoughtful person I have ever met, he treats me better than anybody ever has in past relationships an... (209 words)

I feel like I'm not getting a fair chance to be her husband.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I got married in No. of 2011 and recently bought our first house. Life is good. However recently Ive felt that things have changed with her. Im 31, shes 27, weve been together almost 3 years (we met in college but didnt get together till later). After we got ... (707 words)

My exboyfriend won't talk to me because of this bad rumour!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am an 18 year old teenager whom was dating an 18 year old boy in my school...we have been dating for 5 months and fighting alot but that has not stopped me from loving him,he tried breaking up with me 3times until we decided to let go and be friends but now there is a bad ... (122 words)

Is it me? Is it all his stress? Why couldn't he get hard and why haven't I heard from him since then?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been having this affair with a married man for 8years..he also has another girl on the side that he has gotten pregnant twice..I believe his wife is leaving him and he is under some stree..we have sex at least once a week..lately it's been like every other week but he is ... (241 words)

Told my guy friend I like him. He only likes me as a friend but is jealous of my new guy friend. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. Can you all tell me why a guy who has a girlfriend is jealous that I am going out with another guy? We have been really good friends for a long time. I developed feelings for him and told him how I felt. He told me he was seeing someone but wanted to still be f... (225 words)

What are the pro's and con's of having a fake relationship with my gay friend to trick his mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I've been really close friends with this guy since 6th grade, we're both now in 9th, and he's gay. He recently told his mother about himself. She was very angry about it and yelled at him about how he's never even experienced with a girl and that she would send him to ... (256 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend that I'm moving away and wont be coming back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been in a relationship with a guy for some months now, we started dating when we were schooling together. We are happy together but the problem is, i have moved to a different country and i dont think i'll be returning due to some pesonal issues. He thinks i'll be returning. ... (83 words)

Lump on my foot, what could this be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm just wondering what this could be my feet were all normal until one day I got a sharp pain on the side or my pinky toe and since then I never took noticed but I have like a lump inside my skin which has nothing in it like a splinter or what not but it's just seems like ... (132 words)

Ex Boyfriend wants to be friends after mother dies....is there hope? Or this is the end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - ....We met when he was going through a devorce...5 years ago.it was amazing and magical....i didnt open up to him too much due to past relationships...i wanted to know if he was worth me doing so...i was not ready for a relationship....he was everything a woman would ... (1104 words)

Is this a sign he doesn't want to be seen with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - ...Still close with my Ex, do everything together...but he didn't invite me to his Birthday Party...? My ex split up with me a year and a half ago, his mum died and he felt like he could not handle a relationship no more. I respected his wishes and moved out and got on wit... (440 words)

He's going on the cruise we planned to go on together without me! Am I wrong to be upset with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. A few months into our relationship his sister invited him on a cruise because his nephew couldn't go at the last minute. At the same time he got laid off from his job so the getaway was good for him. Earlier this year he ... (568 words)

My boyfriend was ill on my birthday and I didnt get to see him, should I be mad at him for this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think i should be mad at my boyfriend for this ?. He has been ill with flu for a few days, and it was my birthday yesterday, but he didn't meet up with me. I was supposed to go round to his house for a few hours. I wanted to go out somewhere with him for a few hours, ... (509 words)

How do you ask to have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - When you meet a girl and you hook up (for this example kissing) how do you go further past kissing?! For example I went to a concert and I was a little drunk when i was talking to this girl I met. We danced and then we started to make out. I personally have never asked a girl ... (199 words)

My partner as just started army training.. Does this get any easier?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been with my partner for 2 months now and before we got together we spoke loads and he told me he had applied for the army. I told him I would stick by him with whatever decision he makes. He went to army training and has been there a week and I'm finding it so hard at the ... (132 words)

I don't feel good enough for my boyfriend after his comments about these models and how he wanted to give me 'the boot'....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I really hope someone can give me some advice with my problem..here goes..! I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years and it has been a great relationship. Before we got together he had a reputation of being a flirt, even when he had a girlfr... (501 words)

How can I get girls to think I'm mature rather than thinking I'm an asshole?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i am very social have a bunch of friends but when theres a girl i like there are few that understand my humor. most girls when im trying to flirt with them they think im being an asshole. every once in awhile ill find a girl whos cute and doesnt think im an asshole but thats ... (91 words)

How can I save our relationship and make him trust me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age - I've lied to my partner for nearly 2 years now about my online activities, and after so many fights and break ups I finally came clean and told him the truth,(but still left out a few things as to not hurt his feelings). He did not and still won't believe me. I am not a liar. ... (186 words)

For those of you who are sucessful in love: How did you do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have noticed that so many people (me included) are suffering when it comes to love. Maybe we are just doing all the wrong things. Maybe there is more to love than pure chance. One way to be successfull I've heard is to pay attention to what successfull people do and th... (270 words)

Do women really hate porn?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have lot of porn dvds at home. My wife rarely watches it. My question is, do all women hate to watch porn or is it some?. If some women like porn what are the categories they like to watch. say, lesbian, taboo, straight, BDSM, oral.... ... (48 words)

