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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How come I get hurt or burned in relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been so confused lately i have no idea what to do. My ex and i broke up a month ago and i recently found that he was going out with my best friend. A couple days ago they broke up and now he want's to rebuild our relationship by being friends. I don't want to let him in ... (112 words)

It's a lose/lose situation but I still love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in so much agony over the recent break up with the guy I was seeing. I had to stand up for myself in how things were going with him and I dont regret it. Because I couldnt go on accepting certain behaviors. he drink alot sometimes and turns into someone else. But I love h... (186 words)

He lies, cheats, steals and does drugs for the buzz!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiancee for a few year,we knew each other from being 13 year old and hung around 2gther! Anyway we grew up had relationships and both had children! In first couple months togther he told me he used to have a heroine and crack addiction he said he did it for ... (679 words)

My boyfriend called my phone but called me someone else's name??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf fought with me couple of days back, because i called him twice when he was hanging out with his friends. After that I didn't call him and neither did he. Today he sent text, saying sorry for his shouting at me and i didn't respond to his text. He called me and le... (157 words)

Confused, how much time and space does he need?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is Marissa 18 and this guy 18 i like is a we are just firends. We have been talking for about a month. He's very funny,cute,charming,a little shy but can hold a conversation basically he has alot of common traits with me. When we first started we were just text... (889 words)

I doubt his comments, is this because of my criticisng Mum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating for a year. We get on very well - he tells me that he loves me and behaves affectionately around me. However, there are occasions where I question why he says he loves and cares for me as much as he expresses. He mentions I have many qualities which he ... (106 words)

How do I deal with the friendships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a really close group of friends composed of 2 other girls and a guy. The past year, my guy friend and I have become really close (we're not dating, he's gay). Sometimes we have gone out to parties without these other two friends. They are annoyed by this and I know ... (179 words)

Is there such a thing as getting sex lessons?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound weird and bizzare but can you get sex lessons anyywhere? I'm not very cnfident in the bedroom and I'm currently single. but is there such thing as getting sex llessons like actal physical lessons but not prostitutes?... (42 words)

I have feelings for someone that I shouldn't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have feelings for a person I should not. He is brilliant, incredibly smart and charming, we talked for months everyday last year, attended a course at our college together last fall, saw each other frequently over the winter at academical meetings which he invited me to; ... (819 words)

How can I stay strong in my belief and not hurt him or disappoint him? I don't want to have sex for 2-3 years till we are married

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 and my bf is 25. We are committed. But there is little uncertainty in getting married. We are quite close and it has become tough for us not to get physical. I mean, I personally want to wait until our marriage and I am unable to convince him. It doesn't mean like I am ... (180 words)

Does anyone have any experience with Micronor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, thank you for reading for question and hopefully being able to help me. I have been on the contraceptive pill Micronor for at least six months (that I can remember), but over the past three months or so I have been experiencing very severe depression and PMT. I reall... (257 words)

What game is my wife playing here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - After 14 years of marriage and 2 kids, my wife wanted a divorce. We have been separated for 14 months. Now after all this time she calls me and says that it takes 2 people to get a divorce, that I should have stood up to her and made us go to counseling and that I left her. ... (147 words)

I get so crazy about his ex/past! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is certainly an issue of insecurity and I so much hate this crappy feeling. Ok so I'm 18 and I got a boyfriend who's at the age of 31. We've been sailing smoothly for 2 years, age hasn't been a problem. I know that there's nothing to be scared about, he loves ... (446 words)

I think my Bf should find someone better. How can I handle my jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I've been with my boyfriend for about 8/9 months and he's the nicest guy ever we get on so so well and everything should be perfect if it wasn't for my jealousy. Ever since I split up with my ex boyfriend I've been so paranoid because my ex hurt me do bad he was so so cont... (228 words)

When she watches porn it makes me feel I am not satisfying her. Is this the likely truth?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife chooses to watch a lot of porn and this upsets me, and as she knows this now she shuts screen down as soon as i come in the room. I tried to see if wants me to act like the pictures she watches,but she says no. Would her actions suggest she is disatisfied,despite her ... (62 words)

Is it that he is not comfy with me? Or am I trying to read too much into what he is saying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have read that sometimes when boys and girls say something it might not mean the literal stuff.. so i want to know that my guy keeps sayin that," you are too good for me.. at times i feel like dont deserve you..." so is this just trying to flatter me..or is it tha... (85 words)

Since she loves another how do I stop wanting to love her still?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - so here the thing my girl friend dumped me but we are still very good friends i want to stop loving her because i know there is no chance for me and her any way she already loves another guy but i cant stop loving her because i see her every day how can i get over her with out ... (68 words)

I'm so confused and desperate and I really want to hear his voice again but it's a matter of pride , any advice ?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I really dunno how can I explain this feeling am feeling right now , so I've been with my boyfriend since Nov. 2011. .. The first two months were magical by the meaning of the word -- he was so sweet , so romantic and passionate and he used to show great interest in me and do n... (478 words)

Any suggestions please? What would be the right may to approach this girl I really like?

