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writes:I think i seriously need help, i'm in love with this guy but he has a girlfriend but we are really really close. it all started last year with a text, he and his girlfriend was still new at that time. after countless texting and hanging out with him i grew to like him. at first it was just a crush, but it soon i began to really like him. Occasionally everytime we are together in a crowd i would see him glancing at me, he would smile at me everytime i see him. i try avoiding him but it didn't work. we became more close this few months and we had never stopped chatting.. he once told me he like me and even my friends said he showed signs that he is really into me. but i'm not sure if i should pursue him since he is in a relationship but as my friend said he and his girlfriend would always fight..but i'm really clueless in what to do. what do you guys think i should do? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): don't do any thing... leave it as it is even if he broke up with his gf...don't date him , most probably u will be a rebound thing... u don't want to lose a gd friend...good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): He is in a relationship, that is the end of it. You shouldn't pursue him, I am sure you wouldn't want someone stealing your man from you. I have been in a situation where a friend who I fell in love with had a girlfriend, and as much as it hurt that I couldn't be with him, I respected the fact that he was taken. Unfortunately for you that is where ends. Don't pursue someone who is in a relationship no matter how you feel, it's not right, and in the end if your meant to be with this guy you will be when and if he is single. Hope it helps.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (1 June 2011):
 not pursue him.
it's not cool to try to steal someone's man away even if he's receptive to it.
besides then you would worry throughout your entire relationship that someone was doing the same to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): You are really considering breaking some serious girl code here....wrong, wrong, wrong. If this guy really wants to be with you, he will. Period.
How would you feel if some girl did what you are considering doing? You need to back off and go find someone else who is available, not chase after someone who is not. Seriously, in the end it will come back to bite you and you will gain a reputation for messing with other's girls men, and nobody will trust you.
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