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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it alright to slip a guy your number in class?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not a social butterfly I'm a little shy because I don't know how to start a conversation most of the time. Anyhow I keep catching this guy in my class checking me out usually I'd see him out of the corner of my eye. Until recently I caught him dead on gazing at me hard. I ... (129 words)

A very successful experiment with anal, and I want to make sure I continue to get it right

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

31 May 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Um, kind of embarassing, but I've just had a totally new sexual experience that's blown my mind, and would appreciate some opinions from those with experience. Basically, my wife and I just had anal sex for the first time, and she squirted. A lot, like in the porn films. ... (206 words)

Regretting an argument over a guy, with another girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 17/18, I had an argument with a girl over a guy. Typical girl problem, I know. I used to really like this guy (now, I think 'what the hell was i thinking?!'), but he ended up getting into a relationship with her. We used to bicker over Facebook, and both of our f... (542 words)

My ex told me I could either tell the guy myself or he would send the picture.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I made a horrible decision to have intercourse with my ex...for the last time like 3 days ago..after I met a new guy. My ex was stupid and took pictures of me. He then later found out that I was talking to this new guy. So now he said he's going to send those pictures to ... (156 words)

NOT in love with him, do it for the sake of two little ones

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my significant other for three and a half years now, we have a two year old and one on the way. I have never been in love with him, it was definitely infatuation and loneliness in the beginning. We have split up several times throughout these short three years ... (278 words)

My ex will be there at my sister's wedding because my brother-in-law is vaguely related to him but I don't want to speak to him, or even breathe the same air as him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I just wanted other people's viewpoint on this problem. I have been split from my ex for four years now. He treated me badly, used me for money and cheated on me. It took me a very long time to pick myself back up again after everything he put me through, made worse by him ... (210 words)

Can I get a STD infection from having sex with 3 clean guys?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex with three guys unprotected the past 3 days drunk. I know they're all clean since I know all of them. My question is even though they're clean, can I contract a std from bodily fluid with 3 different guys in a short period of time. or some type of sex infection? I ... (59 words)

Hurting because he blew me off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - He has lost interest in me I know it. He has not called,text emailed me or anything! I am so heart broken thought things were ok between us. We were together almost 7mths. I text him last night because it had been a week and no communication. He said he was "busy' and would ... (192 words)

My partner of 3 years is no longer is interested in sex and I discover he's watching porn

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all, i have been with my partner for 3 years we used to have sex regularly, now its once a week if i'm lucky, but i have looked through his phone and our computer and found he has been watching porn. i am a little hacked off at this because he got me why would he need to w... (202 words)

I'm from a conservative family and in love with my cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old without a boyfriend. My family is conservative. I am in love with my cousin and i don't have any hint whether he has any feelings for me or not. First it started with a crush i spent 5 years like this n now i m head over heels in love with him. I try my best ... (163 words)

Is this just a 'guy thing' or disrespectful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and he has a blog, on this blog he posts pictures regularly of girls bums/girls in lingerie, raunchy stuff etc. He knew it got to me and I've asked him so many times to stop it and he doesn't and when we've talked about it... (176 words)

How to explain lack of relationship experience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - 30-year-old male who, due to many factors, has been pretty far behind the curve when it comes to relationships and sex. I didn't date in any form for most of my 20s due to personal issues. I've managed to turn things around a bit these past two years - I moved to a large East ... (368 words)

How do I tell my mom that I'm pregnant at 14?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 yrs old. Me and my bf had sex awhile ago and I just found out im pregnant. A couple ppl know and he knows. I need help on how to tell my mom. Im scared that if I do then she will never trust me ever again and kick me out the house and never love me again. How would I ... (67 words)

Does my son need to see a doctor?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - my son 18 years old. when he was 15-16 he secretly used to wear his mom's panties and masturbate frequently with it. sometimes he wear her skirts as well. we warn him many times not to do so , but seems he hasn't stop yet. is this his mental problem ? can this be stopped? do we ... (65 words)

Getting over a girlfriend's sexual past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 4 months now, im 19 and she is 21, I live in a small town and she has had sex with a lot of people I know in the past, I accept this as I do live in a small town, anyway I only found out that she was in an on off ... (326 words)

I feel like my flatmate's being selfish -- am I right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really know what to say about this, I feel like i'm being very selfish but at the same time I also think my friend is being selfish. So I need advice on what to do and who really is in the wrong here... My flatmate has got a few friends down for the week, of course ... (325 words)

Husband acts bizarre when we fight. If he got help, could he change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I don’t usually ask for advice to bear with me if I provide too much or irrelevant detail. I am Christian woman married to a (moderately) Muslim man. We dated about 1.5 years before getting married. I was hesitant about marrying him because he’s Muslim (the whole un... (517 words)

