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writes:I posted a question here a couple of days ago and got some quite helpful advice so I thought I should try it again.Anyway the girl that I though liked me but wasn't sure and then felt bad for not doing anything before she left is coming back for a couple of days. We used to go around town with my cousins and they say she liked it and wants to do it again but they don't know about "the thing". Anyway I don't think I can just tell her that I like her but how do I even know that she likes me anyway? I don't want to make a fool of myself but I really don't want to lose a second chance either, so please tell me what I should do? You were very helpful the last time by the way, I contacted her on facebook and had some chats and that really felt better.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (8 July 2011):
 Keep hanging out with her with your cousins. It's too early to confess your feelings. Get to know her more and find out what you like in her as a person. Maybe get some clues as well as to whether you two could be a good fit. Have your cousins talk good about you while you are away. Keep on chatting. There is no urgency no rush for a relationship. Young people are curious about relationships and the opposite sex, it's always easy to develop feelings, but truly liking someone, to the degree of having a serious relationship, is a much longer process. Some people like to start out as friends. Personally I admire guys who would just take the plunge and risk. It will make me feel very desired. I don't say yes to every guy who asks me out, but you never know if you don't try. In the meantime think outside of yourself and imagine what other people would like about you and enhance those qualities. She doesn't have to like you right away. The point is to TRY to gradually get closer to her.
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