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writes:Right, so my mate and i were at a pub couple of nights go, and im sitting at a table, and i notice a drop dead gorgeous woman sitting with a friend. Friend goes up to go the ladies room, so gorgeous lady is sitting alone. I whisper to my mate to challenge him to go up and chat her up. He says forget it, girl like that is gonna be a stuck up b--ch. i tell him he's just chicken so he challenges me to do it. I take a swig and then i say ok.So i go up to her, she is mighty friendly, laughs constantly as we chat, and even continues when her girlfriend returns from the loo. Now, first understand that i am NOT a particularly handsome bloke, I got a bot of a paunch, and thinnin more on top. Not hideous, but always had trouble with the ladies. My personality is ok, but definitely i am not the life of the party, i tend to be sort of quiet and serious.This woman looks a bit like heidi klum, beautiful face and figure. late 20s, 5'9". just a knockout.at the end of our chat (took about 15 minutes) i asked for her number on a bit of a lark....and she gave it to me.Now, heres the q: What is UP with this girl? why was she so friendly to me? Why was she givin out her number so easily. i havent called yet cos my mates say she's either got to be a player or a high class call girl.any thoughts?Should i call her and get involved or just toss it and move on to findin a girl within my league?
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (9 July 2011):
 Sorry to offend the women out there, It is experience that gives us these unfair stereotypes. Not the once bitten twice shy experience, mot like the shovel to the face every time you think that way until you stop having that kind of idea. Exceptionally beautiful women with nice personalities are the exception not the rule.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (8 July 2011):
why not just go for it what have you got to lose stop putting yourself down and call her sounds like she likes you good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2011): What one girl finds hideous, another girl finds as hot as hell. One of my best friend's boyfriend is, to me, very unattractive. But she thinks hes the hottest thing in the world. And believe it or not, some girls look inside a person as well. Just call her
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reader, wiseoldman +, writes (8 July 2011):
Very good looking men have more opportunities to be unfaithful. By the time a woman's reached her mid-to-late 20s, and been cheated on by a few guys, she may well have the sense to overlook the superficial and allow her intuition to tell her if a man is genuinely decent, even if he isn't film star material. It seems you've been given a chance on this basis, so please do yourself a favour and see where it leads.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (8 July 2011):
 What have you got to lose by calling her? If she agrees to meet you, take it slow and enjoy the evening.......see what happens.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (8 July 2011):
Reminds of that scene in the second X men Movie.
I hate to say it but women of that class are still a mystery to me. I don't know what to advise you to do. but it does remind me of a good joke about a genie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2011): You know what? You people just drive me crazy. Why? Because if a girl treats you so bad and ignores you then she is a bitch! "Girl like that is gonna be a stuck up b--ch" and if she is friendly and polite then there is a red flag? "Why was she so friendly to me? Why was she givin out her number so easily." So what do you think? She was not fake; she liked you and gave you her number to at least give it a chance to try. So in fact there is no red flag! Maybe you guys have gotten used to be treated not very well! lol
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reader, doublejack +, writes (8 July 2011):
I'd call her. Sometimes really attractive women are so intimidating that they get approached MUCH less than you'd expect. It could also be that she's a player, but as long as you're prepared for that going in then you can have some fun and not get hurt. Why not call?
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (8 July 2011):
 Alright, look, your friend didn't approach her because he assumed she'd be "stuck up". I'm going to bet a whole lot of other guys think that too.
I'm going to be bet she doesn't normally get approached, and was really happy that someone did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2011): It might be that she is crazy or she just has low self esteem and doesn't realize how pretty she is. Or she had some drinks and was feeling friendly. Or maybe you're just not giving your self enough credit. Hang out with her and get to know her then you will know whats up with her.
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reader, Mark_25_ +, writes (8 July 2011):
 Hey,
I think your taking your mates opinions far too seriously. They are fairly rare things, but there are really attractive and genuinely nice girls out there. After a 15 minute conversation it's quite feasable that if she thinks your nice she's going to give you her number.
If I was you I'd stop being so suspicious and take it for what it is. If she is the genuine nice girl that she came across as, you could have found a really amazing person. I'd get involved if I were you, at the very least your not going to be thinking "what if".
Hope that helps :)
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