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male
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30-35,
*egikuno
writes:When my partner and I start to engage in sexual activity, mainly sex, I ejaculate shortly after entering her. Then I lose my erection, leaving both of us feeling unsatisfied. Help!
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reader, CeltiBill  +, writes (10 July 2011):
Have a read of: Ian Kerners's, She Comes First, as there are some very good tips on dealing with your problem. It takes time but if you talk with her about it, and find out what she really wants, it will help. Try 'Kegels' exercises to control yourself and you will also find that different positions will help you (and her) to respond differently. Also, try and develop your masturbation habits (if you have any) into ones that actually help you to hold on rather than getting it all over and done with. Bad masturbation techniques are often the main reason why these problems exist in the first place.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (9 July 2011):
i would take your time with foreplay don,t stress over it as this will make the situation worse just relax kiss cuddle go down on her get her to do the same for you do the 69er then when you are both ready enter her and when you feel you are about to cum stop thrusting then start again when the feeling that your going to cum stops
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011): Try thinking of something that kind of turns u off but not enough to lose ur erection and just keep doing that untill You both are close then you can both get off at the same time or stop for a second untill it passes and then continue again.
-good luck
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