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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have a thing for my boyfriends brother!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we love each other to pieces. However, lately I've been fantasizing about his brother and wondering what it would be like to go out with him. Now I've heard this can be quite common as brothers can be very similar, but in this ... (166 words)

Does it sound like I've done anything out of line to upset this girl, and is there anything I can do to ease the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, There's this girl at my school who's been causing me some problems lately. I met her a couple of months ago through a friend who's in an fwb type situation with her best friend. Though we only met that one time and spoke for less than 5 minutes, she developed a crus... (362 words)

I'm good enough at casual dating but need help when it comes to relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - It so happens that I’m absolutely awful at getting into relationships. This question is not one of the generic “I’m 19 and never had a girlfriend” lamentations. Although I was a late bloomer and upon starting university this year had relatively little experience with females, I ... (250 words)

My friend says he dreamed he kissed me. What does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been loving a guy for a few years now ( at least 2), he's one of my closest friends and he identifies as straight.. He flirts and stuff but he never says that he is even curious about guys. Well we was talking the other night on the phone, I was really tired but he ... (106 words)

My boyfriend has enough money to drink but never to do anything fun with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Right sooo, i want to make sure i get this across the right way, because before i start i need to say, i love my boyfriend with all my heart, he sensitive , he compliments me, he makes me feel loved ( most of the time) he is my best friend and i trust him, we have been together ... (671 words)

What can I do to make my husband stop watching porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i just got marrried in feb of 2012 an i love my husband but i told many times to stop watching porn..i even cryed to him saying how much it hurts me ..i feel so derpressed now an he still dosent care..if its hurting me..an if not watching porn then he will look at sexy pic ... (145 words)

How do I navigate my way through a love triangle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my story starts 2 years ago. I met this guy who was a bit youger than me, let's call him X, we became friends and then we started dating (sorry for my english, i'm not from america). Everything was perfect for about 1 year, we shared a lot of great thing together (we wer... (488 words)

I'm have pain during sex and I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 23 i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and when we get intimate i am experiencing pain during sex. It's a horrible stinging sensation like i have a water infection which i do not and i've been to the doctors numerous times, we've change lube brands changed ... (191 words)

Should I wait until we've been dating a year to ask my boyfriend where our relationship is going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is to the point... Do you think I should wait a long time before asking my boyfriend if he can see being with me in the future until we've been together at least a year? Or do you think he would know the answer already since he says he loves me? Also, I'm his first ... (76 words)

I have a crush on a local policeman

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Thanks for Helping me. Anyways, I have a dilemma. There is a school police officer at school and he seems to like me. I have noticed him glancing at me. When we are outside and I'm with my friends, he goes and stands around the area where we are at. He also seems to sta... (198 words)

How can I bring myself over the edge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - During intercourse last night I began sweating all over and also had a hot flush. Afterwards my boyfriend said these might be a sign that my body could soon be ready to orgasm. If this is true are there any hints on how I could bring myself over the edge-or should we both jus... (62 words)

I didn't stop another guy from kissing me and now I feel sick about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for four and a half years and we have a 2 year old child together. Last week I was at a friends house and there were a lot of people and a lot of alcohol involved ( I'm not using this as an excuse ). Anyways as the night went on I got talking to ... (221 words)

I'm 19, will my penis grow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - ill try keep this as short as possible! so basicly my penis is roughly 3inches flaccid and about 5inches erect... firstly is that small? big? everage? And secondly it points straight outward when flaccid, it feels like ther is absolutly no weight in it, it just points outw... (192 words)

He asked me if I wanted to be more than friends, I said no and don't know why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. Well, im a bit of an idiot! My guy friend (who i wanted to be more than a guy friend for aagggeeeesss) asked me out... and i said no?! im not even sure why really ... i know there is stupid stuff like he's a year and a bit younger than me and things like that, but i also... (144 words)

Girlfriend stopped showing me affection, I just wanna be a priority in her life again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so im going through a really tough time right now with my girlfriend. we have been dating for about a year and a half now and we have been talking about moving out and everything together. For about the last 4 months now though it doesnt even seem like she is attracted to me ... (241 words)

I feel that my girlfriend thinks that all I want from her is sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't want my girlfriend to think that all I want her for is sex but it seems whenever I bring it up anymore that she just comes to the conclusion that that's all I want I don't know where this stemmed from she used to be ok with it now I just hate to bring it up anymore but ... (64 words)

How can I tell that he is losing his interest as we only talk on the internet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - im talking to a guy i met online for about 4 months now. We talk as much as we can, but he is quite busy sometimes. Lately we havent been talking too much because I was really busy. And when I went online to talk to him he didn't start the conversation, so I have and we talked ... (224 words)

