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writes:So.. Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months.. And..im not trying to be concieted or anything but.. Im one of those pretty girls alotta guys like..im 13 and i dont rrally understand how love goes.. I thought i did ..but it led me into something i dont know if i wantto ne a part of anymore .. Hes so controlive .. I dont habe any guyses number in my phone anymore .. My friends say i can do way better ..but do i want to? I dont know honestly .. He tells me he loves me ..but we figght constently .. My friend from another town is always tellin me dump him .. Or ur to good for him .. But honestly i dont think i am .. Ive gone anerexic once bc i was so self consious even tho i weight 90 lbs ..now im about 100 so im doin better but anyways .. I dont know what i want anymore ..anyone please help.. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 February 2012):
 6 months is not a long time to have a relationship
you don't understand love yet that is true... you said so yourself...
he's controlling. he won't let you have friends without his approval.... this is not a good thing. this is not love. this is an insecure jealous controlling boy.. how old is he?
love is "go out have a life enjoy yourself I trust you and know you will be back to me when you are done"
fighting constantly is not love it's not even friends
you don't have to be too good for him to be incompatible with him.
and if you have anorexia dear one you need to get into therapy ASAP to work on many issues... the least of which is that you think it's ok to take emotional abuse from a boy.
get out of the relationship as soon as you can
if you need mom or dad to forbid you to see him do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2012): Ditch the boyfriend. Focus on school. You're too young to be caught up in all that, and to be blunt, judging from that post, you seem to desperately be needing to pay more attention to your studies.
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