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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend's friends took him to a strip club for his birthday...and I was there with them!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my boyfriend recently had a birthday. We have been happily together for over a year and I love him more than anything on the planet. I even moved from Ohio to Hawaii to be with him! Anyway, my boyfriend and I went out with a bunch of his good friends for dinner, and on ... (239 words)

I'm hopelessly in love with a man who refuses to commit. Is there any way this could turn? Is there anything I can do? Should I just run?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in denial but maybe writing this out will help me move on? I am madly in love with a man that I've known for years and was seeing for a few months. Despite the baggage he has, issues, and I think a drinking problem. Things were really great, I thought we were headed t... (267 words)

Is it possible for him to actually love me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My story is kind of long so I´ll try to be quick...I moved up to New York when I was about 9 and lived up there for roughly about 9 years, when I was 13 I met this guy named A (there´s another guy this A) and well it was puppy love I guess and we went through alot even though ... (407 words)

He was my best friend and now I don't know who he's pretending to be

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I need you to please tell me what happened here: Last year, I became really good friends with a boy in my choir. We spent one whole night together for a feild trip and, suddenly, we became really close. He had such a fun, cute, personality and didn't care so much what people... (530 words)

My friend told me that his girlfriend likes me, how should I handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a problem and wanted to ask for some advise since I don't know what to do. Today a good friend of mine which is also a classmate from a class I'm talking told me that things between him and his girlfriend have not been good and that they barely date now. After he ... (165 words)

Why do girls cheat on their boyfriends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Do they do it because they are horny over another guy? I'm not trying to make it sound like guys don't cheat but I already know why guys cheat, because they're horny.... (32 words)

The girl I like is friends with both my ex girlfriends!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl that I really like, and I've known her for a long time, and I'm pretty sure she likes me. The problem is, is that she is good friends with my ex, and even more strangely, recently friends with my other ex? How should I approach this, if at all?... (56 words)

Does my uni lecturer feel the same way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4578 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello all, this isn't a school girl crush per say but i am unsure whether i am looking to deep into this or not. Basically at university there has been a new lecturer who has been there for over a year. He has a lot of back lash from the cohort, not his fault they were just r... (394 words)

Was that outburst a signal that I should end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past 1 and a half years. Before we hooked up, he was a total playboy -- flirting with girls, encouraging them on to flirt with him, a new girl every week...and so on. Then after we got committed, he kinda settled down. His ... (364 words)

B/f blocked me because I complained about his activity with ex on facebook

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i hve been in a long distance relationshp for 6months now things have been ohkay but recently we fight a lot over his ex galfriend who calls now and than,and i told my bf that i hate it when the ex calls,he said he cant tel someone to stop calling him,than ... (104 words)

Is it bad if my girlfriend and I don't talk every day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey is it bad if me and my girlfriend don't talk everyday? She only likes to text. I like talking to her a lot but maybe too much I'm not sure. We just recently said I love yous and she said she's is gonna make up for how she has treated me the last few weeks. She does have a ... (84 words)

Guys: Would you date a disabled girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I have a simple question; how do people view people with disability for relationships. Particularly, guys, would you easily date a disabled girl? Thanks.... (26 words)

How do I make b/f understand that I shouldn't have to change for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I has some disagreement lately due to religious issues. I am a free thinker. He is quite involved in his religion. He expects me to be a vegetarian and to convert to his religion when we are married. He says this is so that I can understand why he is a ... (294 words)

How should I trim my pubic hair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) age 26-29 - I'm 16 years old. How should I trim my pubic hair? Please help :)... (14 words)

Why do guys in long distance relationships not try harder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - we've been together for 4 years..2 of them in a long distance relationship..i love him very very much...and i know that he loves me too...he never never doubted that we will get married etc..but lately it seems like i'm the only one that wants to make it work..i write him like ... (124 words)

My boyfriend stalks me by using fake FB accounts and it's getting creepy

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - We've been together since 3 months. The first week we were dating I caught him writing to me from a fake Facebook profile (my friend noticed the profile's page on his Iphone). It was just a smalltalk so I asummed this is normal and wrote some stuff pretending not to know it's ... (473 words)

How do I make my family see that age, nationality and religion don't matter to us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi.. i have a relationship with age gap difference and different nationality and religion. but we respect each other and we dont see this differences between us. im asking for a blessing from my family but their are very concerned to me and what other people say to me.. but i ... (85 words)

