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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm worried about me and my partner's sex life and I need help. Our favourite position is doggy style it's one of the only ones that work for him and i constantly have trapped air as in fanny farts. I constantly feel like I need to expell it. After a while my vagina goes really tight and dry and when he pushes in it makes him soft because it's like pushing into a brick wall he says. When we have stopped it doesn't feel like i've had a penis inside me, but with my exs i normally felt the aftermath.Does anyone have any tips or similar experiences? Will it always be like this :(
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 May 2012):
 queffing is normal (the trapped air being released as the sound of farting)
sounds like you need more lube....
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 May 2012):
 I guess you are just worrying way to much about this trapped air and then that means you are not enjoying things which leads you to drying up and it being uncomfortable for him then as well. Maybe you can both start with different positions and then leave doggy style for towards the end after trying a couple of new things. I guess you both just need to work on it and try new things. Maybe try some lubrication.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2012): Hi,
I have a little bit of advice for you. For your "fanny farts" you might want to go ahead and let them out. Trust me on this one, unless you know he is COMPLETELY turned off by farting or noises of the sort, he either wont notice or he wont care and definitely wont mention it. As for your other problem my girlfriend also goes dry (for other reasons that we wont go into) and we have found that the absolute BEST thing to do is to invest in a bottle of WATER based lube. Hope this helps!
Best of Luck,
Soulbrain :)
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