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19 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So this isn't a rare situation but I thought i'd ask you all for advice or opinion I've been getting to know a girl via text for about a year now, we've met up a few times and always have a laugh. She was the year below me in High School and is now just leaving. (I'm 19... (165 words)

A guy asked me out but I was to busy with exams, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who i met a while ago, he has asked me out a few times but i had exams to revise for so i've not been able to as i've had no time!! I haven't had time to even speak to my parents, sleep properly or have any social life.. He knows this, but i think he may of ... (154 words)

I'm hurt and I don't understand what went wrong!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I dumped someone I was dating for 2 years. I tried to be as nice to him, such as telling him it wasn't his fault, and that it was mine. However, there was quite a few things that WERE his fault. I just kept it all to myself, until he persisted on knowing the real... (151 words)

How do I show them that I will never drink again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This is my story, Me and my gf were together for about 3 1/2 years, the first 2 years were great with some minimal issues, like jelousy and misunderstandings but we got over those. After a while i lost vision of who i was and i started to deviate away from the relationship, i ... (1364 words)

Is it weird to kiss your bestfriends sister on the cheek sometimes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - 2 Qs in 1: 1] I read something on here about someones bestfriend kissing her on the cheek for the first time as a family gesture and I was wondering if that means its wierd? I kiss my best friend on the cheek sometimes because shes like a sister and if Im honest I wish sh... (276 words)

I need to give him some space, but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I must be some kind of a controlfreak, and I'm about to lose my boyfriend, whom I have been with for nine years now. I'll lose everything if I lose him, the house, the pets, everything I ever build with him. (I've been in this situation before, but this time ... (92 words)

When it comes to making love , I don't feel like before! Why has my feelings changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there ! dear aunts, i really want some help on understanding myself..first of all i'd want to make it very clear that i love my boyfriend and that i love each and every quality about him. him , his behavior , his thinking and attitude towards things is the kind that i ... (637 words)

Why does my G/f contact her ex everytime we fight? What is he trying to prove by buying her a first class ticket? What does she still want from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so my girlfriend and I have been together for a year. Before that she was with a guy for a year and lost her virginity to him. Which im a little jealous of but oh well. She broke up with him because she said she got bored with him and never really felt that she was ... (675 words)

She's stopped talking to me. So should I break friendship with her or give her some time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl ,she is used to be very good friend of mine. we both are in same class.she is not committed and neither i am. we chat regularly on our mobile phones when we are at home and regularly in class.But few months earlier she suddenly stopped talking with me. first of... (208 words)

He asked, I replied. Now my answer is the reason he is breaking up with me. Can I change his mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone,i really need help on this.. I met this guy a couple of weeks ago and we started talking to each other on the internet.. We went out last night for the first time and he asked me with how many guys i've been.. I told him the truth that i've slept with quite a lo... (164 words)

I don't want to lose my friends. Does anyone know how to open a locked facebook page?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiii dear cupids..my facebook i.d is temprory locked..i dont know why..they asked me to identify the photos in which i nd my friends were tag..rather than identifying is there any ways to open my account..plzz plzz help me..i dont want to loose my friends..plzz help me..how to ... (51 words)

Will or can this affect my long time health? I don't have a regular girlfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old.i don't have any girlfriend till now. i am in a habit of hooking daily , i want to ask that is regular hooking affects our health or not. i tried to control it because i thinks it is affecting my health and i am not been able to concentrate on other thin... (102 words)

Should I talk to his wife? Or just break with him? He has lied all the way

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with a married man who is 20 years older to me. We met at work. He got transferred to our office from another branch. Initially we never really spoke much to each other, probably just say a good morning when we would pass by each other. He is in a senio... (1583 words)

He says it is over. I am broken inside. What can I do? I hurt so much inside.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I cheated on my boyfriend. We were together for two years. I gave him my all. I saw sides of him no-one else cared to see. I looked after him when times went bad. I gave him everything he wanted. I tried to always make him smile. I ordered university prospectus’ for him to make... (599 words)

Is this fair? our relationship is over because I cheated over tens years ago!!! help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I handle the fact of the man I have loved for 14 years wants to leave because of some things I did over 10 years ago. Even after him telling me that he love me and we were going to get through this together. Now it's I am inconsiderate, I don't communicate, I am not unde... (215 words)

Family Feud and my husband is siding with his sister against me. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 992 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age - I have had a very bad falling out with my sister in law. We never liked each other anyway but the last time I have seen her we had a massive disagreement. My husband sided with his sister against me which added to me being upset. Since then I have had no dealings with her and ... (485 words)

After 3 years he still hasn't said "I love you"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - There was this guy I was with in my college time, he used to visit me many times so I thought he was interested in me and started visiting and thereby got intimate but the thing is for about three years now since we've been in this relationship he has never said Ilove you is ... (75 words)

Dealing with my g/f after she's been out with the girls drinking is like walking into a minefield!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - So I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 5 years now. Most of it good, lately a lot of it bad. She is 43 and in the past year is when she really started getting bad with anger, mood swings and depression. One major issues is that she likes to go out with the girls to the ... (338 words)

