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writes:so here I am again... looking for help because it seems like you guys are the only people I can rely on for this kind of thing. I love this girl who happens to be one of my neighbors just a street over. I found this out somewhat recently because I didn't know she was my neighbor. Anyway we were good friends in February when we first met, you could say we dated because we went out a lot but she claimed we weren't dating. she said she thinks Im cute and all that kind of stuff. Problems happened because I felt lonely and wanted a girlfriend and she didn't want a relationship with anyone or thats what she was telling me. My other friend who is a girl was talking to her the other day about me just asking her what she thinks about me. She says she loves me but won't date me and doesn't want to be friends so she doesn't hurt me or something like that. Last time I talked to her was Saturday we had a lot of fun and I took her to the mall parking garage at night and we both rode my long board down from the top. The other girls I told this said that is really romantic and all that kinda stuff and my neighbor (the one I love) said it was really sweet of me. I love her 100% she is my bestfriend but I removed her from my friends list on facebook and haven't talked to her at all. I put the cookies she made me for valentines day that I never ate and her bracelets she made for me all in a bag and put them in her mailbox. I love her so much but I can't figure out what I am doing. She says she loves me but won't date me and will bitch about other guys back when we still talked and hung out about how the are assholes. Now she has moved onto yet another guy who she told my friend she wants to date.I actually feel sick, and I know a lot of you will probably think I am a loser or something but thats just the way I feel. Im not a player so to find a girl who fits what I am looking for is a big deal and she was just that. I almost wish she would have never told me she loves me because it hurts, she says it like it means nothing but when other people ask her she seems like she really does mean it. She has cried in the past when I said I can't be friends with her cause she messes with my heart so much and foolishly I fall back to her while she has already moved on.I hate this situation, I want to call her, and tell her that I love her because I never have
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (1 June 2011):
 Get. OutPlease, for the sake of yourself. This is so unhealthy to be a part ofShe says she loves you... but what is her excuse for not wanting to be with you? It obviously isn't that she doesn't want a relationship as you have expressed clearly that she does go into relationships with other guysCut her off. Don't speak to her, unless it's to let her know that you do in fact love her, but you can't keep getting your heart strings tugged onI'm really sorry for your pain... I definitely understand it. You don't deserve the back and forth she's pulling here. Let her know that you're better than that and need more than just high hopes and a heavy heart. Stand up for yourself.
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