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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Since I was 5 months pregnant husband checked out emotionally

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I got married 9 months ago, I was 4 months pregnant. I'm 20 and he is 28. When we first met, we had a passionate loving relationship. Once I started showing he didn't seem interested in sex anymore, we only had sex about 5 times since I turned 5 months pregnant. ... (197 words)

I got drunk, things went downhill. How do I fix things with this great guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - met a guy (new one) back in december. i really liked him and things were going good! i was a little insecure with his ex and stuff and i kept bringing it up initially i put him down too as a result because my ex cheated on me…i thought he too will or can be a playboy with me. ... (1188 words)

Even though I try to help her I think my younger sister hates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am the 2nd sister of four and I believe my younger sister has secretely hated me over the years . I come from a dysfunctional home where we all had to be on our own at an early age , I had to go at 16yrs old . The sister that I thinks hates me had to be out with our you... (382 words)

Ex bf in contact and wants to go out. Should I be hopeful?

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22 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I posted here a while ago regarding a break up with my bf of almost 3 years. This happened about 3 weeks ago. When he broke up with me he said he didn't feel the same way anymore. Anyway so I have been super strong and have not contacted him since. Within the first we... (270 words)

She loves oral sex so how do I get her to give it to me?

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22 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - How can i get her to involve into giving me oral sex,however she love me going down south and it is my weakness,So i can`t say if you are not in I am out.we are together 15 years. ... (42 words)

When will my sister stop punishing me ?

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22 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help! My sister who is my half sister treats me like dirt. She is close to our other sister is my full sister her half sister so well.I have always been there for her even through her divorce plus helped with her kids when asked. When I got married she didnt come or send ... (205 words)

Recovering alcoholic ex wants me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi. i was with my ex for just over four years, we have a daughter together. we have been split up for nearly 7 months. he is a recovering alcoholic, and he is desperate to get back with me, thing is im scared wot if we get back together and he starts drinking again?! i can't ... (92 words)

Is there a happy ending for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I split up with my partner 6 Months ago as his heavy work schedule meant we was never spending any time together and even though it broke my heart I had to think of myself and my 2 children with whom I have from a previous relationship. Recently we have gotten back in t... (240 words)

I love a boy who doesn't know about my existence! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I decided to write here because I really need help. I totally don't know what should I do. I will try to present my situation as best as I can, but English isn't my native language so sorry if there will be some difficulties in understanding me. So here my story starts. I'... (562 words)

The odd scent "down there" on ladies

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have a question about scent, in genereal. I've noticed, on occasion, from very different women, a scent from "Down there". It's a rather odd scent. Kinda on the stinky side, but, not the kind of stink that drives me away. Actually, it's quite a nice kind of stink. S... (151 words)

Caught my boyfriend masturbating to porn 4 hours after I gave him oral. Does that mean I didn't do it right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I went to go to sleep last night but my boyfriend stayed up. I was playing games on my phone because i couldn't quite fall asleep. I decided i would smoke a cigarette before i finally decided to sleep. I realized that I didn't have a lighter. So i went out to the living ... (155 words)

Can I hear from some women whose husband are either in the military or they are fireman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice from ladies whose boyfriends or husbands are in the army! My boyfriend is considering a career either in the army or as a fireman although I think he would prefer the former. While I am supportive of whatever choice he makes, I can't help but worry about his ... (198 words)

I can't take it! I cheated and told my girlfriend but the guilt is killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my girlfriend 6 months ago and we have been dating for 7 months now, i felt so horrible and i told her what i did.. i didnt tell her everything i did though with the girl so i started feeling guilty again then told her the rest i did with that girl a few days ... (108 words)

I'm a lesbian, then what's with my feelings for this man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles. I'm in a bit of a crazy dilemma here. First off, I'm a 29 year old lesbian woman, holder of a PhD in Electrical Engineering. So I'm not an idiot. I also don't want kids, so I'm not really worried about my age. Since I was a very little girl, I knew I w... (868 words)

Was it just friends with her? Or more?

