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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for almost a whole year (our 1 year anniversary is in 5 days) in the beginning we were like best friends, we loved each other so much he was always there for me i was always there for him, we had sex but stopped about a month ago because we haven't seen each other in about a month and i wont be able to see him for another 3 weeks but it seems like we've become so distanced. He always texted me sweet things we would see each other at LEAST once a week but now everything became awkward ever since we haven't been able to see each other because of his mom. We could usually go 2 weeks without seeing each other because he would ALWAYS ask when we could plan a hangout but since he got grounded we couldn't. Now yesterday....his best friend told me that my bf asked him if he should break up with me because he is tired of me..he thinks im boring, and he might find someone better but I KNOW that's not true because whenever we're together in person WE ALWAYS act like a perfect couple but over text everything becomes dull....so please help me my heart DOESN'T want to let go of him because i might be able to wait until i see him in 3 weeks but i don't know if i should??...please help..what should i do? i don't want to let go but it seems more distanced.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 June 2011):
 You need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him what his so called best friend said and see what he has to say for himself. If he did say that he was getting tired of you well then it is his loss. Maybe the distance has just got two much for him but if he is grounded and cannot meet up with you well then there is nothing you can both do about it. I know you don't want to let go sweetie but sometimes we just don't have a choice in the matter.
Talk to him over the phone or email and simply ask him what he wants and explain to him how you feel and see how the conversation goes. Thats all you can do at this moment. Good Luck.
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