Should I make another attempt with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm really confused about what to do and hope someone here can help. Around a month ago, i met this guy through an online forum. We started chatting and a few days later exchanged numbers and started texting each other. We would text all day and he would call me after ... (330 words)

In love with girl who is in a long distance relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys, I currently have 2 years left of school, and at the beginning of this year, I completely fell in love, for the first time, head over heels for a new girl who is from Japan and has come over to my school for 3 years to study English and experience Western life. ... (334 words)

Are sex and a relationship different or the same thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I just want to know what guys think of this... Are sex and a relationship different or the same thing for you as a man? Which one do you usually choose and can you tell us why? ... (45 words)

Is my back too large?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! Right this may sound silly but i'm a UK size 10 which I would consider to be a healthy size, i'm 5'4 and 34E bra size. Anyway, I was looking through the internet today and I saw someone comment saying anyone who is a UK size would never been a 34 inch back as it's ... (122 words)

Does it ever happen that the guy falls for the girl who's been standing beside him all along?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, just wondering what are the possible outcomes for my situation here. This guy Josh is one of my closest ever friends..we tell each other absolutely everything, have helped each other through our hardest times (parents divorce, death). We had a slight sexual phase once in ... (178 words)

I'm worried about how our sex life will change as the bump gets bigger, and once I have a saggy, stretch-marked belly after giving birth. How can I keep my bf attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'd love some advice on how having a child changes a person's relationship in terms of sex and attraction. I'm 16 weeks pregnant to my bf of 2 years, it's our first baby and although it was unplanned, he's very happy about becoming a father, and our relationship is great ... (219 words)

What could this girl possibly have against me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - What is with this girl? I'll admit at first, I thought she was extremely sexy, just like everyone else did. But after my first one on one (if you could call it that), I'm totally put off by her. the first time I actually said something to her, she completely ignores me. I said ... (628 words)

How do I forget about my friend and just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This has been a problem for too long now and I really need help with this issue concerning an ex friend. I’ve never really had many friends in my life but I’ve never let it bother me when I moved on from the few friends that I did have. But this one friend who I met in college ... (406 words)

Does a woman have to look like one of these pornstars to get attention when she isn't there.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really bad problem. I have always been offended by fantasies my boyfriends have. I take them as a personal insult. I take porn use as a personal insult. It all started with my first boyfriend who was into milfs, I hated it. I always wondered why these fantasies ... (172 words)

Drunk, hooker and emails to exes (

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've engaged for 3 years, planning to married soon around this year. We have up and down relationship, as we have different culture (I'm Asian/Indonesian and he's an Australian), but so far, we're trying to get it through. 2days ago, i called his hotel (he was in Sin... (552 words)

Am I doing the right thing by washing my hands of his kids and focusing on my own son?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What it is.. I have a baby son who is 6 months old. My partner the babys dad has 6 other children, one of them that we don't know cuz he didnt wanna meet... 3 of them, his ex-wife's ones, used to come to ours every single week as I was inviting them round for sleepovers... In ... (241 words)

Is he bailing out on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've known this guy along time. We had a great connection and began dating. We had a lot of fun together and I found myself developing some deep feelings for him. He explained early on he was "burnt" in a relationship years ago and after that he basically stayed s... (216 words)

After 21 years, wife has found someone new and will go to counselling but wants to see him too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Today is my 21st anniversary, we have 4 kids, we have never fought, and just 3 days ago I found out that my wife met someone on a trip with friends. She has seen him one other time since then, again on a trip with these friends, they've kissed twice, and have talked on the ... (761 words)

Why are people so upset by the fact that I cant drive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - For the longest time i have been fearful of the art of driving. as a teen i was never excited to get my drivers licensee like everyone else. I have always been baffled how people could go through life driving and ultimately putting there lives in danger. plus driving is just so ... (537 words)

I feel like his love is slipping away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my sons dad for 2 yrs and i have a little girl by a different guy.now and at first he was really affecionate and caring and now everytime i try to kiss,or cuddle with him he doesnt want me to,he tells me to move or hes too hot or something,and i dont know why ... (247 words)

I told my husband I want to end the marriage and now he's acting all pitiful

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - After being married for 12 years I've told my husband I can take it no more and I want out. He's been cheating which I found out and even after that I've put up for 3 years. We have 2 kids and I have been telling him since a year that I am not happy And plan to leave and his ... (188 words)