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22 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, Im a bit confused about something, i'll give you the basics to start. Im a girl, Im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for a year. Last weekend I went away for my sisters birthday, for a girls only weekend. There was a girl of 19 who I met her before about 4 ... (357 words)

I've been having an affair for 2 years with a family friend. Should I tell the wife and my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i m 22 years old and i guy i love is 44 and is married with 2 kids. we have been in a relationship for the past 3 years. initially when he started saying that he loves me i tried completely avoiding him but slowly he convinced me into falling in love with him. the time he ... (196 words)

Can we survive this? Boyfriend refuses to live on a budget!

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22 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i seem to be on different planets. We have plans. But he refuses to live to a budget. And worse he has walked off several jobs. When this happens he ends up borr9owing from Mr. If we have very different ideas on budgeting is there hope for is?... (54 words)

I fantasize about other men during sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I fantasize about sleeping with other men when Im sleeping with my husband. It makes me sick just to type that. I really love him. We have dated on and off since highschool, and after a big break up in college he got really physical with multiple girls... (when he was app... (511 words)

How do I let my ex know that I miss him and would like to try again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me a week ago....and I still want him. I fell for him really hard and wasn't sure where I stood with him. It lead up to a big argument causing us not to speak for a while and then he said wanted to stay friends (we were friends long before this) He txts m... (260 words)

I'm pregnant and don't feel excited about that or my boyfriend. Will these feelings pass?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I need some help to understand why I don't feel emotionally connected to my bf anymore, and if this means I no longer love him, and what I should do, please. We've been together 2 years, and at first, I was wary of opening up to him too much as he had a reputation as be... (864 words)

Do I explain to my ex why I deleted him from my facebook?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a long story, I will try to condense it... Split with my ex in December. We were together almost 4 years. In that time we were long distance 50% of the time due to me being in Uni. I visited him every holiday. He visited me once, begrudgingly. I wanted to travel. ... (590 words)

I think boyfriend might be cheating and now he's acting all clingy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, just a quick question please to get your views. if you suspect your BF is having an affair, but know that you are quite insecure, and have trust issues yourself and cannot prove anything, so then you back right off and he starts coming on really strong and seeing you ... (105 words)

How do I turn my FWB relationship into a real relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a fuck buddy who i have been shagging for a year, we started seeing each other few years ago then he said i dont want a relationship. we have mutual friends that do not know we are fb weve have known each other 9yrs and always ask our mutual friends how we r doing if we ... (171 words)

Is there a way to break my hymen without pain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi in 17 and me and my boyfriend want to try having sex. I have read about all the diseases and things and no the risks and we will be careful, what I'm really worried about is my hymen. My older sister had sex and said it hurt really bad. I'm afraid to get hurt is there a way ... (65 words)

Why can't I get my wife pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been married to my wife for over a year now, but I failling to impregnant her, it seems I'm the one with the problem because she never misses her periods. Is it normal? Its now disturbing me. Pliz help. ... (40 words)

Is my girlfriend lying about why her cousin was in her room so long?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - one day in an ocassion, me and my girlfriend's first cousin who is a guy have been drinking. for a while he left me and without knowing, he goes to my girlfriend's room. it took a couple hours after he get back. i asked my girlfriend if what they did. she told me that they just ... (112 words)

I asked my husband to move out but he's acting in front of his visiting family like everything is just fine between us!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a controlling Husband trying to prove me wrong and put me down quite often - making jibes at me infront of the kids and not helping out at home generally. I work full time and look after home/ two kids. Etc. I warned him before that i had been to see the consellor as i ... (197 words)

My boyfriend constantly talks about himself and has no interest in me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend seems to only talk about himself, there's the usual conversation of him asking me how I am, what I've been up to and that'll be it, he'll start to ramble on about his ridiculously large collection of games, or his passion for the Japanese language and manga/anime - ... (241 words)

