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writes:How can I ask another woman who my boyfriend cheated with if there still communicating due to the fact that I noticed the number on his phone contacts..I feel so dumb for even forgiving him cuz now my trust issues are out the window. When I actually confronted him he told me that he has a phone backup plan which saves all his contacts when changing to a new phone. I actually had to verify it with the phone comapany and they told me if it's deleted then there is no way of saving but I want to call the girl should I just to get my info? One more thing I feel real stupid for the simple fact that he bought me a bedroom set which is on the way but if i find out anything it's over!! So confused!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): Well it sounds like you caught him in a lie. If you did contact the other woman just to "be sure" would it really make a difference? If she said, "yeah I am still communicating/hooking up with your bf" would you pack your stuff, leave him and move on for good? Because if not then what is the point? It would just upset you and he would probably just make up another lie and for all you know you would believe him and forgive him again. The guy is a cheater, that is no secret, and once again he is lying to you. You have agreed to try to make it work with him. So if you are going to be with him you have to accept him for who he is (he is not an honest or trust worthy guy). If you want a faithful man then leave this one.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (1 June 2011):
 He is still lying to you. He can delete her contact number from his phone. If there is a "phone backup", if he *just* got a new phone, he could IMMEDIATELY delete her as soon as he downloaded the contact list.
However, he could delete it from his phone and upload the new list to his phone, meaning her number is gone forever.
Remember, this woman is not on your side, and if she's liking the idea of his cheating on you, she's going to give you nothing.
This guy will keep cheating on you. End the confusion and end it with him.
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