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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can you have ED without a cause?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in my forties , healthy guy, and I live in a good relationship with my wife. So one day suddenly, after years without any problem, I just lost my erection, in the middle of sex. We didn't think too much about it, but when I tried it again, it didnt work at all. So , we ... (164 words)

Is my boyfriend being inconsiderate because he doesn't care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I was wondering about boyfriends being considerate. If they don't appear to be considerate 100% of the time, is that them not realising they need to show it, or is it because they don't care? I feel my bf has only been showing it 40% of the time. I recently discussed... (282 words)

My boyfriend watches LIVE porn. How do I deal with this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have just found out that my boyfriend watches porn. I have had a look on this site and at some porn related questions, and some people say it's fine and all men do it, and some people say they should stop in a relationship. My problem is, my boyfriend watched LIVE p... (142 words)

How can I move to Canada?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I live in pakistan but I have a girlfriend that lives in Canada. I want to move to Canada but I am only a 19 so it is difficult to find a way to come here. Is there anyway I can move to Canada without being sponsored, or having a high enough income?... (55 words)

I am unconfident about my body!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'd love some advice on how to feel confident when it comes to sex despite being really unconfident about my body :( I've been with my bf 2 years, and things have been going great between us, including our sex life. I was very body confident, and loved being physically ... (347 words)

Has my boyfriend lost interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend almost 3 years but recently everything has been going down hill his mate is round 24/7 and never wants to go any where with me and we only now have sex twice a month when it used to be 3 or 4 times a week this problem has been going on for 2 months ... (67 words)

I saw my crush holding hands with another girl!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Omg...I just saw my crush and another girl, they were holding hands, I can't control my anger or whatever I'm feeling. But I have a boyfriend I don't Like him as much as I like my crush. But He's ok though. help I don't know what to do, I thought he liked me.... (56 words)

Should I go back to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i was with this guy for two years and then he decided to join the air force and the closer it got to hi leaving for basic the more he pushed me away and we fought finally we broke up. A week and a half later he's dating this other girl and three weeks after that they are ... (169 words)

My parents beat me, and now I try to push my husband to beat me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I just need a little advice or whatever that can help me with this. I grow up in a disfunctional family. Im used to get beat from my parents physically and emotionally. Believe me its really hurt. It planted in my heart and in my soul. My eyes open up with the belt of... (428 words)

I'm open to going further but he won't take the lead

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I just started dating my dream guy and every thing is going amazing! But we have been going about for about a month now and i would like to go a little further with him. But every time we get into this conversation i would always maybe ask him what he would want to do. But he ... (103 words)

Why do guys have to give up their porn but girls get to keep their toys?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been reading post about women upset about their boyfriends using porn and post about guys upset about their girlfriends using a vibrator. It strikes me odd at the double standard women have for vibrators and porn. Every post I read consist of women berating men and ... (124 words)

Is it reasonable to be upset about the porn sites in his browser history?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello:) Thankyou in advance for any advice. Right basically, I'm in a situation. At my boyfriends the other night, I discovered he watches porn. I wasn't snooping, I was typing in a 'youtube' in the search bar and a porn site came up in the history because it began with yo... (231 words)

How can I tell him that I liked the dirty talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex with this guy and when he climaxed he cussed up a storm I really liked it a lot it was a turn on. He said the sex was too good that so thats why he did it. Before he never did that does that mean before it wasn't good? I want him to express himself again like that ... (86 words)

Is he interested? Or am I wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I recently met this guy on an online dating site and I'm really interested in him, but I'm getting worried he's not that into me as he seems to take forever to respond to my texts and doesnt always reply. We havent met although we do have mutual aquaintences. I know men... (72 words)

Why is she calling me after we broke up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, So me and my ex girlfriend went on a cruise and had a terrible time. Our arguments started when I noticed she would walk away from me when we were walking together. For example, we were walking to a the theater for a show and she walked into a jewelry gift shop with o... (404 words)

Girlfriend transferred to department with two of her exes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a great girl for 1.5 years. We get along great and are in love. We work at the same place but not together. She is getting transferred to another department. Two of her exes work in that department. Both are d-bags and she has expressed ... (195 words)