In Love Yet Trapped in Cyber

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I am a happily married man who truly loves his wife. That being said, something happened a few years ago that has left me in upheaval ever since. My mother suddenly died of a massive heart attack leaving my life in the throws of grief like I have never known. ... (165 words)

Red flags all around but girlfriend insists that nothing is wrong

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a big issue and need alot of help. I would like to say thank you for reading this ahead of time as it will quite long but required in order to understand the issue. So, thank you. I have been seeing my gf for 5yrs or so, granted within that time we have certainly ... (969 words)

Boyfriend cheated - What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months and I've just found out that when he went to south africa in november for a month he kissed some girl who was friends with the family he was living with. I found out because he asked me to print something off his emails and I fo... (191 words)

Should I talk to my ex and tell him I'm sorry for my part in the break up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my long term boyfriend a few months ago. At the time, to me it seemed like the only thing to do. This was because he seemed increasingly disinterested and distant with me. I think it was because I made myself too available to him. I believe I was depressed at ... (708 words)

I recently lost my virginity, when will sex stop hurting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i just lost my virginty a few days ago , but it pained alot ,and couldnt even let him enter me fully . i am soo confused is this normal? how long does it take for me not to feel any pain ? and when will i get something out of it ,and i never blead why is that? please pl... (69 words)

My wedding was supposed to be in 2 weeks but fiance has walked out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been engaged to a wonderful man, we made a year this past Sunday. We were having some issues-arguments-but eventually it calmed down and we've been fine. Kisses, hugs, and love making included. Even cuddling at night. He woke up a few days ago as if something was wrong. ... (394 words)

Was she just being nice? Did she like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 14 going on 15, and I am falling for a girl that has no clue. I moved to the school th second semester. At first I thought she was very pretty, but she's bipolar, and I was nervous. Eventually, one of my freinds figured it out and she made me start talking to her because ... (477 words)

Boyfriend said all his exs were better looking than me +im not beauty queen

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been together for 7years and when we first started dating he made me feel so sexy and desired I knew that his past gfs had been skinny and stuff and everyone said I wasn't his type he likes barbies but we ended up together and he always said I was sexy pretty ... (562 words)

In 11 months we've never asked where the relationship is going

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 34 year old woman, and I have been in a relationship with a guy for the last 11 months. We do like each other's company, we like to go out and enjoy ourselves too. Our sex life is pretty good too. However, although it's been nearly a year together, we never really ... (135 words)

I was trying to leave my BF, and now he seems to be behaving, but I don;t trust it is genuine? What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Thanks for stopping by!! your opinions would be most welcome. I have been with my BF for 16 months, It has been a very hardwork relastionship, as he is moody and has alot on his plate, but I always loved him no matter what, and tried my best to give my all. I have b... (223 words)

Why would my ex ditch someone he was talking to just to follow me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - one day about a month ago, i went to the supermarket (where my ex works), he was standing outside sort of on the side of the supermarket where the 2nd doors were, near the ramp, talking to some woman, i decided to walk past him to the doors coz the other ones were further away, ... (111 words)

What are some good ways to break the ice with a stranger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Good evening (or morning) agony aunts/uncles. So, I want to cut to the chase. I have am a single gay man. And in my town on the opposite end--there's a gay man that works in a coffee shop who also happens to be single. Problem is we don't know each other. We both seem to have ... (376 words)

I don't want a FWB relationship with the father of my 2 children. How do I make him understand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it worth trying again. I split up with the father of my 2 children several months ago. He left as I asked him to. There were commitment issues. He didn't.want to be tied down by us. Our relationship had become.stale and we were rarely intimate. He said.some.nasty hurtful ... (197 words)

I don't think I've had an Orgasm yet. But what can I do about my more urgent problem? During and after sex? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 yo girl and do not think i have ever had the big O. When my boyfriend goes down on me i often always have the sensation of peeing when i do not have to or have nothing to pee out. However, I have a had an accident or two when the "pee" actually was pee. How can i te... (86 words)

Is this a missed opportunity? And should I start chasing him? or let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

31 May 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I have had crush on the most introverted guy I’ve ever known for the whole duration of my degree course. And I have a feeling that he likes me based on the long stares and he always seems to be there, but as soon as I talk to him or try and involve in any deep conversation he a... (153 words)

Do some women like rough sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Few days back I was watching a adult movie with my wife. There was a rape scene. After the movie my wife wanted to rewind and see the scene again and she saw that again. How come a Rape which is supposed to be a disgusting act can be stimulating. Ok consider me as pervert and ... (120 words)

