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Archived questions from: 12 May, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Get her number? Add her on Facebook? How do I get to know her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - During January one of my friends (also a classmate, let's call her R) started chatting with me through facebook. When I replied "Hi R :)" R answered saying it's one of her friends (let's call her A). I had seen some pictures of A before and I thought she looked very beau... (223 words)

How often do you see or speak to your FWB?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi thank you for reading this I am in a fwb arrangement I was just wondering how often you see or speak to your fwb as I only see mine once a month if that sometimes even though we live very close to each other I have asked him if he still wants to be in this he replied by text ... (77 words)

15 year old girl in love, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm 15 years old and am attracted to a police officer guy a my school. Problem is... he seems to like me back as well. I know it is wrong to like someone so old, he seems to be like 30 something years old or in his late 20's. So we always look at each other and its like if ... (298 words)

How do I move on? It's always him who's in my head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel pathetic. I'm 33 years old and I should be past all this by now. I met a guy almost 4 years ago. It was a night out that I wasn't even going to go on. I met this guy in a bar who turned out to be a friend of a friend of a friend. Straight away I thought he was ... (374 words)

Does he like me or do you think he's just being friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) Just looking for some outside perspectives as i'm having trouble distinguising whether a guy is just being friendly or likes me! Some reasons I think he may like me: - Always defends me infront of others - Casually drops off-hand compliments into conversatio... (163 words)

How do people manage to move on from relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do people manage to move on from relationships? I was with my boyfriend for 4 years, from 16-20. Since january we have been on and off. We still love each other and get on brilliantly but i think he is a compulsive liar. He has lied about big things, eg drunkenly messaging ... (230 words)

I don't know how to talk dirty to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone im looking for a little advice here. i have a great bf and all is well. problem is im rather shy and hes asked me to talk dirty to him in bed (just every once in a while atleast).... iv never really done much talking at all in that situation never mind dirty. he ... (145 words)

Should I confront my brother and/or best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help. My brother has separated with his wife and they have 2 children together. Recently my best friend has begun seeing him. Him being almost 35 and she's just 19. I know about it but no body else has copped on yet. Neither of them mentioned it to me. Ive ... (98 words)

Since the split, I find it awkward to start up conversations!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I split from my boyfriend 18 months ago and whilst we were going out he stopped me from talking to my friends and other boys. Since we split i've found it hard and awkward to talk to others and start conversations, how can i solve this?... (46 words)

What are some ways I can stay feeling confident and sexy without his verbal approval?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! i recently realized that my boyfriend NEVER compliments me verbally. however, i'm pretty sure he thinks i'm awesome. . . right? or else he wouldn't be with me? what are some ways i can stay feeling confident and sexy without his verbal approval? or is there any... (72 words)

Why do people react so negatively when I say I don't want to get married or have children?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

12 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Maybe, I am too young to say this, but I am just not interested in getting married or having kids. Now, don't get me wrong. While I do not want to get married, it doesn't mean I don't want to find and live my life with that one special partner. I just find marriage a messy... (295 words)

Do you have to just take the plunge at some point if you're really nervous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4605 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. My boyfriend and I have been together for six months now, he's nineteen and I'm eighteen. After A-levels are over we'll be going up to London to watch a bit of Wimbledon and we'll be sharing a room and we've planned to have sex together for the first time together. He's ... (287 words)

How can I tell my boyfriend that his comments embarrases me in public?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear reader: I have been dating this wonderful man for almost a year. We love and respect each other and everyday we become closer. He has even stated his intentions to propose to me and to ask me to move in together if I say yes. I love everything about this man: his politen... (197 words)

Divorce or go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

12 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey I need some advice, I think I don't see my relationship in a healthy way because I am in the middle of it. Anyway, I am a 32 year old man, living in Sweden, married to a 28 year old foreign lady. We've never lived together, but we where planning to do this really soon ... (1448 words)

Should I become his girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a teacher at a primary school and I went out with a few work mates last night and we got drunk and I ended up having sex with the deputy head (hes 38) of the school. We both have feelings for each other but we decided a few months ago that we wouldn't act on them. But this ... (220 words)

Problem with keeping an erection has me very depressed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

12 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hello sir/mam im a 27yr old guy i suffer with a problem for the past 1 yr . the problem is when i masturbate i dont pull my head out till last year and before one year my friend said that the head should come out during intercourse and when i tried it once the penis head c... (120 words)

Cheated on my husband with an old boyfriend, how do I cope now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i have lovely husband but last month i met my boy friend after 25 years and i and slept with him, now i am feeling very much guilty, please tell me how do i cope now.... (36 words)

What should I do to make him notice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Here it goes. I've had this close guy friend for at least 4 years now and when i was bullied a lot at school and cried he was always there. But you see, since we moved on to high school i don't even see him anymore and i try to text him but he seldom replies. I tried squeezing ... (125 words)

