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*achakaRoni
writes:I have been talking to a guy for a week now- 7 days. He was texting a lot and then we went out on a date saturday. It went well- there were laughs and flirtation. He drove me home and we text that night and throughtout the day sunday (facebook and text). But Monday, Ive had a few texts. He still replies quickly though. Is he still interested in me?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 February 2012):
 Give it time.
If he’s responding by text that’s good
But wait till he calls and asks you out again.
And do not allow this to become all texting and online… that’s never good.
Aunt worldlywise gives GREAT advice… relax go about your life and just let it happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2012): He's probably at work, or in 'weekday mode' and so isn't thinking of texting you every minute.
You've only had one date so he probably assumes that like him, you have a life to get on with.
Just relax, don't bombard him or expect to be his only focus.Slowly does it, be a bit elusive, you must have been busy before he came along so just carry on as per. He will probably be in touch when it occurs to him, and will want to arrange date 2...
Enjoy x
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (21 February 2012):
 HI
he is at the moment, but if you keep texting him all the time and contacting him on FB, you will push him away. Its only been a week! let him contact you first for a while, if he texts you he will feel less pressure. It comes across as too eager if your texting and FB every day. Take things slow, if you like this man you wanna keep him right?? also dont make yourself available to him at any given moment either, you need to let him see you have a life other than him, texts and FB. If you stick with this he will be putty in your hands :D
hope this helps
Mandy xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2012): Yes, and only time will tell if he continues to be interested...
7 days is short, so it's still very early days yet. Your date on Saturday sounds like it went very well, and your continued contact over Sunday and Monday sounds promising.
Now you need to be patient and see how things go.
If he is consistent and continues contact, and asks you out again, you will know. If he says one thing, and his actions follow through on that, you have another example.
Be yourself, be confident and enjoy yourself and in time you will know what he thinks and feels too.
Good Luck, it sounds promising ;-)
xxxx E
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