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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He may have children he doesn't know about and I am hurting, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was really upset yesterday, as my boyfriend told me that he might have children that he doesn't know about. He is much older than i am, so he has had more of a past than i have had. He had flings with a few women from other countries when he was younger,and he said they may ... (217 words)

Ex doesn't want to have sex with me because he's afraid he will develop feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - On another note, Im a junior and my ex is a college freshman. Me and my ex were together for 2 years and 4 months. I broke it off and went with some other guy out of revenge for the way he treated me in the relationship. He would always be smoking weed or drinking and wouldn't ... (276 words)

How do we approach that first kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months. we're both 13 years old. we havent kissed yet..only hugged. i dont know what to do. i wanna kiss him so bad but we both get nervous and we're both shy. he wants to kiss me too but we just dont..we hang out a lot but it STILL ... (62 words)

Am I too heavy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am just over 5"1 and weigh about 125-128 lbs. As a 20 year old girl, am I overweight? I feel like I am and am not very comfortable with my body. I can't tell if it is simply my own insecurities or if I truly am very overweight. I don't know if it could affect my weight but I ... (108 words)

Do I start a long distance relationship with a woman I have only spent a few days with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well. This has been an interesting month. Thanks in advance for the advice; here is the situation -- I'm a junior (in high school) studying abroad for the year in Spain, living with a host family. Been here for eight months so far. I'm a lesbian, had boyfriends in th... (1091 words)

How do I introduce myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy in my grade goes to my school and he has no idea who I am, but I have a crush on him regardless and I really wanna meet him but I don't know how to casually "bump" into him and introduce myself without seeming like a weirdo! Help!! :$... (51 words)

Girlfriend "moved on" while I was deployed, what happens now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

27 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I was dating my ex for close to a year before I was deployed in October. My deployment was originally scheduled to last for 6 months, but was extended twice so now I'm scheduled to return from my deployment in about a month (9 months). The majority of my duty here is planning, ... (1272 words)

How soon do you organize a third date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have been on two dates with a guy I met a few weeks ago the last one was last wednesday I went round his and we watched a dvd together how long is it usually in between that you make plans for a third date we have kept in touch since our last date I have been a ... (81 words)

34 and single, will I ever find the right guy for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 34 year old professional woman who never had a boyfriend in my life. Yeap, that's right. I am not fat (5.4ft 120lbs) and I am pretty satisfied with how I look people say. I've been on several dates before and a few guys have asked me out before but I declined bec... (341 words)

Who should say sorry first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just fought with my bf 2 hours ago. The reason is that, we had a huge pregnancy scare last week. I don't want this kind of fear again so I told him tonite I will show him how a woman's cycle works..this is just to explain to him when I am safe and when we should use ... (393 words)

Internet encounter ended after numerous suggestions of a three-way!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I got in to a situation with a guy from an internet dating site. I am there to meet with guys to eventually find a boyfriend, and this guy was quite clear from the start that he was just out of a relationship and was looking for "a lover". I thought "OK", I am only human, been ... (537 words)

Did I do everything right? The person I asked for help isn't too happy with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have a bit of a long story to tell. 2 weeks ago, I invited a friend of mine to help out at an Open House. During the entire week, he asks what I needed help with. I told him I didn't know. And, the day just before the Open House, he got a little upset. He said that... (209 words)

We tried having sex, couldn't do it and now he's being really weird and blunt with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and have really liked a guy for 7 months now and I got the feeling he liked me too (we're both quite shy so nothings happened) but last night he invited me round his for the first time and we were having a really nice time and got on really well and then we started to ... (163 words)

Relationship not going well, please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 25 year old woman. I have a long relationship with my boyfriend. Our relationship had both good and bad moments. We were very in love in the beginning, but after the first year we started to fight for everything. I am a person who is used to state an opinion when I ... (609 words)

We seemed to be getting along well -- why the sudden change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been talking to this guy my age for a couple of months now, he goes to a different school and I've never met him alone, only with a group of friends. We seemed to hit it off from the beginning, he texted me every day telling me how i was beautiful, he was such a ... (202 words)

Is ths sound normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I were having sex, and then she stopped me. There was this sound inside of her. Its that kind of sound when you rub two balloons against each other. She was complaining that it was hurting. That pain lasted for a while. is that sound normal after you're having ... (58 words)

Is there a chance that a virgin won't bleed on her first sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

27 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I just had sex with a girl, younger than my age. She claims that she has never done anything like that before and was REALLY innocent on our first try, so do I. I know nothing in making a distinction between the virgin one and the experienced one. But I want to trust her with ... (179 words)

Can someone explain her behaviour to me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Can anyone give me some advice in regards to this girls behavior at the club last night? Okay , so I was with my friends last night at a club and I usually don't go to clubs but since it was my friends birthday I told myself I would make a exception. We were lucky enough to get ... (236 words)

Bad sore throat after a bj

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is clean, and we know that for sure. Him and I had our first experience together, and I gave him a blow job. When I was doing it, all went well, except he started to push my head down a little farther, which resulted in me starting to cough from choking. After a ... (135 words)

In love with 2 totally different men... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - 3 months ago my (ex) fiance broke up. We had been fighting a lot and it came to a head. He had said too many nasty things that I could not get out of my head. I just couldn't deal with them. I am still so in love with him and just yesterday we met up for the 2nd time sin... (461 words)

I'm sick and I'm disappointed that my b/f didn't care enough to call

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was sick to my stomach and my bf of a couple months had spent the nite,he woke up next morning n said he had to go to check something at his house but would come rite back with medicine for me,well 4 hrs later he calls n said he had to help his family with stuff for a the day ... (227 words)

