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writes: Hi everyone. I have been posted a question but I found no response.I am trying to know that what is missing in our love relation.My hubby is very hot for sex. He likes sex, and lots of it. I found him sexualy hot but not emotionaly.he cares about my happines but I am not satisfied with sex..often he comes first than becomes dull and lazy.even I think he loses his spark and interest.How can I get satisfaction and orgasm from him.
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reader, eshmal  +, writes (11 May 2012):
Thanks TISHA.
I would like ur more support.because I know he would appreciate this style but the problem is I an a bit shy even I can,t speak throughly and looking in his eyes,
I want to speak dirty and slang but I can,t do it with confidance just I can tell via texting.
I am looking for more support of agony aunts and uncles,dear cupid and every one here.
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reader, Glacier  +, writes (10 May 2012):
Tell him you need more satisfaction.
Here's an easy solution: let him go down on you first.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (10 May 2012):
Yes, good advice below. Whatever you do avoid making him feel inadequate. Buy a copy of Cosmo or another magazine with sexual content and be in bed first reading it and when hb arrives just throw down the mag and tell him you want him to lick you. ..
Good luck.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (9 May 2012):
 You should consider these four options. First, leave him. Because maybe he doesn't care about you. Second, try to have a talk to him about it (if he'll listen). Three, fake it. Four, just kind of accept it for what it is. You can't change other people.
I hope that helps. It can be difficult for women (just assuming) when their husband comes first. It's just the way it is. A lot of guys ejaculate too soon.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (9 May 2012):
 "Oh, not so fast, my dear! Last time, I was left wanting and I know how hot you are, and I think you are sexy too! But this time, it's MY turn to come first. You know the term, 'ladies first?' Well, we are going to adopt that some of the time when we are in bed. Won't it be fun? Lots and lots of play, and we both will be happy and satisfied at the end of things."
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (9 May 2012):
 Tell him what you need in order to reach orgasm. Don't let him penetrate you until YOU orgasm first. Then it won't matter how long or short the intercourse is, because you'll already be satisfied! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012): You could try some things in conjunction with him. Do not just spring these things on him or he may want to know where you suddenly learned these things.
Go on line and buy a book on love poems and read them to him around bed time.
Try some of the things listed in this. It might help:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/spicing-up-your-sex-life.html
Don't focus on what he is not doing. Focus on praising him very strongly when he does something right and let him know you are very happy when you truly are very happy. Positive reinforcement. Positive praise. Positive recognition. Honey achieves more than vinegar every time.
Try to leave the criticism at the front door. He does not need it.
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reader, 1sunshine +, writes (9 May 2012):
 Basically you need to sit down with and him and let him know how you feel. Was the sex bad when you met him? If so, you knew this from the start and still married him... Sex is pretty high up there when it comes to a relationship.
I was in your situation once when I was married. From the start, we had a great sex life. Years later, things changed and he wasn't fulfilling my needs along with a lot of other things that were wrong with us... I left him because he just wasn't the same person that I had married 7 years ago. I think you should put in the effort with your husband and see how he responds to your needs.
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