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26-29,
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writes:I have had a crush on this guy for the longest. We have been texting thing is I always am I first one and he replies and we text for hours. Looks like he enjoys and I think he flirts a lot with me. We had a bowling date but he couldn't make it so he apologize and we had to reschedule but he had school so once again cancelled. I really do like him but I'm a bit confuse whether I should express my feelings towards him. I always see him at church we are both in the church choir I sing he plays drums. So I'm confuse if I should risk our friendship and tell him. Please help me it would mean a lot. Should I tell him or not?
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reader, MAEJ2117  +, writes (23 February 2012):
I was in the exact same situation with two girls I recently had crushes on, and both of them had completely opposite results. The first we were at the theatre talking pretty "openly" and I told her that I wanted to be more than friends, things got very awkward and after we got home I never saw her again. The second one I was very happy with and I confessed that I'd like to be more but was good with being her friend. When I finally confessed my full feelings, she slowly began to grow feelings for me and now we're very happy as a legit and loving couple.I guess it all depends on how you tell the guy. Guys like nothing more than to know that someone has a crush on them but you've gotta let the topic come naturally I think rather than doing what I did on my first attempt and just blurt it out.The big thing is do you think he likes you back? If so, then totally go for it. However, if you're unsure make the odd subtle hint and wait to see if he makes the first move.It's all down to your instinct and your judgment. Either way, good luck.
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