My mother is alway thinking the worst about me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What can I do about this ? I've been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months and it seems like with ever day that passes, my mother is always think more terible things that she thinks I've been doing like: one day I asked her if I could hang out at my boyfriend's hous... (287 words)

Is the guy interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have not seen this guy for 8 years. We ran into each other on a train. He looks cute to me and he gave me this compliment when he saw me at the beginning "you look pretty, where are you heading?". We chatted on the train ride and exchange contact details. I emailed him ... (312 words)

Moving on after three years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I move on? When I was a freshman in high school, I met this Senior. We got along very well. We dated for a year, then broke up, mainly because she went to college. Coming back for the summer, she informed me of the times she cheated on me - to which I was completel... (287 words)

I have trouble finding a balance between showing affection and giving too much space.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hm... I'm kind of confused. Ive been seeing this guy for a little bit now and throughout the week he spent 4 nights at my place. He's always really awesome at staying in touch and sending me little texts here and there to see how im doing but last time i saw him was thursday ... (238 words)

My girlfriend is making me feel so confused, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - (UPDATE) Ok so now i'm getting kinda cheesed off, my girlfriend is ignoring me and it's hard to figure out if she's doing it on purpose, or if it's just something that i might not be able to see, because at the end of the day i don't know what she does when she's home alone so ... (145 words)

Friendship ruined by teasing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - he is my best friend from last two years.our friendship started in college. we used to chat daily on phones . but our classmates and my friends always take our friendship in wrong way and they tease me all time that he is my bf.I never like their teasing . so at beginning i ... (263 words)

Should my ex-boyfriend and I remain friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up just recently. It is not due to a character mismatch or betrayal or anything. It is because of differences in religion which is why we are finding it very hard to let go. Should we remain as friends or should I totally ignore him? He wants for us to ... (120 words)

A boy I barely know just told me he loves me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This boy at school told me in the library that he loves me. He has never even talked to me before. How can boy just blurt that out? I just froze. Didn't know what to day. I probably looked shocked. I felt shocked. Then i think i messed up because then i said 'you don't know ... (112 words)

Will flowers win back my teenage, but legal ex-girlfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. Tricky and possibly a bit of a controversial situation here. Keeping it as short as possible. I love my ex girlfriend, Im 24, shes 15 (age of consent in Sweden = 15 so relax). Anyways she broke up with me almost 2 months ago, as she is too scared to tell her ... (319 words)

Have I been placed in the 'friend zone'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Theres a girl who I've recently gotten to know. . .Ive caught her looking at me many times when we are at meetings for some extra curricular events, but i dont noe whether that is because she is trying to see if im looking at her. We've spoken every now and then, and she's also ... (246 words)

Despite everything he did, I want him back. Is there still a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - On another note, do I still have a chance with my ex? We were together for 2 years and 4 months. I broke it off in October because he was an ^^^^le to me. He'd do drugs and drink and wouldn't let me hang out with my friends. He's a college freshmen and I'm a high school juni... (429 words)

Is it me? Are my expectations on how life should be realistic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm looking for advice on really what is acceptable Or is me? Are my expectation on what life must be like how it is realistic? My belief is that a person must not have more than one partner. Sometimes I feel like I'm different, or there's something wrong about me? ... (52 words)

How bad has porn addiction got to be before you dump someone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How bad has porn addiction got to be before you dump someone? I would like to hear other people's stories.... I had a bit of trouble with my boyfriend at the beginning I know he's not as bad as my first boyfriend but he masturbated everyday he didn't see me but claimed he was ... (88 words)

Reunited after 9 years. So why is he so disregarding my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - This is a long one, so leave the page now if you don't like long stories lol. I am in a situation where I should be feeling on top of the world and settled. But I feel tearful and unsettled. I am in the process of getting back with my child's father after 9 years apart. Th... (950 words)

Suggestions please? What do YOU do when a guy hits on your girlfriend in a club?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girl go out to bars / clubs quite a lot and a lot of the time,she dances with her girlfriend(s) and if i don't dance with her, i chill at the bar with my friends. She says to me how she loves what i do, as it shows i trust her and i know she can handle herself . Her ... (295 words)

I don't want him to think I'm needy. I feel second best. So how do I get through my issues with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Can anyone offer any advice? I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. At the start of our relationship he was a little bit of a jack the lad. He had this beautiful girl texting him, just as friends apparantly always had lots of kisses on the end of every messag... (324 words)

