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writes:My question involves my breasts. I was really blessed... i guess with my dads metabolism and my moms big boobs. They are 34DD and still growing. i'm 18 and 5'10" and very small waisted. People (mostly guys) think my boobs are fake... how would i get people to realize that i didn't get a boob job or a tummy tuck. i'm just naturally skinny and big breasted
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (22 May 2010):
 I think the thing to do is to convey how rude, immature and grossly insulting that they're making it public what they think of your body. "What on earth is the matter with you? Do you realize how rude that comment is? Do me a favor and keep your comments to yourself. That's just creepy." And practice flouncing off.
The thing you're going for is a withering look that wilts the offender and makes him realize that his is completely out-of-bounds and discourteous--no well-brought-up gentleman should ever make a lady feel uncomfortable about her appearance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2010): People will believe what they choose to believe. So I don't think you can convince them to change their opinion, if they have already decided that your breasts are fake. But YOU know the truth, and your opinion on yourself is what really matters. As long as you are happy with yourself, try to ignore what other people may say or think. I know that is not easy, but I personally think it is a bit shallow and rude of people if they are making comments like that about your body. Perhaps they are just jealous, because they think you look great. I would say to just try and put their opinions out of your mind, and enjoy being who you are. Hope this helps. x
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (22 May 2010):
 Let them feel them.
Don't want to? Well, that is why they think they are fake, because they know they don't have a chance in hell to touch them for themselves.
People will always talk behind your back, no matter who or what you are. Either you learn to ignore it or become very unhappy trying to please everyone.
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (22 May 2010):
 The rude comments are really compliments in disguise. I would smile and say thank you.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, RyanS  +, writes (22 May 2010):
 Hi, this is one problem every girl would like to have! I am sure all the girls around you are getting a huge complex because god has been really generous with you!Okay, on a serious note, you don't need to make others realize that your breasts are natural. In fact your task of choosing a genuine bf is more difficult than other girls because you will get a lot of guys just for the body, and they are not the guys you want to deal with anyway. What people around you think can't be controlled and you should not even waste your time with you. Feel happy with your body, only let your bf know the truth!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (22 May 2010):
 People are always going to make assumptions about you before they really know you and besides letting everyone feel them there's nothing you can really do to convince them they're not fake. Who cares what people think anyways? If you get all defensive when people ask and they can see that it bothers you then they're more likely to think that you did get implants. Just shrug it off and act like you don't care if they don't believe you. So many girls would kill for this problem!Breast... er... best of luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2010): Wow, there is probably not much you can do. I don't know anything to shut them up except challenge them to prove it. But you probably do not want to let a bunch of strangers feel your boobs or look you over for scars.If you've got your real friends convinced then that's about the best you can do. They should back you up in a social setting if someone makes a snide comment about you. Just say, "Well cosmetic surgery is supposed to make you look like how SOME people naturally look, right? I'm one of those few." maybe if you pointed to an older photo of you from a few years ago (like way before you were even old enough for cosmetic surgery) that shows your same shape?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2010): well you shoould not have to convinse any one you know your boobs are not fake and you know that you did not get a tummy tuck and if these boys keep saying they are just be like what ever i know the truth i don't care if you belive me.
hope this helps
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