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Archived questions from: 6 May, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What can I say over Facebook to start a conversation with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, so basicly ther is this girl i find realy attractive who i have met once through a lass i know, basicly, what can i say to her over facebook to start a conversation? possibly get her number? that kind of thing. She is younger than me by couple of years, so that right th... (376 words)

Is moaning during kissing normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Just a simple question..... i was going out with this guy and well he took me to the movies and dinner but then when he drove me home we started kissing and well as were maaking out he was moaning i thought it was wierd. We had only been tpgether for three weeks. Do all guys do ... (103 words)

I don't know what to do with our relationship anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend keeps telling me and everyone else how he's so in love with me and stuff but for some reason i dont believe it...i love him more than anything and i would do anything for him..he has anxiety which causes him to have mild depression sometimes and i understand ... (163 words)

It hurts me so much that we can be together and then she does these things behind my back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend for a month so far we (dated for 3 years she left me for another man back together after a year) keeps on talking too other men dirty and has cheated on me with one in the last month. And swears she will change and i forgive like always. I have found on her fb ... (156 words)

I need the followup text to the girl I met! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3623 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Last night was my first time at a nightclub in LA and a girl came up to me within my first 5 minutes of being there and asked if I'd like to come dance with her friends (it was one of her friends bachelloretes party) I complied and she started getting pretty heavy with the ... (276 words)

Help me, he's been on gay dating sites and has been texting other guys.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am in a relationship with a guy from my school.... I didnt want an official relationship but he basically begged, so a few months ago I said okay to it. A little backgroun -- we met last year, started dating, caught him using gay dating websites online when he would sa... (682 words)

I find our 3 year relationship boring but am afraid of leaving b/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years now. The last 6 months I have not been feeling the same. He is a lovely guy and I know he loves me but I find our relationship quite boring, I don't have any want to have sex with him (and we haven't for a while now) ... (462 words)

Co-worker acted like a jerk, everyone finally found out and now he's changed. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a good friend or so i thought at work i really cared for him and helped him so much with work, money a hell of a lot then i noticed the lies black lies not just fibs then i found out he was badmouthing me to colleagues and management i did everything i could for him so ... (106 words)

How to deal with a toxic mother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello aunts and uncles, I am in a situation, which I'm unsure how to deal with and wondered if anybody who has any experience of this, could offer any advice? It's very complicated and the details go back years, but I'll try to keep it to the main facts and if you nee... (842 words)

I think I'm too clingy with my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel to clingy or more into my boyfriend than he is with me...we have dating for almost a year and we both finished our first Yeats of college..but our colleges were two hours away..the first semester we saw each other every weekend then the second srmessemester probably 1 to ... (136 words)

How should I have acted when I found out girlfriend had one night stands before me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - in my previous relationship (recently ended) i got really annoyed when i saw people that my girlfriend (at the time) had sex with (always friends with benefits/1 night stands) (i was her first proper boyfriend) i would always get in a mood and go quiet and get angry how should ... (85 words)

He has a girlfriend and keeps asking me for naked pictures

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy I was talking to recently got out of a long term relationship and he has kids with this woman. A few months ago he decided to get back with her because he didn't want to pull his kids away from their mother. Since they got back together we have decided to just be ... (103 words)

Is 20 too young to be a dad and support a family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, My story is long, its like a fairytale still waiting for a happy ending. Me and my girlfriend meet randomly at the new york subway last year, me from scandenavia and shes a carabieen raised in england. We dind know anything about eachother at the time, not age nothing, but ... (454 words)

I'm thinking of my boyfriend's brother during sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I've been having really weird thoughts about my boyfriend's brother and it's actually starting to worry me. My boyfriend and his brother are hardly anything alike. Looks or personality wise. In fact, people joke that one of them is adopted. So it's not that he remi... (230 words)

How to I get my point across to my g/f about her drinking without upsetting her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (M) age 36-40 - A little backstory: Because of family history and other reasons, I do not drink. I don't tell others not to drink (though I may try and limit when I can tell they are going overboard). Last summer, my gf went on a trip to a foreign country. Up to that point, I did not know that ... (708 words)

