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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm only interested in American women, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so as the title suggests, I'm only interested in American women. This is based on something not just movies and tv shows. I dated an American girl for 2 and a half years, have spent a lot of time over there and truth be told I just mesh better with American girls. ... (123 words)

Is it possible a man might be able to get an erection with one woman but never with another?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello there! I wonder ,if a man might be able to get an erection with one woman, but never with an other. I wonder,if my husband has sexual desire issues, but not really erection problems.. Does anybody here have psychological ED? Please tell me, if it is possible, that h... (162 words)

No experience with dating -- what's the best way to approach girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have no experience with dating and guess I want some answers so I can start crawling rather than running before I can walk. How should I approach girls with the intention of dating them (whether they are in a pub/club or casual setting)? Does rejection limit your chanc... (80 words)

I'm panicking because I'm 29 and still single

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

- Im panicking because Im almost 29 and still single. I have a 2 year old son but no longer with his father. I have very brief relationships with guys as they all seem to be wrong for me or treat me bad. I met a really nice guy a few weeks ago and we went on a date. We really got ... (350 words)

I like him, he's obviously not in it for sex, so what's up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I need some advice about a guy I like, or am possibly in love with. I'm going to warn you, this might end up longer than expected... We're classmates, he is nice, kind, funny, smart a bit silly sometimes. There is only one problem..he seems to be a bit too fond of girls - ... (394 words)

Who's gonna' want a 33 year old nobody who has nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Where do I even try to begin? I was with my partner for 10 years. We have two beautiful children. We had a nice car. A nice house. On New Years Day my partner announced she had been having an affair for 2 years. She wanted me out. We fought. Not physical. She phoned... (264 words)

Is it worth it to be friends with her and will she ever really stop drinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I had a 6 month relationship with a woman who had an alcohol problem. I helped her get through it, took her to the hospital for detox, and she promised never to drink again. We went through the withdrawals twice since I knew her, and she said she has had problems before, ... (466 words)

I have a boyfriend but have become interested in a friend. Is it just because I don't see my b/f so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and met when we first started university. I love him to bits, get the funny feeling in my tummy when i'm going to see him, get excited when I see his name pop up on my phone, physically miss him when hes not there etc. ... (368 words)

I have very little interest in dating. How normal is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am turning 20 later this year, and still have very little interest in dating or romance. I have never been on a date and never even been kissed. It's not for lack of opportunities - I just finished my first year of college and got asked out a number of times. I just can't ... (297 words)

Help... I think I love my ex step uncle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... so I'm not sure how to put this but, I kind of have feelings for my ex step uncle. I have known him for ten years and was always attracted to him. My mom and step dad were only married for a short time, and we have always been close. I didn't know he had feelings for me ... (119 words)

I need to stop wasting time. Please send words of advice on my situation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age - I have not been happy in my long term relationship for a while. He is the father to my youngest child. I am very independent with my own properties and I have quite a glamorous job with an airline. He does not take me any where, never met his family. Have never really fel... (336 words)

How can I get a cougar woman? This is a personal choice of mine, and I wish to get me a relationship with one.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

18 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, everyone. I have a specific goal that I wish to acheive. I'm in my early 20's, I still am a virgin, I STILL don't know what a kiss feels like, etc. So, I figure, to kill 2 birds with 1 stone, I should get together with a cougar. However, this is a personal choi... (288 words)

Tried dating him again but get the sense that not much has changed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, and thank you. I dated a guy 3 yrs back we dated for 1 year. We had a lot of fun together. He's funny, charming, and communicates well, not to mention we had great chemistry. I began having some deep feelings towards him, and was leaning towards a relationship wit... (311 words)

Is he just making excuses? Or is there something I can do to make this work?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy while I was looking for no one {still burnt after the last one}- we were both waiting to take an exam at our Uni, he started talking to me and we got along well, so he left me his email. For the following couple of months, we wrote each other pretty regularly, ... (1214 words)

My fiance is greiving - will our relationship survive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. My fiancee and I have been together for about a year and a half and became engaged three months ago. We planned to get married six months from now, in the fall and were excited about making a life together. One month ago, not long after we finally celebrated our e... (1209 words)

What can I do to finally make my boyfriend see that he needs to take some responsibility!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! What can I do to finally make my boyfriend see that he needs to take some responsibility! I have tried everything He works part-time, Between 3 and 4 days a week. I work part-time as well, but over 5 days. I start housework as soon as I get home. I also cook dinner for ... (232 words)

Will my relationship with my fiance survive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. My fiancee and I have been together for about a year and a half and became engaged three months ago. We planned to get married six months from now, in the fall and were getting excited about making a life together. One month ago, not long after we finally celebrat... (1250 words)

