A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:well, i had an affair with a married man and broke up. I know loving a married man is not good, but i got the love i expected from a man. I did it considering his wife. I felt sorry for her and walked away from him while he was crying. Am I happy now??? No way! I feel sad. I am burning inside. Am I paying for what I have done to his wife??? No. She doesn't know about this affair. Actually, he works in another country far away where she lives. He said she's suicidal and hence he cannot divorce her (it is fishy, right?? Every married man says the same, I know). I agreed though. i never wanted to hurt her feelings. He said, she neither wants to come to him nor does he goes to her.Ultimately, I lost a wonderful life, a wonderful man, a wonderful love i will never have again. where is that “honest, sweet, loving, careful, who will never cheat or betray, but a SINGLE my own man" that everybody recommends??????? Is he available?i never met such a single man even before i met him. Will I meet someone like him in the future??? What I have to say is that I did a sacrifice and now I am suffering a lot. It’s true I wouldn’t have had a future with him if i had been with him either. Yes, otherwise too he's not mine. Am I mad????? Any advise (even harsh) that helps me make up my mind is greatly appreciated. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u jonnas and annalisa
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