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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think he's too good for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! So 3 months ago (febuary) i had my first date ever with this guy. We had been chatting before over fb, and when i went home for a holiday he wanted to meet me, and we really hit it off. We went on 4 dates and i really felt happy with him...we kissed and made out... (311 words)

I'm not looking for a serious relationship, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, So I don't know dating rules and am a naturally horny person. I don't have a lot of self control if I'm attracted to someone. This does not mean I can't say no but if I like the person and he's hot to me, I'm very sexual and "fast" to many most likely. Onto the pro... (476 words)

My prom date just updated her status to 'in a relationship' and now I'm wondering if I should talk to her about it or just go with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, basically i'm really confused at the moment. I am taking this girl who I've liked for a long time to my end of year prom and was really looking forward to it. However I have always been wary whether the feelings were mutual and just earlier today I saw on facebook ... (99 words)

Should I kiss her next time we're together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 16 year old bi female. My ex and I have been friends on and off for the past 3 months. She recently left again a week in a half ago, but on Friday she texted me saying, "I miss you like crazy. I miss hanging out and coming over, but I'm not allowed to come back because I ... (286 words)

I don't understand why I hate doing it but I love reading erotic stories.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid my problem is quite different. i like to read erotic stories, tried to watch some porn movies but didn't like it much. So basically i like sex, but when it comes to doing it, i don't like it at all, i mean i hate it. i wanted it to end, i never really enjoyed e... (171 words)

He said I stink down there and it's probably the food I eat!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey friends, me and my guy were out today evening and we were talking about having sex 2mrw at his place. He asked me if he should full shave? i said its your wish but just wash your men hair down there, so it smells good. He suddenly said that i stink down there and said maybe ... (247 words)

I'm a little worried about my new girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm basically a little worried about my new gf we've been dating for about 2 weeks and I'm not sure if she is still interested in me or not she's 8 years my senior but we both like anoqther and we hit it off when we met but now it feels like she's avoiding me or something ... (120 words)

Should I pay my children's' father's debt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My grandma passed away in march, it still brings tears to my eyes just thinking about her. However she was 95 and was able to be in her own home which is better than other ways. I was surprised to get a summons as she left something for my children and i. I dont know what it ... (212 words)

I can't get rid of the feeling, I'm feeling gross and ashamed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a straight guy who is in a long distance relationshp with the prettiest girl in the world..but due to some reasn..my gf and i cant talk everyday..its been 3 weeks since i talkd to her.today on omegle..i came across a bisexual horny guy.and he said he was horny and wanted ... (101 words)

I feel like I never get alone time with boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I was hoping someone would have some advice with how to handle this situation. I live w/ my b/f, but we both work a lot during the week. So, on a good day, I usually see him only for about 1-2 hrs before we go to sleep. And, during those hours, I am usually cleani... (262 words)

I'm lost with no direction after a long-term relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up about 8 months ago and in that time I was going through a roller coaster of emotions because before we broke up we took a break and she left with some other guy, I couldnt handle the fact that she did that, so we officially broke up 8 months ago on mutual ... (445 words)

I feel unattractive compared to the women in porn my husband watches

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I love sex, especially with my husband. My husband is rarely in the mood. There is an age differance of 15 years, he is 26 and I'm 41. I would have sex everyday if I could. He likes watching porn on the internet. Which makes me feel awful, because I am right here. We maybe have ... (94 words)

Why won't he video chat with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So i have been dating this guy online for about 2 months.. We knew eachother a long time ago via facebook. There was a break in the middle and we started talking again. And few months ago he told me he wanted something more than plain friendship and we began dating. My problem ... (140 words)

I've fallen for him, but I don't want to get him into trouble ...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 17 and I have recently fallen for a man who is really lovely, a complete gentleman and who wouldn't force me into anything I wouldn't want to do. Great right? Yeah...but he's 27. 10 years older than me. But I feel completely comfortable and at ease around him. We have had... (77 words)

How do you get stronger and improve self esteem in relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a history of letting men use me and walk all over me. I was super good to my ex, who did very little in return. Ok he wasn't very abusive or a complete b*stard, he just didn't really love me and made me feel worthless and unattractive by neglecting me. He told me he ... (251 words)

I love him, but not attracted to b/f anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 years now. Last year we split up for about six months, as I was having serious doubts about our relationship and also - and this is not something I'm proud of - I had a brief fling with a guy I knew, which I finished because it wasn't helping ... (307 words)