Best friend's girlfriend trying to get rid of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This is going to be very long explanation so sorry in advance. This is about my best friend/crush (I'll call him C from here on to avoid confusion). C has told me he is bi and I have told him I'm gay. About a year ago C broke up with his girlfriend. I saw this as my chance to ... (554 words)

Do I try with my best friend or go for a new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago my best friend and I gave it a shot together. We were liking each other very much and we spent every second together, so we thought we could also try to make a relationship between us work... But there are a few things I can't deal with: He just can't get over... (216 words)

I'm confused! what do men want in dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Can someone help me out here, please! I'm divorced had been with my husband for 10 years and have been single for 18 months, not looking to get into anything that will suffocate me as my marriage did. I've dated two guys in the last 6 months, well not exactly dated but been ... (176 words)

Is our relationship a chore to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2996 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, im a little confused about my feelings for my boyfriend, we've been together for a year and a half, I absolutely adore him, and I know he feels the same. But sometimes I get the feeling our relationship is a chore to him. We're only 17, we've got the whole world in f... (276 words)

He is a good husband but a womanizer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age - about 5 years ago my husband and i had been not intimate with each other because he was busy with his married gf but the affair stopped 2 years ago. he got another young gf after that and told me three months ago she was pregnant.he is a good husband but a womanizer(he had so ... (240 words)

Do I send him a nasty letter or completely ignore him ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, well the last couple of days have been traumatic for me to say the least, we had finished the relationship and i was doing fine, i text him to say basically do what you have to do but dont include me. He then said I had his motivation for going to this club all... (386 words)

I have found out A LOT of dirty secrets about my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My relationship has had it's ups and downs from the beginning.. now almost 3 years in, I have never felt more lost. Over the duration of the relationship, I have found out A LOT of dirty secrets about my boyfriend. For months, he would do nothing but make out with me and ... (1194 words)

Mutually abusive marraige--has my wife fallen out of love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my wife and I are in an abusive relationship. she hits me and throws screaming fits . She also also breaks down my self image verbally.I have in the past retaliated and verbally abused her in turn. Despite this when things are good they are really good and I know I love her ... (262 words)

My boyfriend's ex is a super model while I'm fat and ugly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend's ex is a super model. she is drop dead gorgeous with a perfect body. they broke some 2.5 years ago due to some misunderstandings. they really loved each other, ive seen their letters in his bag once. my boyfriend and i have been together for the last 1.5 years. im ... (105 words)

Ifeel like she expects us to take care of her baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone in need of some good and honest advice because im not really sure what to do or how to feel. So here goes... I have a 9 month old daughter and I have a friend with 4 kids being 6,5,2 and a 5 month old. Now she doesn't work and uses government assistance and c... (741 words)

Need some info and insight about having sex on a girl's period. Help?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

27 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a real pickle about this one. My current girlfriend and I trust each other enough to have unprotected sex, and of course I get that feeling that I want to cum inside of her, although I can always control that urge. Me and her were talking about her time of the month and ... (171 words)

My fiance likes to act out that I'm a virgin and he's dominating me when we have sex. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Most of the times that my fiance Nd I have sex he plays out me to be a virgin and that his taking over me and he says things such as, ( no one can hear you, can you feel that pressure while its ripping your thinght virgin p***y.) Or he covers my mouth or holds me down so I ... (149 words)

Girl on top. How is it done without being totally awkward?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I recently had my first time, but it hurt a lot, so I did some research and got some advice to try me on top next time. Only problem is, it seems like a really awkward position... But I'm sure you Aunts can help explain this to me so it's not as awkward-sounding, an... (84 words)

Is my teacher stressed?

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27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Well, I am a freshman in high school and I have this English teacher that means alot to me. I really look up to her and she always calls me her "favorite student" and that means alot to me. She's really stressed out this month and maybe that's what it is but lately, she's ... (194 words)

This 18 year old girl really likes my cousin but he's married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So in camping with a lot of people and this 18 year old girl really likes my cousin and has told her friend that she is gonna try something tonight with him. He just got married a few months ago and has a kid on the way. That girl knows he's married. His wife is not here. I've ... (106 words)

I have this "shell" around me, I don't let people in that easily!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) age 30-35 - In the past few months, i met a guy and started talking to him. We clicked right away, we had similar personalities, we understood each other pretty well. I have this "shell" around me, i don't let people in that easily and i'm so afraid of rejection that i sometimes might ... (498 words)

What is the best way I can persuade her to be with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

27 May 2012 (M)

age - I need a quick answer to this problem, any advice is appreciated. I am going to have a one on one meeting with my girlfriend this week, she is going to decide between myself and another man. Im assuming her mind will be made up What is the best way I can persuade her to b... (84 words)

Boyfriend asked me to stop the handjob I was giving him, because he didnt want to ejaculate and make a mess!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - We were making out on his bed and it was intense ....he fingered me..he always cares a lot about my pleasure and makes sure to please me...and so far i never did anything for him...he'd say he just loves seeing me happy because it makes him happy..but i still felt bad S... (145 words)

Would you date someone with scars from self-injury?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

27 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Would you date someone with scars from self-injury? I recently went through a pretty rough period while I was far away from home at college, and I became so mentally worn that I resorted to cutting as a coping method. I know it's bad, and I know I should "get help." Luckil... (120 words)

Did anyone have such experience of mixing work and love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Me and my girlfriend have been together for over a year (have been friends for years before) now, we went through a rather long rough patch recently, but it seems we managed to hold on together. Everything was good again, but something has happened. Well, me and her ... (308 words)