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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm going to pharmacy school. Will that get me more girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So my friend told me that seeing that i'm going to pharmacy school girls will be more intersted or is this just a myth? and girls don't care about this stuff? or do you say that it does help you get that girlfriend?... (43 words)

I can't sleep and all I do is think of my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, my ex girl of three years went on a break with me back in march then sent me an email telling me its over a month ago and i have been doing fine getting past her but now for some reason i can't sleep and all i can do is think about her. i don't know what to do ... (110 words)

He's cute. I'm invisible to him. So how do I get him to notice me? help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay do there is this guy. He's a junior in high school, as well as I, and he's very quiet and keeps to himself, but I absolutely adore him. I think he is very cute and I would love to get to know him better. Well my friend was telling me how this guy asked a girl out on a... (245 words)

Does he like me? Or are we doing things that stop us connecting? Is there hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - If you recently read my story on sending the wrong signals? About the guy JA who is 18, here is an update... After about a week and everyone getting involved with me and JA asking if we talked and then him not talking to me because of it. JA texted and called me again that F... (673 words)

My boyfriend lied about his online female friend, so I blocked her on his account!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys im kinda in a tough postion sorry for it being long. Iv been with my bf for a year and i found out by our mutual friend a couple months ago that my bf was sexting another girl. I gave him another chance but told him he better delete and never talk to her or sext ... (269 words)

My ex is now single, and I'm wondering if I should tell her how I feel

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello there, I'm a single lad and have been now for the past few years. My ex-girlfriend ,who is also the nicest person I have ever been in a relationship with, is now single again having just been dumped following a 6 year relationship with someone else. I still have ... (346 words)

How do I get my Bf to respect my opinions? And stop him telling unfunny jokes?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, thanks for taking your time to read this! So, I've been with my current boyfriend for a little over seven months now, and overall; he makes me very happy. We click very well with each other and we have a lot of similar interests. The one thing that I have difficulty... (574 words)

How does a girl ask a guy out? And should i, after what he said?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well........ I really like this guy in my year and i really want to ask him out but im scared in case he says no. i am good friends with him and i found out that he said i look like a man so i dont think he would say yes, but i still really want to ask him please give me... (90 words)

He's a great guy. But I don't want a relationship now. How to handle my confusion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - He is truly amazing, he is everything I every wanted in a man, except for a few things, one is his and my children don't get along very well so every other weekend is super stressful for me. Finances are super tight so he can't contibute as much as I think he should. He mo... (285 words)

Guys and girls I need your thoughts please: what does define a girl who is 'good in bed'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm trying to think of a way to put this delicately but failing miserably so here goes - I was chatting with some of my guy friends the other day, and one of them started talking about how this girl was really bad in bed. I'm a virgin and my bf and I are planning to have sex... (103 words)

Don't want to cheat. Don't want to upset my Bf, who I love. So how do I handle that I also love another?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok this is my first question. I love my boyfriend, we've been together for four months but lately I have been in love with another. And the feelings I have towards him is the same towards my boyfriend. I love my boyfriend and I don't want to cheat nor do I want to break u... (73 words)

He wants me to be his 1st official Gf. Should I consider it? Seeing as he's slept with 70 women in the past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Advice Givers, Im 21 years old, currently involved with a 23 year old man for around 4 months. We are completely into each other, spent alot of time and did romantic things together, all peachy till he confessed his number...the number of women he's slept with. ... (138 words)

I need some feedback please on what it'll be like for my Gf if I join the marines?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

11 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 my girlfriend is 21. We're doing quite well together, going on 2 years. I've been wanting to join the Marine Corps for a few years now. I have a son with my ex and I want him to have someone to look up to. My current job not only isn't paying the bills but after 3 ... (257 words)

How does he feel about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm just a little confused by this guy's behaviour and I'm not really sure how he feels about me or if he feels anything at all. I've known him for a few years but it's more his behaviour over the last year that's had me stumped. At first he was absolutely fine wit... (823 words)

My partner left his wife to be with me so I got what I wanted in the end, but I cant stop feeling horrible about what we did....