How do I tell this depressed man that the relationship is over and has been over?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I happen to be in a happy, committed relationship with a really nice man. No problems there. The problem is that I used to be in an LDR with a man about two years ago. After we met, I realised that we weren't compatible and that there was no way it would work out. He suffered ... (301 words)

I feel like second best compared to his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together 3 years. When we met we had a lot of chemistry and started seeing each other, a few months down the line we moved in together as i needed somewhere for college and he said he'd share with me. We had a really good relationship, really great and in ... (772 words)

Could this be a latex allergy, or is this normal for your first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I just lost my virginity yesterday to my boyfriend. (It hurt a lot, so there wasn't more than just a little bit of thrusting before we stopped) And he wore a condom, of course. I don't want to get pregnant! But about five or so hours later, when I was getting ready ... (146 words)

I can't wrap my head around the fact that my boyfriend is still friends with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some unbiased advice, which I am unable to gather from my friends or family. I've been with someone for a while now and we only seem to have one problem--he is friends with his ex. Never on a one-on-one basis, but she is apart of his group of friends. Aware that it is... (209 words)

Dumped on my birthday and I have no idea why!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Am feeling pretty fragile at the moment and in a state of shock and am hoping someone will offer me some advice. Have been in a relationship for the last 6 years and without warning and without any clues I have been dumped a few days ago. My partner invited me out to my ... (225 words)

I come home from my job and find my unemployed, porn-addicted but asexual to me, husband has done nothing but be on the computer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i am married for nearly 20 years with 3 teenagers. my husband and i have grown apart. i am the breadwinner of the family as my husband is too lazy to work and refuses to help me around the house. although we have not had sex for 9 years due to his anti depression medication and ... (167 words)

I'm broken-hearted and don't know if I can trust her!

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20 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now. We are almost 2 years dating officially. We have gotten in a lot of fights over the time and always seem to make up. Shortly after we began dating she got pregnant. We decided to keep the baby and work on things. When things ... (1694 words)

How on earth do I get closure with this guy and not take him back again and again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Well guys im back ..... where on earth do i begin, me and my ex partner (who is the cross dresser) started talking again, ending up going out for dinner, then i slept with him and we started seeing each other again, I did alot of soul searching and found that some of the ... (516 words)

I think about sex all the time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - so, i am 13 almost 14 and cant stop thinking about ..... sex, i know i am to young but keep thinking about sexual things me and my ex used to do(like kissing, and playing about). i dont know if it is right to think of this. what should i do, i dumped him last month as he was ... (124 words)

My girlfriend doesn't want sex anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 18 months, and we have been living together for six months. When we started the relationship, sex was very good and quite regular at least one or two times a week but over the last seven to eight months it has been not so regul... (307 words)

I think he's an awesome guy who's really friendly but I have absolutely no idea what he thinks of me, any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm an 18 year old, openly gay male. Last Friday I was out clubbing in a certain amazing area in a certain amazing city having a great time. I finish the evening and eventually got back home at 7 in the morning to casually check my grindr (an app that gay people use ... (1115 words)

She met a guy at a club and dumped me! why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I'm here looking for a little advice. My girlfriend left me three weeks ago and it's been hard, I understand we were arguing a little but that was because its so hard to be with someone who doesn't want to talk about issues or communicate. Anyway we were togethe... (508 words)

Am I wrong not to buy my wife another vibrator?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Am I wrong not to buy my wife another vibrator? A few years ago I bought my wife a vibrator to spice things up in the bedroom. She was a bit hesitant at first but after a while she would regularly use it to finish herself off. As the months went by, she began to use... (221 words)

What are some ideas to totally delight my wife on her birthday? Really special suggestions please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Ladies i want to really spoil my wife for her birthday. She doesn't like music much. She loves the outdoors. This last twelve months have been tough for her at work and i hate seeing her look so sad. Is there anything more exciting or something outstandimg that might deli... (96 words)

How do you know if you're really loved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How do y0u kn0w that y0u're realy l0ved in a relationship?... (11 words)

Both of us are upset about our break up. Does he really love me if he puts his religion before me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been attached for half a year now. We started off as colleagues 3 years back and he has been courting me since then but we just got together recently. The reason why I did not accept him earlier is because of his religion and diet. His family is very... (813 words)