Is it possible to get it right the first time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am seventeen and a few months into my first real relationship. Everything about it seems more perfect than even the most sticky-sweet fairy tale could possibly imagine but it terrifies me to think of it being really serious because it seems impossible that my first boyfriend ... (127 words)

Casual relationship with friend/roommate has become more for me but I don't know how to tell her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a situation that I am very confused and emotionally frustrated about. At the beginning of the year I moved in to an apartment with one of my best friends (who is female). For awhile things were going as a normal roommate situation would... Then, on occasion, she would ... (355 words)

I want my friend online to move to where I am

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - well topic over someone i love that ive never meet. well here it goes, one of my friends plays x-box live with this guy, so were all hangin out he calls she answers, long story short me and this guy start to talk, we started texting 24/7.talked on the phone all night,exchange ... (185 words)

I don't know the difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal one

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a sex problem and I really don't want to be graphic but I need help all the same. I hope the moderators won't censor my question. I don't know the difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal one. Whenever I've had orgasms from sex, they've all been during pene... (191 words)

Need advise on how to improve my resume, and job interview tips

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) age 30-35 - hey aunties, I really need help I'm 19 and currently looking for a job, I've send out resumes but never actually got an interview, I think mostly due to the fact that I don't have any experience ( not even volunteer job)although I speak four languages i'm not entirely disquali... (189 words)

If you love someone will you change for him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - If someone expects you to change for him, is it love? If you love someone will you change for him? My boyfriend and I have been in disagreement recently. He expects me to understand his religion so that I can understand why he is a vegetarian and why he goes for religions pr... (237 words)

His penis is too big!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Im seeing this guy for a few months. He has 8 inches, and says that he is being very gentle with me. This one time we had sex it hurt so bad, that I had lingering pain for 6 days, took painkillers. He said that was going about half as hard as he likes to, and made me cry at ... (124 words)

I'm feeling very uncomfortable with this male friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love him, we get along really really well. He's my best friend and I feel 100% safe with him. Recently we got into separate colleges (but we still see each other a lot), but we do not study together anymore and we'v... (245 words)

My boyfriend is hanging out with my nemesis

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - well my boyfriend has been hanging out with my nemisis and talking and sitting by her instead of me. I gave him a note saying i dont like it and he said that he thought i wanted to break up. then after he comes and talks to me at school the next day and the hour before he asks ... (140 words)

What can we do? Boyfriend wants to spend more time with me, should we compromise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This summer, I will have summer school three days a week and work on the other days. My work requires a minimum of 5 shifts so I will be very busy. Basically the most convenient way to spend time with my boyfriend is during my summer breaktime which is 3 hours, 3x a week. ... (140 words)

I'm married, she's married but I love her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey pals I had a wife for 2yrs but had never been happy with her coz she became my wife after impregnating her and was imprisoned but 2months ago I met and fell in love with a married woman who said she never wanted an affair but rather a relationship.her husband has 3women ... (135 words)

Is it common for an uninterested married man to get hit on in a bar?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - OMG I am married and I got hit on at a bar today. It felt awful plus I had to chug a really expensive, very very good beer! This has never happened to me before but I don't go to bars very much. Is this common, to hit on guys that are wearing their wedding band, and are bu... (290 words)

How can I show my boyfriend I really love him with out having sex ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - how can i show my boyfriend i really love him with out having sex with him i am planning to be with him for a very long time any ideas tips it would realy help!... (35 words)

How can I stop missing this fool because I know I deserve better!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a younger guy since the beginning of the year, both of us have been hurt in relationships and so we agreed to keep it "simple" between us. I've been on call for him emotionally and I thought that we had quite a strong friendship between us until I found out I ... (353 words)

She's in Florida, I'm in Canada, can we make it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I know I'm only 17 years old but I met this girl on YouTube four years ago and ever since then.. my feelings have been getting very profound... I am doubly sure she reciprocates as I recall asking her if she'd ever date me... to which the answer was in the positive... I have no ... (213 words)

Will I find someone who doesn't believe in sex before marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am a Christian and I believe in no sex before marriage, however I don't know that I will ever find someone who feels the same and is also a virgin, are there any people like that out there??... (40 words)