Why is my BF acting so mysteriously? he lied ,but then rushed back to see me. I don;t know where he was. Please help!!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Please adive on my BF.Ok - so here it is.I've been dating this guy for 14 months, well I had a hunch last night.. actually, at 5 this morning, and I went round to see if his car was there. It wasn;t. I then called him at 5.45am. he did not answer. So I texted him and said' Can ... (490 words)

What have been your experiences with bad partners.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm terrible in the sack! But this wasn't always the case. As a matter of fact, the first girl that I lost it too always loved our "encounters". To this day she says I am still the best she's had. And at the time she was my first, but I was CERTAINLY not her first. We were ... (381 words)

Death in my husband's family will make them all drink and I don't want to be around it! What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has death in his family, and my heart goes out to the family but I really dont want to be around them cause all they do is drink, I mean really, if im in mourning I wouldnt be drinking and getting drunk, and he has the nerve to get mad at me cause I dont want to be ... (154 words)

Can being friends with benefits bring us back together? Or is it wishful thinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I broke up several months ago after her mother was ill and passed away. At first I was there for her 1000% and we agreed to remain friends. After all she's my best friend. We were together for 6 years by the way. She told me a while back that i need to move ... (206 words)

I can't trust a single word he says ever time he opens his mouth my thoughts are lie lie lie..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about two years now but I am so mentally drained is my boyfriend a narsassistic psychological abuser and doesn't really love me? Or am I just over thinking our relationship and what has happened? Hear is alittle bit of my story.. When we ... (1070 words)

My boyfriend refused to marry me, so I have left him! was it a big mistake?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I left my boyfriend a few months months ago. He was a good person and I am sure we could have been together for much longer, even forever. Problem was, he refused to marry me (we'd been together for over 5 years) and after I insisted so much on getting married he sa... (280 words)

Should I go ahead with the PhD? Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a massive state of indecision about my future and I was hoping for some advice. I'm 8 or so months into a postgraduate degree in chemistry, and the option to extend it to a three year PhD course came up a few months ago. At the time, I wasn't feeling a... (389 words)

After all this time spending so many wonderful moments together, my boyfriend is questioning our compatibility over a few petty arguments!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in an amazing relationship for 8 months now.Everything seems to be going so well, however there have been at the most, five occasions when my borfriend and I disagree on something. I see them as insignificant arguments, but last night he told me he thinks maybe we ... (207 words)

My hormones are raging like a wildfire!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My hormones are raging like a wildfire!!!I'm only 15 and why am i feeling this way..I'm so horny all the time and can't even stop from being that way. I feel like i need sex every freaking day. Does that make me a sex addict?... (46 words)

How do I find a man for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I find a man for me? I'm so sick of men coming in my face asking me for "sum"! It seems that they are all stupid!!sometimes i feel like falling for it just to see would it turn into a relationship and never do!I don't like dating websites i think thats dangerous!!!... (54 words)

I'm a stripper, I have 2 kids with a third on the way, I want to stop dancing and stripping but my boyfriend and his family just wont let me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry if this is a little long I just don't have anyone to talk to about this issue and I can really use some advice. I'm 24 years old and I currently live in Texas. I was born and raised in PA but I moved to texas about 2 years ago. When I was 17 I met my boyfriend and so... (1166 words)

I'm married but I want a lady at work and she's playing hard to get!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

18 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a married man and recently I found my self attracted to this beautiful lady at my workplace. She knows I am married and is playing hard to get, but I really want her badly. Please help me convince this lady to love me... (46 words)

I fear my vagina isnt good enough for my boyfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend and I have sexual relations. He isnt my first, and well I feel ashamed to have sex with him for that reason... We were watching this t.v show, with Wesley Snipes(black guy) and he was married to an Asian woman, they showed a scene where the couple was having s... (210 words)

I don't understand how he got over me so fast

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4601 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so to start off, me and this boy went out for 1 year and a couple months. We are both 17, young I know. Everything was great until the last 2 months of our relationship. We had been arguing a lot, but at the end of the day we always made up. This went on for about a month ... (572 words)

Is he really ready for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started dating this guy and i have to say that im a little bit confused. I've never had a real relationship before and this is the first time ive actually wanted to spend time with someone. I love it when he holds me in public and i love having sex with him. I always ... (363 words)

Can't let go of my ex after being broken up for 2 months

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex and i have been broke up for 2 months and 2 days. we have a 9 month old daughter together. a week or 2 ago he told me that he missed me he kissed me cuddled with me ect. last friday he came over to see the baby and he layed his head in my lap and just stared up at me. he ... (388 words)

I agree I'm not mother of the year but what do I do now in this extremely messed up situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Almost three years ago I started what I would call an emotional affair with a man that I went to school with. I was 34 at the time and I am now 37. I have two children from a previous marriage and three with my current husband. We have been married 12 years this month. Our ... (573 words)