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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Its been 6 months I have been married to my boy friend, but he is not interested in me nor in sexlife,he never enjoys my company to chat nor to have sex with, he is always in his own world working hard, we rarely have sex which is neither enjoyable nor satisfactory, he doen't even bother to kiss me nor tempt me but directly wants to fuck. He never enjoys it and is tired very soon, he never has the feel to have sex with me, even if I try to seduce him, he does not even feel anything.He always wants me to go out with my friends and stay with them and would not even bother to call me nor tell me he missed me. Not even for a day after marriage he has missed me nor has told that he loves me.I am finding it hard to accept this behaviour of his and is not ready to sit with me to discuss about the problem and sort it out, He seems to be very rude to me and quarrell for silly reasons everyday. Is this due to his prevous affair with his old gal friend which I am not aware of or Is he having any sexual problems??Will any bad habbits of his lead to this kind of problems??
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (1 June 2011):
 How long did you know this man before you married him?
Did you have sex when you were dating, or did you wait until after you were married to have sex for the first time?
All I can tell you is that his behavior is not normal, a man that wants to live a long happy life does not treat her as badly as this man is treating you.
Would your family help you if you told them you wanted to leave your husband? I am sorry but I don't see this marriage lasting very long unless he changes and starts to act like he cares about you a lot more than he has so far.
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reader, Ne'cee +, writes (1 June 2011):
 Wow only 6 months??!! It definently seems he wasnt ready to get married. Maybe he met someone else before you got married and still went along with the wedding. Whatever it may be, you dont deserve to be treated or to feel like this. If you are not happy, married is not a life sentence, nor should it feel like prison. Let him know how you feel and if he doesnt care of doesnt respond satisfactory to you, THEN LEAVE!!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (1 June 2011):
 Have you ever had"buyer's remorse?" You know you find the "perfect" item then you think,"gee ids there something better? maybe I should return this one. "sadly this happens in relationships too. I'd forget him.
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