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anonymous
writes:So, I have a huge issue. I kinda liked this guy, and I met up with him today for the first time in about 2 months. We hung out in this old shopping center (fun place to hang out) and then we headed out to a park closer to his house. I will admit that I kinda had a crush on him, but in all honesty I didn't know what to expect. But I knew he had a crush on me, and I kinda liked him. He's 5 years older than me, so around 23, and was so mature...This might be a long explanation. (sorry.)Well, as it started out we were just talking then he started running his fingers down my back. At first I thought that he was just playing with my shirt because it was laced. Then he kept getting very very close and putting his arm around me. He would constantly run his fingers down my hips and just, like, everywhere. He even started feeling up my legs and went up the legs of my shorts. Honestly, it felt good. Like, a guilty pleasure, I guess. But I have an issue with older guys. The last time I was with an older guy he took advantage of me, and with this new guy I need to be extra cautious.I'm so confused. This guy made it clear that he liked me, but I dunno if he wants to just use me. I can't take all this confusion. What do you think? I mean, I kinda liked the way he ran his fingers over me, but then again, it was a little weird considering I never dropped a hint that I liked him, and it was a little strange in general. But I want to know what his intentions are. I don't want to go through the pain of what that last guy did to me again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2011): It sounds like very strong sexual attraction both ways. I think he's gone a bit far before he knows you properly and that sets the panic buttons going a bit.
If you just want the sex ok, but I think you want more and most men if they want something more will take the time getting to know you before they do all this, especially somewhere public. How would you feel if someone saw you?
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reader, GRIFF TANNEN  +, writes (8 July 2011):
 "23 is a bit too old for 18""you are both at very different stages"???How so???
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