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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get over my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I liked my best friend for a bit but I have moved on howvere, when I see him with the girl he like (whodoesntlike him back) I get jealous amd my heart sinks ! How do I get over this and what are the best tips to get over boys ? ... (51 words)

My ex boyfriend brings my confidence down!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My x bf and I still talk after 2 years of being broken up. Well recently I found out he got his 15 year old fiance pregnant when he's 19 and in the Army! So I decided to ask him about it because I saw pictures/status's from his friends and family on facebook. He got angry and ... (114 words)

Complicated crush on a soldier

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 17 and I like my friend who is 21. He's in afghanistan right now and we've always kept contact sinc he's been in the service. I told him before he left that I was interested in him, but he said he wanted me to be 18 before we started to flirt or get to know each other. Do ... (66 words)

I am feeling guilty over my friend with benefits!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I just need some advice on this please have I been unfair in this situation I was in a fwb for 14 months which I wasn't happy with as I was left feeling so used all the time then I found out by three people that knew him that he was married he told me they had split up I ... (143 words)

Do I tell him to get new swimming trunks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend and I go swimming all the time. We have a great time and have lots of fun, the only problem is his swim trunks. He has worn the same pair for years. They are white and have a black pattern down the leg. This was fine when the were new but now they become ... (146 words)

He says hes depressed and can't be with me. I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing this guy for two weeks, we text everyday regularly like every 5- 15 mins apart from when he was working. We had a laugh and it was great. He made plans for our future and is the most genuine guy Im met before. He told me the last time I saw him (few days ago) he ... (229 words)

Why do I want sex all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay short question but here goes, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months and were pretty happy together, finally! I lost my vaginaty to him about a month ago, now it's all I ever think about and want, well 90% of the time! Why do I want sex all the time? Even when I ... (65 words)

How do I kiss?

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25 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I need so much help. There's this guy that I like alot. I want to take my relationship to the next level as does he, the only problem is I don't know how to kiss and he does. I don't want to tell him because it's to embarrassing. I've looked everywhere for a step b... (95 words)

My boyfriend has feelings for his best friend so I broke up with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - so i told my boyfriend. about this website and how you could ask for advice. and its confidential so he went on and he asked a question" saying i am 16 male. ive been with my girlfriend for 8 months but i have sum feelings for my besfriend should i stay or leave?" but really he ... (112 words)

Is this man who I'm having an affair with claims to like me so much, then why is he avoiding me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok I can't believe I did this i never in the 21 years that I’ve been with my husband cheated on him. People on this page can’t think any worse of me then I think of myself. My husband is the first man I ever been with. I’m 38 now I take very good care of myself I work out ... (554 words)

Can I be friends with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend and I started speaking again 5 months ago, after over a year of no contact after we broke up. We're extremely close and neither of us have the desire to get back together (although I wouldn't say those feelings have completely died away). Anyway, my issue is ... (211 words)

How can I overcome this silly crush and regain self esteem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, I'm having a very childish problem, despite the fact that I'm a 23 year old woman. When I was in high school I was the ugly girl that no guys liked, and to this day, this has affected my self esteem somewhat. When I started college, though, I had some sort of "ugly du... (618 words)

Love my guy but he loves other things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I just started dating ds guy who has been my friend for seven years and has been asking me out all those seven years. I love him fearly, God knows I do. But right now, I feel very alone and I'm wondering if I've not made a mistake. I've always known he loved to talk ... (393 words)

Should I ask my mom why she hates my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Should i ask my mum why she hates my boyfriend? I’ve been him for 18 months however we were friends long before this, however she has never taken to him and is often rude to him and about him. She tells me not to get serious, accuses me of not thinking for myself, makes me feel ... (152 words)

It's great when we're together, but when we're apart I question the relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 years. I know he’s the one because we click. Yesterday he took me to the lake and we had a picnic. He told me I stole his heart and he always wants me to keep it. He is just about the nicest guy I have ever dated and I never want him ... (279 words)

I need career advice. Don't know which direction to take my life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I know this isn't much of a relationship question but I've been using dearcupid for about three years now and I know that it's well known for it's respected and helpful aunts. I've decided that I want to head back into school for a degree but I'm not exactly sure... (173 words)

My girlfriend is insensitive to the feelings of others

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a first timer in relationships.. i have a girlfriend that is insensitive in feelings for others.. And I'm having a hard time being more patient.. I mean.. I sometimes get hurt on what she said to me.. I practice my self to be more patient just like my dad.. But what is the ... (59 words)

Scared? Moved on? Played?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Met a (never married but just got out of bad 10-12 yr relationship - not the mother and did a job on them emotionally and mentally-she cheated on him) single dad little over a year ago. He's never had a positive female connection in his life (since a child - his mother ... (643 words)

I'm not a flirt so why am I feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear dear cupid, I dont understand how i feel for this guy. So here's my situation. Two weeks after i broke up with my bf, i noticed this guy at work. It's because he had the same perfume with my ex. Every time i see him i go near him so that i can smell his perfume, i ... (474 words)

Can't get to a second date for the life of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - There is something wrong going on here... I had a date with a girl that I met on an online dating site last night and kept it relatively light, good conversation flowed and she seemed happy to talk about a wide variety of topics (i.e. - school, family, traveling, sports, ... (272 words)

If a girl gives you her number but doesn't reply to a message does that mean she's not interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a question for the ladies. Say a guy has met a girl and they exchange numbers. She knows that he intends to ask her out at some point but he hasn't done so yet. They exchange messages and she hasn't replied to one anymore. Does this mean she's getting bored al... (119 words)

Wife and I have been married 10 years. Should we throw out photos of our exs?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together for over 10 years but have just had some old possessions dropped off at our house by our parents / parents in law. Funny timing that they all dropped off boxes at about the same time. A lot of this is stuff from school, university and o... (165 words)