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I worked as a nanny for a family with a infant son for the past 2 1/2 years. "Lisa" the mom was a workaholic who loved her social life when she wasnt working, "Rick" the father was very good looking and he knew it and would playfully flirt with everyone that came into their ... (425 words)

We argue all the time and it always seems to be my fault! Should I postpone our wedding? How do I fix this without breaking up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I'm 20 years old and have been living with my boyfriend for a year. Everything was amazing up until a month or so ago, we have been arguing a lot and I'm finding my self taking the blame for every thing bad in our relationship as I am trying to avoid a huge argument. ... (218 words)

The distance is ruining our marriage, should I keep trying to work on the marriage or give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - we live two cities apart and we have been married for 4 years. during all this period i have been the one calling everyday and he only calls when i complain about it.I have been neglecting him since our son was born 3years ago, he says it’s because I wanted the child so bad ... (339 words)

Am I expecting too much to be holding hands and kissing by now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hello i am in a relationship with a man for almost 6 months, i haven't been in a relationship for a few years and previously had mostly one night stands. He has told me that he hasn't had a serious relationship because he has a lot of one night stands himself and he always ... (252 words)

My boyfriend's dad is a perve! How do I deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So ever since I first met my boyfriends parents I noticed his dad was always staring at my boobs/bum/legs. I said nothing, just felt incredibly uncomfortable and just started wearing heaps of clothes when we see his parents. Somehow, he still manages to oogle me. Im disgusted ... (282 words)

Have I blown it or can I salvage it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy a few months ago through some friends and he persued me but then I found out some things through the same friends. Ie he has a child and a lot of female friends, so I pushed him away without much explanation. I was in quite an abusive relationship and have massive ... (334 words)

Do we really need time apart for me to sort my issues out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, and thanks in advance for any outside input on my situation. I am in a relatioship with a man I am truly in love with and admire greatly. However, I have some major issues with myself that are basicly destroying us as a couple. We were able to agree sometime ago that I ... (282 words)

He calls me his 'wife' when talking to his friends, but has never met my parents or even suggested marriage to me! Am I wasting my time with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, my bf and i, have been dating for 4years now, we love, respect and understand each other totally. He is 32, i'm 25. He introduces me to friends as his wife, although he has never met wit my parents or even suggested it. He talks abt us getting married and stuff. ... (101 words)

Should I call the wedding off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I are to be married in 3 months, 7 years together and 3 children later but I have this nagging feeling of should i be doing this. We argue alot, more then ever since we have been planning our wedding. we cannot agree on anything and I wonder should we just go our ... (113 words)

I want to tell him how I feel, but I'm scared of losing him as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so i have this friend who I've liked for years. he's really cute, and i can talk to him about anything, but the problem is that i think he sees me as one of the guys. we met back when we were kids in karate class and he's now my training partner. we train and compete ... (173 words)

My man's just not doing it for me, help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, i'm seeing this guy and we've gotten to the point where we're having sex now. but the problem is that he's not very big so when we're doing it, he's the only one going away satisfied. is there something we could do to make it more enjoyable for me? ... (51 words)

My boyfriend cant orgasm through penetrative sex! Does he not fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 7 months can't cum through penetrative sex. he's 45 but has cum with other girls but rarely and not for many years. he takes a long time to cum when he's playing with himself. does he not fancy me, it's really upsetting ... (45 words)

How can I accept being ugly?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Rather than continuously wishing and hoping to at least be average, even with working out, eating healthy, makeup and hair straightening, I want to finally just accept that I am ugly. The hope and trying keeps me from accepting it, because in the back of my mind I keep hopi... (98 words)

I think I'm falling for him, but I'm clueless with his feeling for me..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Need some help here. So we've been exchanging email's since nov and it went really well, we discovered a lot of things that we have in common from our nationalities to the experiences that we had. He was so sweet with me. He keep saying that im a very cute and sweet girl, ... (293 words)