Did he like me or did I just imagine it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently came across someone at workplace whom iam still not sure was friendly or friendlier or merely helpful ... His eye contact was constant..The smile on his lips never died down quickly whenever he spoke to me..His eyes seemed to light up...I was openly stared at and i ... (437 words)

A man wearing pink skinny jeans?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - First reaction/ thought that comes to mind when you see a male wearing red/pink skinny jeans???... (16 words)

Trying to move on from a group of 'bad news' friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm 15 years old boy and I live in england. I left a group of violent,pretty stupid 'friends' i used to have and i've started socialising with my friends from my own school and I really enjoy it. Just before I left them i called them all fake friends because one of them ... (184 words)

Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the bat. However, I have no childr... (103 words)

I have too many family restrictions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I live in India. Too many family restrictions, they maybe for the good but sometimes I feel I've never had fun because of these restrictions. My dad and I have an on and off relationship. He always abuses me verbal and I always back answer. He apologizes later but we a... (231 words)

Does personality matter?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - If a guy is just average looking or even a little ugly (not like hideous ugly), but they have what you consider to be a really funny personality, you get along with them really well, you love to talk to them for hours, they have a cute personality, and is more interesting, ... (93 words)

As you get older do you become more confident?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, i'm 15 years old and I want to lose my virginity but i'm extremely inconfident with girls and they don't seem interested in me anymore. I just need your advice and for you to answer a couple of my questions. 1.As you get older do you become more confident with girl... (84 words)

How do we get through this? he's in jail!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend was found guilty in court due to his part in the looting that took place during the London riots. He is beyond embarrassed and his family are very traditional and let him know in no uncertain terms that, as the oldest son, he has disgraced himself. I tried to... (319 words)

I need some advice on sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15 and my boyfriend of almost three years is 16. We're in a Long distance relationship, but we're doing pretty well..very much in love :) By the time he comes back for vacation I'd be 16 and he'd be 17(same birthday), he's a great boyfriend and I really think we should h... (180 words)

My boyfriends a heavy drinker!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dearcupid Hey all, I'm just looking for a bit of advice regarding my boyfriend. We've been together around 4 months and within this time I've come to realise what a heavy drinker he is. I'm becoming increasingly concerned about it. We've talked about it on a few ... (460 words)

Did I annoy him by not letting things go further?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months and whenever we make out we grind and lately hes been touchin my chest and ive touched him but through his pants or underware. Yesturday he tried to slide my hand down and i didnt know if he had his under wear on or not so i ... (339 words)

I'm sixteen and this 14 year old boy likes me!

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13 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm sixteen and this 14 year old boy likes me but I think he's really cute. Does age really matter? Just wanna know before anything happens. He doesn't look 14 he looks older and way taller than me. Pls help me, thanks:)... (42 words)

I had a huge fight with my crush!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 May 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Earlier I had a huge fight with my crush. He vented to some of his friends and of course the girls (especially his friend Emily, that I think likes him) took his side. They act super protective of him and Emily has done and said things to try to keep me away from him. However I ... (136 words)

My mother is losing her mind!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My mother is losing her mind, literally. Last night when I went to work, she was sitting on the sofa, just staring at a blank space on the wall. I asked her if she was okay. She said she was. I then left. Eleven hours later, I'm back home and she's STILL in the same spot, ... (385 words)

If I go back to my first love will it be a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i am going to be 22 soon. I was with my ex bf for 1 year 3months, we split 9months ago. Reality was his negatives were gradually after telling his family about me, he wouldn't make that much effort and when he went to india on holiday he would fb his friends and call... (279 words)

She still texts and I don't think she is moving on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm 23 and about 10 months ago things started happening with a friend, we hadn't really talked that much one on one before, but we were part of the same circle of friends. This was towards the end of my degree at university, while she still had another year left. Anyw... (521 words)

I'm a virgin but all I can think about is just sex, sex, sex. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a virgin but all i can think about is just sex, sex, sex. every single day! is that normal seeing as i don't even know what it's like? i don't even know how to set about getting it! i seriously need some advice. oh and i'm turning 22 in a few months... (53 words)

I'm a virgin who doesn't know if she's straight or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a virgin who doesn't know if she's straight or bi. i think i'd love to suck some pussy given the chance but i never get turned on when i watch it being done in porn movies, actually i never get turned on at all watching any kind of porn. which is probably why i don't even ... (99 words)

I need some advice on how to help my bf understand that I am still a horny young woman, not just a baby carrying machine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I need some advice on how to help my bf understand that I am still a horny young woman, not just a baby carrying machine! We've been together 20 months, and our sex life is usually great. The rest of our relationship is great too, we're both very happy :) I am 12 week... (812 words)