I want a divorce and my wife doesn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife always fights with me even on small matters ....we are lived sepeart now and has a baby of 2 yr old lived with his mom...now i wants divorce but my wife does not wants it ...so what can i do now.....pls pls help me... (46 words)

This has never happened before, not like this.Was this fluid what I think it was? Sperm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a chick almost 2 months ago, we have been great together, mazingly great. I've fallen for this chick and I'm getting the feeling she's falling for me. We're not going out or anything, but we do make out, a lot. I can tell when she's missed me with the way she kisses me. ... (261 words)

I want a girlfriend maybe but not kids. Does this mean there is something wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Is there anything wrong with wanting a girlfriend but NEVER wanting kids? Am I being too unflexible? Should I compromise my belief to some extent? How does this work?... (29 words)

Teen Angst: I Have no fantasy relationship, and haven't a boyfriend. So what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I recently found out that a guy that I had really strong feelings for was straight. First I went through the whole denial, then anger, then depression, and finally recovery. I am over him now and I can't even fantasize about him anymore, but that just feels weird. But now more... (80 words)

Should I remain at home? I'm so scared of leaving home. It's scary.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - The time has come for me to be an adult and im so scared. I don't know how to grow up and do for myself because im the only chilf and i use to being well taken care of. Next to all that issue is that im shy and i don't even get out as much. before i graduated high school i... (284 words)

I TRY So hard to be in the friendship and I give my all and I only get back less then half

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I'm AT a point in my life were I'm having a hard time coping with things happining around me.. ill be 24 years old in July, married for over a year now. Since I got married I moved away from my family and friends. I have a great job with realy nice co-workers but the area ... (715 words)

How can I know if my crush likes me or its just my imagination?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a huge crush on a certain man,older than me by 3 years.He is so handsome and business-minded at the same time.We usually cross our path at the corridor near my office.I don't know whether he likes me or not but i have this woman intuition that he likes me,how will i know ... (62 words)

Guilt. Boy troubles. We are getting closer. Should go for him, if they do break up given the history of it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So this is another one of those boy problems. As much as I want it to NOT bother me, as much as I want to not pay attention to it, it keeps popping up in my mind. :/ So my friend (call her X ) was dating a guy (let's call him Z ) who has a best friend (Y).X and Z were a cou... (278 words)

My boyfriend is getting on my nerves and making me paranoid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I'm going crazy! My boyfriend is getting on my nerves and making me paranoid. We seem to have 2 different ideas of commitment and relationships. Most of all my lack of trust with him right now is ugly. He says he wants friends but he's only interested in making female ... (184 words)

What are some things to talk about with my gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been togather for almost three years now. will be three years june 15th. And i know everything about him. We are running out of things to talk about. We live togather in a apartment so the only time we are away frm each other is when he is working. I ... (73 words)

What do I do about this cheating man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am ashamed to say I had a affair several years back and it resulted in my having a son. The man in question is over twice my age at 55 and has three grown up children. After publicly denying everything he then try's to ring and failing that starts making fake allegations to ... (143 words)

Weight loss tips needed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey there ,I'm trying to lose some weight, but my weight it is very stubborn, and does not want to move. I tried to eat healthy , 1200 calorie, and walk everyday, but it just not going anywhere. Is there any idea what works to start to drop the pounds ? It is very discouraging ... (124 words)

Does he like me? Or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have a huge crush on the man who owns the local butcher shop. We're friends and I am a regular customer. I can't work out whether to make a move or not - he goes ott liking everything on my Facebook for a few days then ignore me for a few. When I'm I'm his shop he is very ... (155 words)

I was expecting gratitude and thanks for saving her from eviction, instead I am almost being punished!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (M)

age - I have a friend who I have been pursuing for over a decade. Every year we get to a stage where we get really close and intimate but i just wait knowing that she will soon distance me. I have learned to accept that this will happen and come to realisation that I can only ever ... (281 words)

I'm starting to repeat an old mistake for the third time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm doing it again, i can't stop myself but it always happens subconsciously, it's the 3rd time now and I won't have any friends, i'm ruining my life doing it unless I stop! Basically in junior school when i left i didn't keep in contact with anyone, instead i wanted to brea... (226 words)

Am I being played by letting him woo me all over again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so after four months of being broken up my ex contacted me to tell me how mich he missed me and that he missed everything about me and has thought about me everyday since the split which was his decision. We were together for about a year i meet him we hang out it was ... (122 words)