I'm married but involved with a 25 year Russian girl. How do I know if my feelings for her are true? How do I know if I still love my wife? Should I try having a baby with my wife to improve our marriage?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - How to start...I am 44 years old and have fallen in love with a 25 year old Russian girl who I met in Moscow while working there for 2 years. I am married (for 18 years) and my wife has never been able to have children. We have recently started looking at surrogacy and at... (439 words)

I need help with Job Interviews!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) age 36-40 - hey aunties I need help please, the thing is in job interviews I can so nervous I start giggling, and not actually talking too much and showing my potential,when compared to other candidates I look stupid/silly and do not get the job, I really need help because it's more of an ... (268 words)

What would I need to do to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So I'm 16... There's this girl that I have known since first grade. This is a long story, but I really need to know what my chances are with her, and what I need to do to get her back. Story: When we were in first grade, she liked me... alot, and I liked her too. After that ... (531 words)

Is he in love with me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice badly. My boyfriend was very sexualy active with me when we got together, we held hand, hugged all the time, kissed all the time. all the things that lovers do, in the begining, but There a side to this, when we got together I was married, and still married. ... (708 words)

Looking at live people online having sex is wrong, but seeing naked girls dance and grind on men is ok?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, So I was on here yesterday and saw a question about a girl who's boyfriend was looking at online porn chat shows. Almost everyone replied and said that he was wrong and that isn't appropriate in a relationship; that he was taking it a step too far. But then another question ... (119 words)

I want him to realize how bad his current relationship is, if nothing else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. So when I was about 13, I met a guy. I thought he was around my age...but as it turned out he was 22. So, I didn't think of him in that fashion. BUT he was still a cool guy, so I continued to hang out with him. He quickly became the best friend I had ever had, and I thought ... (659 words)

Should I wait another day and try a simple, "hey!" text? Or just not do anything else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - IM 20. Home for the summer from college. Met this girl back in August in a school club (we meet on mondays and have a few parties, thats about the only time i saw her), she was dating someone at the time and i wasnt really into her. She didnt seem to have any real friends in ... (601 words)

Can anyone help me? Moms? Dads? Anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i am so sick of my mom! i am about turn 16 going to be a junior! but my mom doesnt seem to understand.. that i want to go out. she claims to be my bestfriend. and then when i tell her things she throws it in my face. like what the freak! she doesn't even want to let go have ... (173 words)

He already has a girlfriend of a year and has been married twice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A man recently added me on Facebook through a good mutual friend. First we just made friendly conversation and such, then he asked if I wanted to meet up for coffee. I agreed. We got along really well. He already has a girlfriend of a year and has been married twice (he's 45, ... (229 words)

My boyfriend and I want a baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4587 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex unprotected while I was on birth-control an had my period a week later. Three weeks later I stopped my birth control because my bf and I want a baby. What are my chances of getting pregnant and would it be from the unprotected sex before my period?... (51 words)

What is the "deep-stick" position?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a girl on an dating club and her profile states that she loves the deepstick position and I don't have an idea of how this position looks like or how it works and I don't want to ask her. I need to know before we get to it. ... (51 words)

How do you clear up a rumor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My friends always spread rumors about me, and tried to ruin my reputation.. made fake facebook accounts of me, and did everything they could. And it worked, now I am in grade 9, and the people in my gym class had spread a rumor that me and my friend are lesbians. I was wond... (117 words)

Do drunk people mean what they say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, So, I need to talk to someone and I have absolutely no one to confide in. This might be long, so thank you in advance for reading, I appreciate it so much. Me and this guy have been a "thing" for over two years, he's asked me to be his girlfriend, but I said... (461 words)

I'm afraid I'm a sucky kisser...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I hooked up with my neighbor the other day, I have been interested in her for a while now. We were making out when she started to bite/suck my lower lip, it was really kinky. I decided to do it back to her but I guess I was too rough because we had to stop; her lip was getting ... (107 words)

I'm attracted to her don't know if she's open to dating women. How do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm bisexual and have a huge crush on a mutual friend who is a female. I've seen her around before because we do have friends in common but I've never actually spoken to her before. Basically, she doesn't know I exist which at this point is a very good thing because I'm ... (240 words)

Was it such a big deal that I lied to my b/f's mom about a job interview?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. Just recently I was supposed to go to an interview for a retail department store, but I cancelled it because I was too lazy.. : Anyways my boyfriend's mom asked me how it went and instead of telling her the truth, I ... (169 words)

I'm 15 and want to have a baby even though I'm not ready

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and I feel like I want to have a baby even though I know I'm not ready financially. Why do I feel like this? How can I push the thought away? I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years now and we have talked about having kids but not until we have a house, and are ... (87 words)