How could you tell a girl is gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, Okay, i've been working with a client and that girl is managing that campaign. We've had one meeting and one time speaking on the phone. She's so lovely. Well i'm a girl and i consider myself straight who has dated only guys. But i do fancy girls sometimes. And t... (137 words)

He only gave me his number once he saw what car I was driving, should I call him or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I met this guy through a mutual friend at her birthday party. We danced several times at the party. When the party was over he said if I needed to get in touch with him I could from our mutual friend. As I was leaving the party he noticed I was driving a nice ... (117 words)

He had my first name and last name as a status on Facebook, did this mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been thinking about this for a long time now and maybe I'm over analyzing this but just wanted to get someones point of view. So a few months ago I was at school and I was with a group of people talking and laughing and I made some new friends. Well I looked them up to add ... (180 words)

Does he really care or is he messing with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - In high school I was apart of the theatre and stage crew. I met my tech director at 16 and he was 22. Technically he's an employee of the school district and I know that nothing could have happened while I was in school. Parents, students, administrators all thought we were ... (199 words)

Are my standards too high?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Konbanwa, Mina-san! Ogenki desu ka? Shiawase! Lol, ----- is teaching myself japanese. Anyway, I have a question So I have a friend, let's call him Mick I have known Mick ever since middle school. I always thought he was sexy and had a little crush on him but I... (401 words)

Surely if he was interested he would at least text me once a week? Or is this just his way of taking things slow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am really confused. I am gay and I have been seeing this guy off and on since February. We hung out every weekend in February and then he said he needed some time to concentrate with college work (which I definitely understand due to the intensity of his work). So about ... (433 words)

His Mom does not like me. What can I do to appease her? Or get her to trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (?) age 26-29 - This is going to be long, so please dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, bear with me. My boyfriend and I have been dating eleven months, we are 15 and 16, we have boundaries and we're not crossing them, this really isn't a sex question, its more about seeking advice on all the othe... (719 words)

My ex lover is married and looking to continue the relationship....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I was sleeping with my best friend for 2 1/2 yrs after he broke up with his ex girl after 7 yrs of an on and off again relationship. We had a great time together. We are compatible and love each others company, sex was awesome but it would have never worked according to him ... (651 words)

Why has my friend done a 180 on her attitude to sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've had this friend (we're both straight females, just to take that out of the equation) for many, many MANY years. She's always been - well - 'easy' (for lack of a better/nicer term). She's divorced and has a couple young kids but none of that info has ever really slowed ... (284 words)

How do I trust my husband to look but not touch? I'm so insecure since I gave birth to our daughter....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do I get so upset everytime my husband looks at another woman? Ever since I gave birth to our daughter I have been sensitive about how my body has changed. It has made me so depressed that I don't even want to go to the beach or anywhere in public for that matter. There ... (167 words)

In a great relationship for 3 years, but I feel I have missed out on playing the field! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4611 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - soo i have a relationship with a beautiful woman and have been for three years...the thing is i like looking at other woman and have a huge interest in talking to other women but i havent cheated on her physically or even went through with talking to other women. i cant imagine ... (123 words)

He likes me...I like his friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so i'm 15, and friends with 2 guys on my bus. The one guy will be called R, the other M. R is...for lack of a better word, a creep. He latches on to girls he likes, and acts really creepily around them. He begs them to go out with him when they reject him. He says really ... (386 words)

Is he only settling for me until he gets his ex back, or finds someone better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello,I have a problem which I'm sure many women will know what I'm going on about. Here goes.. My partner was with someone for 13 year(they got togther young) had a child,I was with my sons dad for 8 year,anyway thing is I can truly say I didn't love my ex but my partner tells ... (696 words)

I've been interested in my friend for over 3 years and our mutual friend asked me not to tell her yet, only for me to find out that he's been having sex with her!! I feel so betrayed by both of them!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been interested in a girl for over three years. I've never looked at another woman the same way. We are very good friends and we share a mutual friend. The reason I never said anything to her was because I discussed it with our mutual friend and he told me that not ... (143 words)

My boyfriend and I no longer have sex and when I asked him for suggestions to this problem, he said "do whatever makes you happy."

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

17 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a committed gay relationship for over 5 years now. My boyfriend and I no longer have sex, and it's been long past a year since we have done anything sexual with each other at all. We have discussed it several times, he even went to a doctor. Essentially what... (132 words)

I cant trust my boyfriend because he cheated years ago! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I've got an insecurity problem. We've been dating with my bf for 6 and half years the first 3 years I was leaving in hell, he cheated with a women 5 years older than him as I was dating him an they had a child. My values is that when I get into a relation I asked ... (198 words)

My boyfriend thinks I cheated on him but I didn't!! I was with the other guy just to pick out a birthday gift for my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 18 and my Boyfriend and I have been dating since we were 15. His birthday is coming up in about 3months and I wanted to get him something special for his birthday. And he's been wanting a guitar since forever. So I was planning on getting him one. And I have a really ... (139 words)

Is it wrong to have doubts in your relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

17 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong to have doubts in your relationship? I love my boyfriend, very much, but I find myself second guessing things. We started out amazing! We both felt an instant click and in no time at all it was like we had known each other for years. The first time I told him I ... (419 words)