Fascinated by lesbians but not sure if I'm gay

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm really confused about my sexuality at the minute, I am so fascinated by lesbians everytime I see one or lesbian a couple I cant stop looking, it sounds really weird I know but I cant help it. I also don't enjoy sex or anything with guys but want to sleep with a wom... (70 words)

I've been dating the same guy for 3 years. We've never had sex and I don't want to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I Normal? I don't think so... I'm a 21 year old woman and have been with the same man for three years. Yet we've never had sex. Not that I want to; because I don't. I find both male and female bodies attractive; but the problem is that I don't like the idea of having ... (155 words)

I've had an abortion and now am afraid to go to church or to pray

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Had an abortion. Now, I'm afraid to pray or go to the church. Before this, I often find solace in church but now I'm afraid to even pray at home. I try to avoid any religious figures as in printing or etc. What do I do? ... (46 words)

What happened to this person?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I and this guy were friends, not best friends but just friends when we were kids, we used to play and talk but he also used to kinda like me. When I found out he likes me, I started avoiding him, stop talking to him because I was very scared and shy. He didn't know I like ... (186 words)

How can I get my man hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, ok well I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now. And I love him so incredibly much. Well the problem is, that it always seems as if he has issues getting hard. But when he does finally get hard the sex is incredible. But I know he feels embarrassed when it takes ... (157 words)

Products for acne?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Anybody know a good product you can use for red marks left after pimples? please help :(... (17 words)

I'm depressed and think my b/f of 2 years only stays because he's afraid I'll do something to myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have depression and i am struggling to cope. i think i depend on my boyfriend to make me feel better and we always end up arguing because i feel really down about everything and i'm scared that if something better comes along then he'll leave me. i keep asking him not to ... (212 words)

My FWB doesn't want a relationship but he gets jealous if I'm interested in another guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone I'm not sure what to do about this situation I have been in a fwb for 14 months I have three men asking for a date with me I met one last weekend which seems really nice but the trouble is I don't want any of these only my fwb he does not wanting me to me meet ... (86 words)

Do other people masturbate weekly? Use lubricant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - im only thirteen but i masturbate up to 14 times a week usualy to the point of an orgasam and i often use lubricant to help prevent friction. I would like to know how much other people masturbate weekly, dose it end in an orgasam every time, do you use lubricant or a toy or ... (219 words)

My LDR g/f is an actress and has to kiss other men. I feel uneasy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, actually I am in a long distance relationship since last 10 months and these months have been extremely good. As in, we enjoy each others company and love to talk to each other all day and spend time together. But the thing is that since last few days I am going through ... (196 words)

I don't think he's attractive but I accepted a date and now I feel forced to go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - please don't read this and assume i'm a horrible person, but I met this guy not long ago and he's asked me out on a date. The things is, when I was out the other day he was there to and you think I would be happy to see him, or get that feeling inside my stomach. Instead it was ... (254 words)

If a man is in a committed relationship, why would he take a ladies number?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - If a man is in a long-term committed relationship, and goes out to a bar with his friends, if he chats with a lady and she gives him her phone number, shouldn't he say "no thanks, I have a girlfriend" instead of putting the number in his pocket? We have had trust issues in ... (85 words)

Why does my science teacher follow me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - When I'm in school, my Science teacher keeps following me. He's in his early thirties and asks me to stay back after school to talk about my grades. He looks me in the eyes all the time. I get good grades, I do all my work and I don't fancy him or anything. He asked me to stay ... (124 words)

I masturbate 4X a day and I'm depressed about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 18 year old boy...still single and virgin, i want to experience sex and love,i am curious to know the pleasure when a man is been kissed by a woman, i masturbate 4 times a day..and i am very much depressed about it; what to do ? ... (48 words)

Do men find women attractive if they're breasts aren't even?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a quick question... Do you find a woman attractive even if they have asymmetrical breasts? I know many womens breasts are different but mine are by about half a cup size to about a cup size when I am on the pill or on my period. I am thinking about getting a boob jo... (172 words)

Should I contact him or did he think I was too pushy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Im 17 years old and was at a party a couple of days ago! I was picking music on an ipod when a guy comes and agrees with my music taste so we start talking and standing close.we stood up a against a wall and i thought he was really nice. we talked about where we ... (401 words)

