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age
41-50,
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writes:I am a friends with a man and his wife. we are a part of a social group. However since I knew them, I noticed that there is one young girl in the group that he barely talks to. he almost seem hatfefull towards her. She was a part of the group before I was. They are just acquainted. But he does not seem to want to talk to her. Everyone else, including myself, find her delightful to be around. But when she's around his space, he gets serious and quiet. they never had a close friendship. so this is confusing how he treats her. She thinks he hates her.she's very mature. I m 39 and she is 28. I get along with her like she's my age. he's 44. he's known her for 4 years. but from what I've known, he has gotten worse for all that time Reply to this Question
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (2 June 2011):
 Hey America, There is a lot there that you are oblivious to. Something clearly happened between them or between her and his wife or something in order for that to happen. As you mentioned, she was there before you were...so something could have occurred then...you will never know as no one is willing to speak up.My suggestion, let sleeping dogs lie, this has nothing to do with you and is actually none of your business. If she thinks he hates her, then that is her battle. Chances are you will go playing "let's make it better for everyone" and get burnt for being a nosey needle. Stay out of it and enjoy your social group. I can guarantee you that you don't want to wake whatever monster that is sleeping upGood Luck.
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