We are very touchy-feely and this makes people think we are together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend of mine who is also a girl and I are EXTREMELY close because of some really emotional things that we have gone through together. we are also both very touchy-feely type people so this combination leads to us being veeerrryyy snuggly :) But lately the way that she has ... (241 words)

I want to be a good friend, but I like him a lot! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I like at my school. He knows i like him, but he always says to not talk about it and to move on with the subject. He thinks of us as best friends, but on the other hand he gets too dramatic with things. He always talks to me about the girls he likes and it ... (90 words)

For the men: If you really loved someone, would you let their baggage stand in the way of being together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Question mainly geared at men If you had been seeing someone but your life was in shambles ( ie. Custody battle, economic issues, relocation possibilities) Would you risk losing the relationship because you were afraid of Bringing that other in? Or is it an excuse? If y... (64 words)

I'm stuck in a very difficult decision, should I call the cops on this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This may not be a sex related or relationship based question, it's actually a family issue and perhaps this isn't the right place to ask about this, I just find this site to be the quickest to get a response and I'm not obligated to register like on other forum pages. I'm ... (1121 words)

In love with my cousin but she has a boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my cousin she lives with us i want to tell her but she has a boyfriend. i really want her she is 19 and i am 18 i really don't know what 2 do?... (39 words)

I want to move on from my ex but my shyness is holding me back with new guys!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to move on after my ex-boyfriend disappeared on me 6 months ago, what I mean by that is I feel I'm ready for a friendship or even a love relationship with a man. The thing is I cannot start a conversation for the life of me I am pretty shy unless someone starts talking ... (186 words)

Hungry after drinking coffee?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I only drink coffee occasionally because I like the taste but I don't want to become addicted. It's always sweet coffee from Starbucks. Cafe mocha is my favorite and it gives me good energy for the entire day. However recently I had a vanilla latte twice. Once before dinner and ... (90 words)

Does my best friend actually like me, or am I being played?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so, i took my best friend to a concert. and he is eightteen im sixteen, durring the concert he kept holding my hand. i liked it, i almost made a move but i got nervous. so i didnt. when my mom picked us up from the concert we sat in the back of the car and he layed hi... (212 words)

My family don't like my girlfriend, and to make things worse she is at high risk from skin cancer but I want to move to Africa!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay i dated this girl for a while and wasn't very keen on the relationship because my parents and immediate family did not like her. Personally i can say she is a good girl but due to her rough past, my family did not think she was a perfect match. She has had it rough... (325 words)

Why did this girl say she would never go out with me? Is it because I'm ugly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

11 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Today at lunch I was hanging out with my two friends, their girlfriends, and their girlfriend's friends. Well my friend Alex asked this girl something that I overheard, it was either "Would you go out with josh?" or "would you **** josh?" and she just laughed and said "ummmm ... (92 words)

When married and inlaws live with us should I be paying half of the rent?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I be paying 50% of the rent if my husbands daughter and son and his brother witch are all grown except the baby living here? I recently told him he is to pay the entire rent himself and not look for nothing from me since they do not contribute anything. I just want to ... (65 words)

Why did my ex go above and beyond to get my attention and then just hours later shove it in my face that he's seeing someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I had to work with my ex on a project. We weren't on the best of terms before this project, but we were really nice to each other. But from his end, it was more than just being amicable. He went out of his way to be around me and talk to me as much as possible. But then he ... (217 words)

We had a great time, he said he wanted to see more of me but its been a week and I haven't heard from him yet. Does this mean he's emotionally unavailable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 May 2012 (F)

age - I am divorced and been lonely for a long time. I am 50 and take great care of myself, therefore guys flirt with me a lot. I went online and have met nice guys, but no spark. I met a guy three weeks ago , he is 44 . We have gone out twice. We had a terrific time last week when ... (144 words)