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*unshine8508
writes:So for the last few months I been doing all these nicce things for my boyfriend like cooking and cleaning for him and I never even got a happy valentines day, I have told him a gift or something nice would be appeciated once and a while. He knows I have been stressed out lately. For the last week I just keep feeling that he has me where he wants me and now I'm just beening a sucker doing nice things for him. I have told him that im mad with the way things are going and if he dont change then goin to find someone else who will want to show appeciation. I just feel the more I do for him the less I get back. Is it time to leave him? Or just quite doing anything nice for him? I do nice things for him cause I care, but I dont like feeling like I'm beeing take advantage of. Maybe this relationship is just not for me. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 February 2012):
 If you do things because you want to that's fine.
if you are not happy with what he does for you and you've told him and he's like "whatever" then you have your answer.
if he says he's been wrong and he will try to change he has to do so.
if you tell him you are mad that's not the way to go... you have to tell him what you need and want.
if he can't give you what you need then leave.
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