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*illerloop3
writes:Im in a distant relationship with my cute girlfriend, i really love her so much, i always write poems and songs for her, Everytime im with her as we talk deeply i really lose it and cry in front of her, even when she is not there, everytime i send her something as " miss u " messages i cry my eyes out so hard, she always makes me feel that she is my mother and in other times my little baby, i like to call her " mommy " and " baby " most of the times..i really love her and sometimes i get scared of these intense emotions, Is it all right to cry in front of my girl and call her both mommy and baby names ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sexified226  +, writes (9 July 2011):
I think guys cyring is cute and kinda of a turn on it shows me that he's not afraid to cry sometimes but all the time would be kind of annoying but. Every once n a while is cute. Although mommy..? Not so much..
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reader, N91  +, writes (8 July 2011):
 Women like masculine guys, guys who can protect and look over them, they don't want someone who cries when they start speaking about feelings.
Don't get me wrong, opening up and talking to girls about your feelings is fine, but crying is not. You need to get a grip and man up, girls won't like this behaviour at all, and calling your girlfriend mommy, that's pretty weird.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (8 July 2011):
 Honestly, its a little creepy. Sensitive is good, but there's a need to draw a line between sensitive and downright weird. Its nice that you're so close to her, but don't overdo it. No one likes a cry baby! And calling her "mommy"?? Whoa!! That is bizarre!! Why do you even think of your GF has your mom?! She's not and you better get over it, if you want a normal, healthy relationship with her. Dont be too clingy and smother her. She might like the attention now, but if this continues for much longer, she's going to run for the hills
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reader, killerloop3 +, writes (8 July 2011):
killerloop3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey friends, i just want to say that in my normal life with my friends or workmates i doing fine and strong,i dont show emotions that much to people or boohoo all the time, im a normal guy but when it comes to my girlfriend i sometimes feel so vulnerable in her eyes i dont know why, but im doing well in our relationship its controlled in a good way but the thing with the crying is not all the times, but it occurs frequently thou, i like writing poems and imaginary script stories for me and her in our future situations that she finds very exciting to read..about the nicknames im not doing this in a creepy way..i just like how they sound...but the problem is im afraid that she would get sick of me sometime coz i feel that my love is not going any colder..always needy.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (8 July 2011):
 Well, being emotional is okay, but the mommy stuff is a bit creepy. Women like men they can look up to. Men who are strong and can protect them and stuff like that.
If you're looking to fulfill a "mommy/baby" urge, a boyfriend/girlfriend situation might not be the way to go, unless that's exactly what she wants from you. Otherwise, you'll come across as extremely needy and clingy.
Poems and songs are really nice though. I love men who can write things like that! Just remember, she's not your mom or your baby. She's your girlfriend!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2011): Omg!!! That's realy wierd!! I would never want a guy to call me mommy!! I don't get why your always crying. She's not leaving u!! U need to act like a man. I think even if she lost feelings for u u would never know cause she prob will feel bad and scared of what comes after crying. I honestly recomend for u to STOP crying infront of her and show her your the man of the relationship and u could be able to protect her if something would happen instead of the other way around!!! MAN UP!
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