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Should I leave him alone to stop being desperate, or be always after him?

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Question - (9 May 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, *ucilleLucie writes:

Dear Cupid,

My x said that he loves me I do too., but he keeps on flirting. Whenever I talk to him, he doesnt wanna talk, he seems like a bad mood, but whenver he's in a good mood he wanna talk and that gets annoying, so should I leave him alone to stop being despererate, or be always after him.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (10 May 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntleave him alone.

he's an ex for a reason.

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A female reader, _crystalxo Brazil +, writes (10 May 2012):

leave him. He feels that he's able to contact you whenever he FEELS like it and that youre always going to jump to talk to him. Dont give him that satisfaction, as said by others ...he is an ex and let him play that title.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (10 May 2012):

CindyCares agony aunt He is an ex ! and exes are exes for a reason. You should NEVER ,ever be after him. Personally I don't believe in staying friends with exes, but if you want to do that, then it should be a two way street , not you making all the effort.

and you should never act desperate , with any boy at all, past prenet or future.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (10 May 2012):

The Realist agony auntWell it does sound that he only wants you around some of the time. I would ignore him when he wants to talk to you a bit. Maybe then he will realize that if he wants you in his life it has to be more of a constant thing rather then just whenever he wants. It doesn't sound like he is all too enthusiastic about getting back together though if that is what you are after.

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A male reader, Singing_candle United States +, writes (10 May 2012):

Singing_candle agony auntSounds like he's a real jerk. He's taking you for granted. I suggest you should do the same to him. Give him a taste of his own medicine. And, if he's still the same then there's no cure for this dude. You would have to leave him.

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