How would you handle a spouse that is self absorbed and not affectionate unless it directly benefits him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My question is #1 When you love a person how do you cope with rejection and inconsideration? #2 How would you handle a spouse that is self absorbed and not affectionate unless it directly benefits him? Here is my situation I am still in love with my husband and I believe he... (1023 words)

Should I just kiss my friend to see where I stand with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a grown woman who feels like a teenager (with no disrespect intended) addressing my question. The guy I dated 3yrs back is my age. He was the first time I ever truly understood the meaning of love. The feeling was mutual. Too to good to be true is what we used to say about ... (285 words)

I don't want to love my ex anymore but I can't get over her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - my girl friend dump me a while ago and i still love her but she loves another guy how can i stop felling this way i want to not love her any more but i cant get over her how can i stop it... (44 words)

I'm no longer a priority in my man's life. How to tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend suddenly acts like he has no time for me. Hes always got something going on and it was fine I guess for the time been but now it's becoming absurd. Idk how I'm supposed to tel him that I dont feel like a priority in his life anymore and how upse t that makes me ... (64 words)

How can I get my hunny to enjoy more sexcapades with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 46m and me and wifey have stayed at a few swanky hotels to enjoy each other and have long awaited sex sessions due to kids at home.But when we get there it never fails I get real horny and she just wants to cuddle, WTF! So I go down stairs and get in the hot tub with ... (153 words)

Date is tomorrow but she has a cold. Options? Suggestions? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Heres the situation. I met this girl in class and finally on the last day of the semester got her number. we only talked once in person but w/e i got it. Immediately sparks flew and we texted everyday literally for hours before our first date. Our date went well but i didnt ... (335 words)

Girlfriend keeps breaking up with me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have been in a long distance relationship for the past 2 years. I currently live in Florida and she lives in Arizona. To make the long story short this relationship has been through so many ups and downs. She is bipolar and when I first met her she really wasn't that bad, ... (916 words)

Guys: Why would he ask me out if he's seeing someone else? Is he keeping his options open?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently started college in LA and about 2 months ago i met a boy in my class. We got on very well and he started flirting with me. After a while he became touchy on purpose but not in a sexual way, and he eventually asked me to go out with him and his friends to a party. I ... (174 words)

If a waitress is hot should I put my phone number on the bill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm starting to get back on the dating scene and i was wondering if it is rude or if it even works to write your number on the bill of a resteraunt if you find the waitress hott. Or is that an easy way to get prank phone calls?... (49 words)

Should we run away to get married since parents are against it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I m 23 and he is 25 want to get married but my parents are not allowing me we were in relationship from last 11year now we are trying to run away should we do that just because of caste problem my family members are not allowing me ?please help me out because we love each other ... (59 words)

Is She Worth Keeping?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well me and my girlfriend have been together for about 10 months. Just recently I heard from her aunt that she has a lying problem not just with me but her family. Her aunt told me that she hasnt had a job since we have been together, altho she said she had 2 of them. There ... (302 words)

No matter what girl I talk to, I only think about one of my best friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I'm having a huge dating issue. I just got back from a date from this girl I just met recently and I had a pretty good time. My problem is no matter what girl I talk to, I only think about one of my best friends. I've had a crush on her ever since we met and I think I might ... (172 words)

I'm obviously doing something wrong with dating and need some advice

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - right I'm not best person in world when it comes to relationships etc. but I've met a few lasses but never seem to end up in a proper relationship, 1st girlfriend I had when I was around 14/15, and was cheated on... aswell as being dumped the sane night I tell her my grandad ... (170 words)

My boyfriend made a girl pregnant then 2 weeks later he made me pregnant, what do I do or how to handle this situation

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend went out of the country a year ago,school related cheated on me but denied it, rumor has it he got the girl pregnant. now this girl is also known to be a hoe, so should i believe him or the pple that think she is right but they also doubting her? because she has ... (208 words)

After a fight, why does he send texts but won't call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Me and my bf had a fight 3 days back. He kept on treating me very badly and always ignoring me and my calls. I had enough, told him so and stopped calling him. He didn't call me either. Yesterday he sent a simple 'hi' text. i didn't reply back, today he sent 3 text... (135 words)

Why would my husband of five month, ask me what would I do if he had a girlfrriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - why would my husband ask me what would i do, if he had a girlfriend? he was trying to say suppose, and kept saying,i dont have a girlfriend but suppose? i am terribly in love with my husband, and totally stunned by this question. ... (45 words)

I'm pregnant, and my fiancé just learned I slept with our roommate when we were split up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

19 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i slept with my fiance's friend back in december when we were not together not by choice but cause he was drunk and wouldnt leave me alone for anything! he has been living w/ me and my fiance for 3 months and [my fiancé} just now is finding out after we lied 2 times about it. ... (125 words)

What am I doing wrong when it comes to girls? Why does nobody love me and how can I improve my chances next time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

19 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Just in the past 6 months, I have gotten rejected by 3 girls, which is all the girls I could man up to ask. One of them was a girl I loved when I was 10 years old. I hadn't seen her in 5.5 years but we started talking randomly and it didn't work. Another was a girl I saw around ... (667 words)