Is there hope for my (recently) ex and I? He's separated, with kids and unsure what to do without them

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy I used to work with a few years ago separated from his wife Jan/Feb 2011, almost 1.5yrs ago. In Oct 2011 he asked if I'd like to go on a date. We did and it went well, we got to know each other romantically and became very close, quickly. He ended up moving to the city I ... (1254 words)

Boyfriend is marriage material yet I feel threatened by his intelligence and lash out at him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is exceptionally intelligent. I'm a neuroscience major (4th year), and worked in a lab doing research in the summer of my second year. The study was related to IQ -- regardless, it required each participant take a standardize 30 minute IQ test. He scored in the... (495 words)

Is she not telling me she's dating because she still likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - In 2009 I met this girl whose boyfriend lived in Korea for about 6 months, during that time her and I got extremely close. She ended up having an extremely nasty breakup with her before 2011 and we started talking again and we hooked up immediately. We both talked about our... (279 words)

How can I talk to my crush without being nervous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this crush on a guy in my class and he has a crush on me and we both really like each other. Now about a month and we didn't like each other and we were really good friends and we could have normal conversations. But now that we know we like each other I can't talk to ... (93 words)

I have little tolerance. Do I give up too easily on girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering if I give up too easily on girls. The reason I ask is Because I have a short tolerance for them. For instance. Just today I finally got up the nerve to talk to this girl that I had been crushing on for a while. I went to her table to talk to her. The first minute ... (274 words)

Why does he pretend he has no feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - PLEASE ANSWER, ANY ADVICE IS GREATLY APPRECIATED. okay lets try keep this short and sweet! ive had a friend hmm.. lets call him Chencho. so chencho and i have been friends for around 3-4 years now and we have always had chemistry. we talked for a while but I was falling in... (567 words)

Why does this girl think I'm ugly?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I was on myyearbook and I sent this girl a message telling her she was beautiful, and shortly after that she posted a status saying "Dear guys, just becuz you call me beautiful doesn't mean I'm gonna get past how ugly you are, and cream in my panties. Js. Lmao". She's one of ... (138 words)

Is he interested in me or am I just reading him wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - As a 24-year-old woman, I should probably be able to figure these things out by now. I’m guessing most people got over asking this type of question in grade school. Problem is, I have some sort of undiagnosed social disorder (most likely Asperger’s) that makes it really, really ... (747 words)

What if my boyfriend is happier without me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4613 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a long distance relationship for two months now but I miss my boyfriend so badly that I don't think it's worth it (we are so far apart, it looks like we will only be able to see each other twice until 2013). I told him I was thinking of returning this summer and he ... (183 words)

Is it ok for a couple to be Bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi im 29 and my girlfriend is 22 not long ago we both opened up while watching porn together and said we like same sex no matter if its 2 chicks, 2 males or 2 transvestites we just love it. We both really love each other and want to spend the rest of our lives together :) my ... (294 words)

Is all of this favortism wrong on her part?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! A few days ago, I posted a question "I'm being called a teacher's pet" where I discussed how I suck up to my teacher and do multiple things for her. If you haven't read that question, please do so it wont start confusion. Mrs. _____, since the beginning, has shown f... (326 words)

Bf believes I'm not mature enough to be in an adult relationship. I have a teenage mindstate that's not on his level.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

6 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I had problems with my bf who always complained about me not spending enough time with him. I love him with all my heart, and we're sexually active, I lost my virginity to him, he's my first bf, we're 22, 21 years. My parents are very protective of me and Im the youngest. In ... (1108 words)

I'm the best he ever could have gotten, why is he contacting me again?

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6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, thank you to anyone reading and/ or replying to this since I'm sure this gets asked a lot! Anyway, I dated a guy for almost 2 years, we went on a break in October and ended it completely in December after he was with another girl when our rules for the break was no ... (191 words)

I've never like a guy so much and I'm confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

6 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i met this guy a little while ago. Our age gap is quite large but I think thats why its working out so well so far. I'm 21 and he's 33. Normally I have trouble with relationships and I get annoyed with the guy really quick (1 or 2 weeks) and it doesn't seem to make it past ... (262 words)