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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it possible that someone like my ex can change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, everyone :) This may be a bit long so please bear with me. I'v just come out of a three year relationship. We lived together the majority of those three years. Resons why we broke up: -he was extremely paranoid and jealous- constant accusations, following ... (457 words)

If a girl dry humps a male virgin, does it mean she has taken his virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

10 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm nervous on asking about this, on here. But, I guess my question is appropriate, to ask on here. When a girl dry humps a guy, does it mean he can no longer say he's a virgin? Like, for example, does it mean he's had sex, and, as a result, he can't say "I'm a virgi... (149 words)

Am I a bad friend? Should I let go of this one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

10 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a friend that I had a brief liaison with but she ended it and we decided to be friends. This was about a year ago. At first things where ok. I struggled with feelings and had my moments because she really hurt me. But I am better (well I still do have my moments tbh but ... (928 words)

My girlfriend doesn't pay her bills!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - plz help with some advice as im in a lesbian relationship with a woman who i dont live with as im at parents but stay at girlfriends alot. shes not paying her bills and doesnt have a t.v licence and people knock the door alot. what will happen as she doesnt answer the door and ... (91 words)

Should I talk to my boyfriend about this, or should I finish with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Should i talk to my boyfriend about this, or should i finish with him ?. He went to another town yesterday to see a friend of his and his sister. He was there from the morning until today. He sent me a text message yesterday morning, saying that he loved me, and that he wanted ... (436 words)

How can I tell my dad about my secret LDR boyfriend of two years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I really need your help. I've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years now (I'll be 20 next week, my boyfriend is 22). I've kept it secret from my dad the entire time though; when I went to visit him my dad would think I was going away with friends. ... (230 words)

I'm trying so hard to like her, and get to know her so I can develop feelings.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl who genuinely likes me, made the first move, and such... I'm trying so hard to like her, and get to know her so I can develop feelings. I believe relationships shouldn't be unrequited. I guess some things really drag me down, because she really complai... (145 words)

Is this a normal thing to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

10 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - So, my wife and I have been married for 3 years now. I know masturbation is a normal and natural thing, but I hate when she does it. Like, the other nite I could tell she started when we went to bed...So I tried to be a part of it because I don't think you should just ... (202 words)

My voice is high-pitched and I want to know when it's going to break?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I am fifteen an my voice is really high pitched, i cant talk very loudly or shout and i think people find it hard to understand me, I really want to know when my voice is going to break and if I should be worried as it is so high pitched. It the most embarrassing part of my ... (84 words)

Is it normal I feel the need to have all this now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have most definitely found the one. I know good for me. But why am I feeling the way I do and getting so sad? I'm 22 my bf is going to be 27 in a couple of months. He has his own flat and I moved in with him in february. The one thing he wants more than anything in this... (441 words)

Help me figure out this drama involving my girlfriend's roommate.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, this post could get long, however I would appreciate it if you guys could help me. This situation is absolutely horrible, and I don't know what to do. I've been going out with my girlfriend for just under 2 years (Anniversary on the 15th of this month). We've always had... (1128 words)

Why am I always in the wrong? And is my marriage over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

10 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my wife are fighting again when it should all be rosy and happy and its getting to the point where ive had enough of trying my best to make her happy, she is never happy no matter what i do, she always something to complain about or be dissatisfied over Take today for... (375 words)

Why do I wonder what is on the other side?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4476 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am nor sure what is wrong with me. I am in a relationship with a guy for almost 3 ywars now. We are long distance, but we spend considerable part of the year together (we lived the last 5 months together), and talk constantly. I truly love him. He is moving mountains and ... (329 words)

My boyfriend still sends his ex-wife a Mother's Day card and gift card!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Good day all I need objective opinions please! BF still sends his ex wife a mothers day card and gift card despite divorcing him for a new man, who she resides with. She dumps their daughter on day care and her parents do its not like she is mom of the year. Should I be upset? ... (111 words)

Why is he being friends with me, out of guilt or is there still love and a longing to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i met a guy from lebanon on the internet 3 yrs ago. we met on an age gap dating site..hes 17 years younger than me on the internet 2 yrs ago. im 43 hes 26. hes catholic and unconventional and we had a passionate two year relationship talking every night on cam and on phone each ... (950 words)

Why is he acting this way now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years. Overall, we have a pretty good understanding and respect for each other. Recently, however, he's been acting different. We do a lot of outdoor activities together. Sometimes when it's hot, I'd like to just wear pant ... (134 words)

How do I deal with queefing during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my vagina keeps a farting sound during sex,but its only when i'm giving a backshot position.another thing when i'm giving my boyfriend top stick my vagina keeps an embarassing noise.please offer me a word of advice please.... (37 words)

Scared of settling for the wrong guy....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I've always had flings/relationships with people who I don't think are good enough for me. I feel like I'm the one who settles all the time. Except for this one guy, with whom my chemistry was just incredible...we were SO attracted to each other physical... (267 words)

I have bad teeth and I'm not wealthy... is there a way to improve my smile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in my early twenties and I've spent my entire life with bad teeth. I have a small mouth and had 8 adult teeth (along with my wisdom teeth) pulled to give me some room, but my bottom teeth are still crowded to the point of one tooth jutting in front of the rest. On top, I... (173 words)

Young and broke, but wanting to get married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I are very happily in love. We are in our early 20s. We have been together for a couple years and have been living together for 6 months. We decided that we want to take our commitment to the next level and get married next summer. This step is very important to ... (206 words)

It seems my ex was cheating on me and is now with another girl. To top it off I think I'm falling for his brother! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have just split from my boyfriend of five years, we have a lil boy who's three this year, we split just after my sons second bday an he got with some one else but text me everyday, he insisted that he had no feelings for me. he started having our son twice a week wich ... (432 words)