Performance anxiety, serious problem or me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm getting worried now as me and my boyfriend has been together for a year and a half now and he has always struggled performing in the bedroom but we did manage it sometimes and when he did, we made the most of it. But recently it's got worse and I feel so low about ... (137 words)

Does my ex want me and his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What s.the.deal with his ex?? My ex and I split up 6 mts ago we have 2 young kids. He is in his forties me in my thirties. He moved out and bought a flat. Recently.he has been bombarding me with messages saying he loves me misses me, trys to let meet.him come round when the ... (230 words)

Has any of your ladies ever been a single mother with no family help at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey. I'm gonna be 32 in a few months and I've just found out I am pregnant. As soon as I told my bf about it he just walked away. I have no family as my mum died a few years ago and my dad in an evil man and we're not on speaking terms. I have very few friends. On the other ha... (169 words)

B/f has a small penis. What sexual positions would be good?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have just started having sex with my new boyfriend but his penis is very small he is really good at other things but when he inserts it I cannot feel anything hardly what positions are good for making him feel deeper I'm not going to talk to him about it as I ... (62 words)

My husband wants to bring another wife into our marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 13 years and have two children. I have severe Rheumatoid Arthritis that has required 17 surgeries. Our life has been stressful, because of the disease, but I try to stay focused on my husbands needs and even pushed his business to the ... (280 words)

These two men complete me, but having just one kills me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been In a relationship for a year now and it's wonderful. We are average, happy, fight over the silly things, kiss and makeup over nothing. In all honesty it's great... But I'm in love with two men. My boyfriend "Steve" and my best guy friend "Daniel". I've known D... (316 words)

If he likes me why doesn't he come up to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy that i like. We saw each other at one party organied by our friend, i remember he was starring at me and smiling while talking with his friends, but i didnt smiled back. Than we met again yesterday at another party,when entering the room he said Hi to me, i said ... (123 words)

Should I leave my g/f for my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a 16 year old male and i been with my Girl friend for 8 months,but i have sum what feelings for my bestfriend, should i leave my girlfriend or stay?... (31 words)

Why would my b/f be happy if his ex had been pregnant but not me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I were talking and the topic about babies came up. I would like to have a child soon, but he wants to wait. However, few months back when we were just dating and not engaged, his ex-gf had a prgnancy scare and it would have been his baby if she did turn out to be ... (244 words)

Is this normal for a 25 year old man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. Ever since we became active, he can never really bust more than twice in a day. He is 25 years old, very healthy, works out every single day, he has no health problems at all. It buggs me so much when he ... (143 words)

I want out! I have no car, money or job!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I really dont know where to start. My boyfriend of four year's, is not the man I thought he was. we have known each other for 5ys. as friend. and then one day he wanted to be more then friends. deep down i did to. so we crossed that line of friendship. when we first seeing ... (393 words)

I want to date my friend's ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I like my friends ex boyfriend they broke up a week ago and I want him to notice me but it's hard because he is still into her what do I do if she moved on and I want him to move on and date me... (47 words)

I don't like my brother dating my lying friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My bestfriend and i have been friends for almost two years we spent every min. togther. She used to lie to me about things all the time and i got over it but recitntly she started lieing to me a lot more and calling me the B word a lot more then normal. Also a few months ago ... (251 words)

Do I keep quiet or tell b/f I like what he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now, and our sex life has recently gotten more...well just more. We try new things all the time, and recently without even discussing it I've noticed that he has started putting his hand close to my neck or on my throat not ... (210 words)

How do I get over my fiance having gorgeous female friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I feel like I'm being an awful partner. My fiance has a very small circle of friends, and most of them are women. The other night one of them had contacted him, after having not spoken for a while because of life being too busy. They talked on the phone for over... (172 words)

Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis if size doesn't matter?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2171 days ago

25 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis (like bigger than they've ever had before) if size doesn't matter? Why did men evolve big penises (length and girth) compared to other primates if size doesn't matter?... (45 words)

I cant stand my boyfriend's friends who are uneducated, beer-drinking, rowdy pub guys

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a very open minded person, however my boyfriends friends are uneducated, beer-drinking, rowdy pub guys. That i can deal with as they're all decent enough people who I can see for my boyfriends sake. However his 2 closest friends are another story. One almost ended up ... (314 words)

I don't want to have sex anymore with my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my partner for over 3 years. basicly on and off. ive noticed that i dont want to have sex with him, i dont get in the mood. while on the other hand hes always on me wanting to have sex. when he kisses me and caress me it doesnt makes me horny at all. i just ... (215 words)

How long should I wait before telling friend of my feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay. i really really like this guy im friends with. since December these feelings have intensified and are getting stronger. Well in January he got back with his ex gf. they had dated b4 for about 6 months and broke up November last year. so then January they got back ... (164 words)

Should I leave my bofriend of 3yrs for masturbating with porn?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Should I leave my bofriend of 3yrs for masturbating with porn and taking viagra when Im asleep and wake up and catch him? He doesnt give it to me when i want it enless we are off work together. He said that he will continue to do it and i told him that its degrading to me. I ... (72 words)

Should I go to college or stay with my current job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past few years i have been wondering weather or not i should go off to college, you see i have had a study job working on a farm for sometime now and it actually pays just enough for me to get by on my own, but im not sure if i want to keep doing this job for the rest ... (248 words)

I'm in a relationship triangle!

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25 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so like two months ago I went on my senior trip. There were a lot of other schools there so I had a lot of chances to meet new people. One of my friends, V, made friends with a boy, A. All of my other friends went head over heels over him. I, on the other hand, wasn't ... (732 words)