My girlfriend has a SIGNIFICANTLY lower sex-drive than me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

12 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this woman for 3 years, and I love everything about her very much. All except one thing, she has an extremely low sex-drive. Where I would be content with 1-2 times a week at LEAST, we're currently having sex every 6-7 weeks, and when we do she acts like it's ... (370 words)

Why do men marry women that aren't anything like what they look at in porn?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Well i have been confused about this for years. My husband dose this and other guys do this and i believe other girls do this. I have put on some weight through the years after i have had my kids and even before then i wasn't skinny but i was muscular. y husband always s... (284 words)

It bothers me the way that my b/f connects with women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is a very outgoing person and he loves to meet new people. When we go out, he'll often be very friendly to the waitress and get to know her or it could be anyone that is new among a group of existing friends. But more often that not, it will be women that he's ... (253 words)

How do I turn down a colleague who is acting weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some help to turn down a guy nicely, please suggest what is the best thing to do. We meet at least twice a week at work, and we might have clients in common, so I'd like to stay on friendly basis. He has been sending mixed messages for several months, he asked me a few... (352 words)

I'm 64. Is it normal that I still want sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 998 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age - i am a woman of 64 and widowed. i last saw a man in my bed 3,5 yrs ago. i still want love and sex. is this normal. please dont give me moral answers. i know we all need love to the end of our lives. i want sex too. and with love cos i tie sex with love. so my question is if its ... (204 words)

I want my b/f to pay more attention to me than to his laptop!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear, Cupid. Me and my significant other have been together for almost two years now. And for the past 10 months, we have been having some problems. He just doesn't seem intrested in sex with me anymore. It all first started, when he got a laptop. He had an older one, but h... (383 words)

I don't know how to tell my mother I broke up with my b/f

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I tell my mom I broke up with my now ex boyfriend? I had broken up with him once in the beginning of April because I had found him to clingy for me, I told my mom and she called me a lesbian because he was a sweet good looking boy and that I should have told her how I ... (203 words)

How can I encourage my boyfriend not to give up on oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, again! This time I have a more personal question- and I appreciated the answers I got last time, so I figured I'd open up a little bit more and ask for a little help with intimacy. My boyfriend and I both really love oral sex. In fact, it was one of the first things w... (267 words)

Bitterness from boyfriend flirting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for about 1.5 years now n he is now completely commited to me, but in the beggining he used to flirt with these girls. I brought up that it bothered me, then we argued, and he still insisted that she was just a friend etc even though was telling ... (194 words)

I think I made a mistake breaking up with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - in love with my ex. i broke up with him because he wanted to take a break with no rules and there was this guy that likes him and i knew something was gonna happen with them. so instead of going with the break i broke up with him, and now i think i made a mistake leaving him. i ... (89 words)

How do I give up on wanting a man in my life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age - Here goes. I have been single for over 13 years and have two teen children. I ended up dating about four years ago. I was in a relationship that lasted six months, but broke up because of communication and sexual issues. I am still friends with this individual. I had ... (402 words)

Can you tell from our conversation if he might like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there, So me and this Guy started texting about a week ago and we talk everyday, i have only hung out wit him once and that was in January.. (long time i know) anyways.. im trying to figure out if he likes me, he isnt like the flirty type guy hes more serious and mature a... (284 words)

Should I contact this guy and say I'm interested in just casual sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So there's this guy that I dated (we went out for a total of about 7 times). He stopped contacting me about a month and a half ago for some reason which I don't know why. I was really really attracted to him and since my last relationship of about 1 1/2 ago I havn't had a ... (133 words)

Do you think my ex is jealous? His friend has started texting me. So my ex resumed texting me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago. We were dating for four months, the whole time we were together he told me how much he loved me, and how i changed his life. But then he started getting distant and i knew something was up, so i asked him about it and he said he was ... (279 words)

How do I handle embarrassing visits to the doctor?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My mom took me to the doctor to get a referral for X-rays for my injured knee that I damaged when running during practice for Track. So there was this Medical Assistant guy and he was the one who checked my weight and stuff like that. He also asked me the embarrassing questions ... (661 words)

I hate the hurtful feeling that my mom is always nicer to my younger sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm two years older than my sister and my mom is always comparing us. She always says to look at my sister who has a slender face unlike my chubby one. She hints that my sister will be more successful. She says things like "Your sister is going to choose a major that will land ... (355 words)

I love my b/f but have a crush on someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Should I tell my boyfriend the truth that even though I am still madly in love with him and wish to marry him in the future someday but I keep on having slight crushes on another even though we just chat and being goof-balls? I need serious help, I'm confused and I'm breaking. ... (69 words)

I thought I was over my ex but now the feelings are coming back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

12 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I split from my boyfriend 18 months ago and he was my first love so it's taken a while to get over him but recently i've started to feel something again whenever i see him. Why have i all of a sudden started to develop feelings for him again when the feelings have already once ... (80 words)