I'm seeing my boyfriend tomorrow for a make or break talk, what can I do or say to him to try and make this work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been seeing an amazing guy for 10 months, hes everything ive ever wanted and more but theres one problem; distance. He lives 150 miles away and couldnt move because of his work and the fact he is carer for his disabled brother. I currently see him twice a week. He says he ... (152 words)

Do her 'likes' on his statuses mean something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a girl who has been frequently "liking" my boyfriend's status updates for several months now. i mean, i know for a fact they are not close friends, and she has been a bit excessive with her clicking. does this seem like behavior from someone who is sleeping with/ha... (82 words)

She gets really flirty, and then it stops. Analysis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Simply.. While talking to this interest of mine, and spending time, that she gets really flirty, and then all of a sudden, it stops. Is there more to analyze, like her personality can't keep it up with a routine, she's losing interest?... (50 words)

I want to be more independent and sociable. Any advice appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been feeling really down just lately, my boyfriend and I are both 19, we went to school together and started going out just before our second year of sixth form. Which he shortly left to go to college instead. I have now left school and work full time during unsociabl... (503 words)

I've given him three chances, now he's saying he'll stop! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i was dating a guy from the last 4 years. Around 6 months back i got to know that he was cheating on me and when i confronted him he said sorry and asked me to give one chance and i gave him another chance. And,after 2 months again i got to know that he's cheating me and again ... (111 words)

Met an amazing girl but she thinks I'm younger!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, i have been dating a lovely girl for a few weeks. We met through a friend and hit it off right away. She's 21 and i am 29. We have been on loads of dates and the other night, we were talking about birthday plans and she said to me " oh, your 24, aren't you? " - i was ... (412 words)

Am I stupid for being jealous of her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not really sure where to start and no matter what i write i'm still going to sound like a bad person but trust me i'm not. Very long story short, me and this guy from school got back in touch via Facebook. We met up and after meeting up a few times we ended up sleeping ... (414 words)

I develop feelings early then grow cold. I can't hold down a relationship, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi thanks for reading! My problem is that i cannot hold down a relationship and dont know whats wrong with me. I am 36 and a single mother of 2 lovely kids. I split with their dad 4 years ago after a really unpleasant relationship where he constantly cheated on me and lied, i ... (269 words)

He was cheating! I thought he was going to marry me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i found out that my boyfriend is cheating i was so dissapointed i toungt that he was going to marry me i didnt confront him i just dont knw what to do please help... (34 words)

Anyone out there in a FWB relationship that works?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear aunts, I have started a fbw relationship with my ex. We meet up every three weeks or so and spend two days together. We have gone on two hotel mini breaks and are planning another. Things have been really good. The pressure of being in a relationship is gone and we have ... (107 words)

'Til Dubai do we part...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I gave birth to my Son a month ago, after a very difficult pregnancy. It was an emergency c-section and our son has been all over the Province in hospitals ever since. Just after he was born, my husband declared that he had been offered a high-paying job in Dubai and wants to ... (333 words)

Cute guy at work has me questioning my 6 years with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've been dating my bf for 6yrs.I'm confused don't know How to deal with this temptation. There's this new guy at work and he's very handsome and when I looked at him I get butterflies on my stomach. Even when we share conversation he always says the right things that I ... (97 words)

Should I take a step further with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for over a month and I really like him, I believe he reciprocates and feel very with him. The other day I was talking over the phone with him and something funny happend. We're Spanish, and there is a smaller level of saying I love you, which is Te ... (250 words)

Mother's snoring fiance is driving me crazy! I'm scared I'm going to snap!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 21 year old fresh out of college female living with her mother. My moms fiancee lives with us. There's big issues going on in the house and frankly, I could care less for the guy (I don't really know him, we don't talk, we never have. I've always been away at college till ... (788 words)

How to word a wedding invite so it doesn't sound tacky?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am the MOH for my friends wedding. This will be her second wedding and his first wedding. They both live in separate apartments. He has the typical bachelor pad with barely nothing. She is a little better off, but could really use some new things, since she moved out leaving ... (188 words)

I love this guy, but I can't be dragged along by him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so me and my ex-boyfriend just recently started talking again. He wanted me to come over to his house after class. I knew what may happen if I went, but I went anyways. He not only picked me up from my class, but he made dinner. We ate, everything was fine. Watched some ... (425 words)

Could friends with benefits work better than a long-distance relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so for nearly a year i've know this guy. we have similar interests, and we message each other and talk constantly. we try and meet up every week (if not more often) to just chat, and he has become one of my closest friends. to this point our friendship has been totally ... (354 words)

Best friend hitting on my g/f. Now that she's told me she doesn't want me to confront him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys,i am 24 years old and my girlfriend she is 22. My girlfriend of 3 years told me that my best friend lets call him J(who is also a very close friend to my girlfriend,the 3 of us have been friends since we were kids) has been hitting on her,but that she had a talk wit... (302 words)

Is it legal to marry a muslim turk and have christian kids ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Am with this turkish guy for 8 months now and am just crazy about him I love him like hell, we pretty much talk about everything but when I read some of the answers regarding the question " my turkish man wants to be with me ... " I've had some concerns -- 1- am a christian , ... (182 words)

How should I go about this (asking her out) or should I just forget about her and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi. I am 15, a freshman in a private high school. I like this one girl, a junior, who's 16, and she doesn't like me, for one reason or another. I have never had a girlfriend, and that's because I've never had the guts to ask a girl out. How should I go about this (asking her ... (164 words)