I'm already insecure and boyfriend likes to wind me up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant stop my way of thinking and its going to end up killing my relationship and probably destroy myself in the process. I have the greatest bf ever, he is the one I know Im going to end up marrying, we've talked about it and everything between us is just right. But I ... (606 words)

She's amazing and is worth fighting for! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok my ex girlfriend just broke up with me cause up mis understanding. She looked on my phone and seen I deleted texts and also thought I deleted pics of us. I did delete text but not to hide anything from her. I never deleted any pics of us. She ignored me for a whole week ... (219 words)

I love her, we broke up but I don't want to give up! Advice please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - This will take a little while to read. Alright where do I start... I was in a strong relationship for about 6 years, strong and secure. Two days before she decided to break up with me and said to respect her decision. We where planning our wedding and speaking about ... (1561 words)

I noticed that my boyfriend calls one of his female friends crazy names! Should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I noticed that my boyfriend calls one of his female friends crazy names, its on texts - she has a boyfriend and they are all friends too. He calls he things like 'gizz guzzler' 'rug muncher' and i cant even remember what else i saw. She calls him some name, but doe... (210 words)

How do I get my girlfriend to give me a blowjob?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 months and i have brought up the topic of a blowjob before and she seems to want nothing to do with it I have went down on her plenty of times and I don't want to force her to do anything she doesn't want to but I believe things go ... (74 words)

Pregnancy obsession on my DAUGHTER - NOOOOO!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age - I caught my boyfriend of 5.5 yrs (really a part of my family), surprised him at his house(where I never go) jacking off to recent pictures of my newly pregnant daughter. He had gone into my computer and copied pictures that she had sent to ME of her big belly(tatsteful) but not ... (310 words)

Girlfriend setting unrealistic standards for me in the bedroom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So, my girlfriend told me she had a one night stand with a guy who was rather well endowed. She said it hurt, a lot, but it was good by the end of. We of course had some tension over this, I was jealous, she cried because she felt upset about telling me (and me feeling ... (461 words)

Erection when hugging/kissing my girlfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 months now, and the last couple times we've taken the time to say goodbye on her front porch before I leave her house we've spend a lot of time hugging and kissing goodbye and even just talking while holding each other. But ... (158 words)

Would you date me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am not the most picture perfect teenage girl in the world and I feel really insecure because of it. My stomach is not flat and I don't have a gap between my thighs like most girls these days and I don't have a bald weird looking 'area'. Although, I do like some of my curves. ... (95 words)

Is being the 'instigator' of a breakup just as hard as being broken up with??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3645 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Im feeling so utterly terrible after ending a 3 year relationship that im beginning to wonder if being the one ending it is just as hard as being the one who has been broken up with. Not only do i have to wonder how my ex is feeling, coping etc i have to deal with my own grief. ... (279 words)

Can I have other view points please on what to do? My wife is disrespectful and takes me for granted

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I married my wife when we were 20. I fell head over heals with her - nothing in the universe mattered. I was in the Marine Corps at the time and we never had money given the terrible pay. I was discharged in '90 and started my civilian career in IT, moved up the line and am n... (1190 words)

I love him but I do not get butterflies yet. Am I being too impatient? Is it too early to tell?

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13 May 2012 (F) age 26-29 - Hey, I am in love with my best friend and he is too, but we aren't going out..the problem is when we kissed for like 2 seconds, it was really bad..also, I did not get butterflies, I used to get it before when I had a crush on him..not anymore...when we hold hands or hug or k... (118 words)

I do not know where to draw the line. I know I'm a control freak. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4606 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Hope someone can help me out. I've just learned through talking out my relationship issues I'm having with my boyfriend with a friend. And I think we hit the problem on the head. I'm a control freak. A control freak about how I run my life, not over other pe... (259 words)

I worry that she compares me with her ex. Will she have a memory of her 'best sex' with her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

13 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a great girlfriend and we get along really well. Everything is going along perfectly and we really see a future together. Currently we are long distance as we are seperated for the summer, and my mind is giving me some troubles. I was a virgin before our relationship... (299 words)

My first Love. Will I ever get over him? Is there someone else as good out there for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - About a year and a half ago i started seeing a guy who turned into my first love. I was very inexperienced and everything was new to me. I know everybody says this, but it really did seem just perfect. we saw each for about 8 months, but broke up because he was graduating uni ... (429 words)

Where do I go, what do I do. How do I handle this bad situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

13 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend he lives in a different state to my family. But the Twist is me and him agreed on living in another state with his family. I want to don't get me wrong. But the thing is where i NOW is in another state. But my mom and dad , brother - all of them and I dont get... (397 words)