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30-35,
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writes:Long story shot, there was this girl that I use to like and we had a thing going on with each other and then one thing led to another, she just wasn't that into me anymoreand i felt like she led me on and all this, i got over the fact she did and any feelings of seeing her than more than a friendbut the thing is, i guess she gave me the vibe where she wanted to cut off all connections with each other.But I don't want that, and I'm not sure how to approach her as just to talk or chat, the other day i was seeing my friend to get my sweater back and the girl i use to like was over her house and when i was going to get my sweater, i saw her walk out to see who it was and then she went back in her house immediately so, I don't know what that meansbut I know things didn't work out into a relationship but no need to throw away a friendship you know?I don't see this girl around that much, I don't have a phone to contact her, I have her as a friend on facebookI don't know how to approach her because it seemed like all loose ends are cut and probably doesn't want anything to do with me even though i didn't do anything wrong, i just think its wrong to end everything i mean, i still want to be her friendso what should i do?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (4 June 2011):
 if this girl truly wanted to drop all contact with you then she could have removed you from her friend list on FB.
'I know things didn't work out into a relationship but no need to throw away a friendship' don't tell us - tell her! send her a message on FB or even call her, use a payphone if you have not got your own phone at home. ask her how she is and tell her you still value her as a friend. then leave it up to her. she will know that her friendship is welcome to you. if she does not approach you after that then at least you will know for definite that she would rather not be friends any more but you will also know that your did all you could
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