Should I just try to have some fun with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I haven't dated anyone since my ex and I broke up 9 monthhs ago. We had dated for 2 years, and within a week after we had broken up she was with someone else, and I had been completely replaced. After that experience I dont know if I want to let anyone in for a while long... (1136 words)

Does she not want to get close? Should I hang around and fight for her or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

22 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i wanna know if i should keep trying to fight for this girl i like.We have known each for about a year i have recently asked her to hang out with me twice. First time i asked her out she couldnt make it because she was gonna vist her grandma ( she told me before it might be an ... (158 words)

I think my wife is lying about cheating on me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I maybe have sex 2 times a month and all of a sudden she feels way too loose ,so much so that i cannot stay erect and I know this is stupid but i asked her if she was using toys or if she was having sex with someone else ,her reply was very very defensive and angry ... (173 words)

Forced to accept being kept in the dark, how can I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! My boyfriend and I have a fantastic relationship, with no problems at all. However, something has come up recently that I feel I need a little guidance in navigating. Recently, my boyfriend has taken a job with an organization which will require ... (212 words)

Ladies: I have some dating queries, please let me know what you think

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

22 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is a post for the ladies (guys can def help too). I'm a guy and have been meeting the odd female here and there but I never actually get a formal relationship out of any of them. So I have been thinking of what may be the problem. It is of my perception that the ... (241 words)

My husband keeps cards from his ex wife out in the open and hangs around with a psycho ex girlfriend claiming that they're "friends"! What is going on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have recently moved house, and we are still in the process of putting things away. Today, on a shelf in the den/study, where he had just put everything where he wanted it, there was this card in plain sight. It said,'To my husband', so I picked it up to reread ... (258 words)

After 6 years together I find out he doesn't want a child with me. Is he just waiting for someone better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, would appreciate your thoughts on my current situation. Have been with my man 6 years, I am always askin him if we still want the same things etc, and we both have kids of our own. He always sayss yaaaahhh. Any way recently he gets ratty if I mention that Id love a ... (200 words)

I'm immature and everyone hates me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15 years old and I feel like I am immature. I am very talkative and annoying. It seems like everyone hates me because of it. How can I be more mature? Thanks :)... (37 words)

What if we go to the beach and my boyfriend just wants to look at girls who are more fit and prettier than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I might sound insecure asking this, well because I am about the topic. I want to go to the beach with my friends and boyfriend. But the problem is that I am overweight. Not that he is in tip top shape but I am a size 12 tops and size 12/14 bottom. I weight 175 and I'm 5'6 ... (198 words)

How should I convo with him? He was looking at me. So why did he write to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy were both 19 and hung out yesterday but they (him and his cousin) said i was quiet and it was awkward, but i don't get it, because I ask him like what he does for fun, what do you usually do? what sports you like? what kind of music you like? and dogs you like? ... (187 words)

How do I make it seem like I don't like him anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) I really, really, REALLY like this boy and I think it's getting pretty obvious. I really don't want him to figure out, but I think he already knows! How do I make it seem like I don't like him anymore? I don't want to stop liking him, I just want it to seem lik... (66 words)

How can we make out when I'm scared to even kiss?

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22 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months, almost 6. We kiss, but we don't make out. I want to make out with him, but not with tongue. I don't know how I can do that if I'm scared to just kiss him. :/... (46 words)

This manager kept mumbling under his breath. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

22 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this is a stupid question but i would really like to hear someones opinion. ive recently applied at a restaurant and i am now working there. when i went for my first interview the manager who interviewed me was very polite like should be. but one thing i noticed was that ... (169 words)

When we're not dating he goes all weird on me!

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22 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I really need some hepl or advice to deal with this. I was with my boyfriend for just over 3 years, I ended it because I couldn't cope with all the stress. I have met someone so amazing, we met up and it all went great and he made me feel special, but when we're ... (171 words)