Marriage over. How do I restart my social life and start developing a circle of friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just said good bye to a pretty rough patch in life and a controlling husband and therefore have practically no social life. I want to begin having a social life - i have two kids AND a full time job so i'll have to make the effort and it wont come naturally as people over... (119 words)

I'm crushing over my teacher. She's amazing. Should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 16 years old and i think i'm in love with a woman teacher. i dont think that i am lesbian or bisexual but i think i really love her. she teaches choir and she is so amazing and she is very attractive. i want to tell her how i feel about her but im scared. what should i do... (62 words)

How do I fix these Trust issues? my boyfriend and the others? It hurts/

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Today my friend came to me and said my boyfriend is only going out with me because he feels sorry for because I'm so ugly he doesn't think anyone else would. Then my other friend came and said that it isn't true. I can't trust either of them, and to be honest, I can't trus... (66 words)

Feelings for my friend? only one catch, she's a girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so i don't know who i could talk to about this, so i'm writing here, so here's the situation: I am a girl, still in high school. all my life I've only ever been attracted to guys, never girls. well... scratch that, I have had a thought or two about some girls, but when I ... (447 words)

How can a woman cure her fishy odor?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel helpless, I am very clean, and been to my doctors and she tested me. every thing can back normal, no infections. My boyfriend has stop having sex with me, because he say i smell fishy real bad, when he pre-cums, and cums. he even gag's. He is a very heavy drinker, and ... (131 words)

He is dating his close friend. Do I still have hope??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (now ex) and I were having a long distance relationship (he's in europe i'm in asia). And things were hard especially since we are 20 and 21 and we are in college. meeting up is always hard. He had made facebook friends with a girl in early 2011 and got pretty ... (382 words)

I feel like my friend is trying to get as close as she can to my b/f without being a homewrecker!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This might be long so bear with me. A little background: She's my close friend, and she used to like my boyfriend a lot, but he rejected her but they're best friends. So today, I recently found out that on Saturday, my friend had called my boyfriend around 7:30pm to go see... (277 words)

Facebook misunderstanding--does she think I am stalking her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Sometimes I wish there is no such thing as facebook. Why? Because a 4 months ago I met this cute girl at a party and Ive sorta had a crush on her ever since. Just recently I look her up on facebook I dont friend her because im a bit shy. Two days later she friends me seemingly ... (346 words)

Am I naive in thinking that on a first date nothing more than kissing should happen?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - am i naive in thinking that on a first date nothing more than kissing should happen? My friends and I were discussing this today and when I said i would never sleep with someone on the first date, they all said they wouldn't rule it out... But i said if you want the guy to ... (226 words)

Second thoughts about my troubled relationship help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my name is james and im 29 years old. Lately i've been going to this diner, and there is this waitress im attracted to. But the thing is im in a relationship. At first it was just nothing i just thought of her as an attractive girl never spoke to her and didn't think much of ... (476 words)

FWB with my best friend. Is this going anywhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I'm getting into a situation and i need your advice! Like so many other before me, i'm sleeping with my guy best friend. We are very close and this happened once and we said it shouldn't happen again. Long story short, we sleep together from time to time. I'... (250 words)

I need help understanding how things are now in my relationship life please help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel so confused at the moment due to recent problems in my relationshiP my girlfriend and I have went separate ways for now but we stay in contact waiting to see when the right time is to get back together we still tell each other that we love one another she still talks to ... (143 words)

How does a person get quality dates?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm pretty {sure, not everyone's cup of tea and with several flaws, but I'm attractive still}, smart, witty. I don't have issues getting male attention when I go out, but I do have issues getting quality dates. I don't really care for the kind of guys -generalization, of ... (380 words)

How do I get him to give me more sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 33, my boyfriend is 31 and we've been together about 10 months. We only see each other on the weekend because we live an hour away from each other. He usually comes and stays at my place Friday night thru Sunday. Pretty much since the beginning of our relationship we only ... (466 words)

My wife has guy friends and our sex life is terrible! should I give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello All! Need some help with this one. My wife of 4.5 years wants to be able to spend the night at guy friends house. Heres the story, Throughout our relationship she has always had a close guy friend. Usually guys that will dote on her, give her a lot of a... (345 words)