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writes:my girlfriend and i have been together for about 5 months. shes my ex best friends gf (i kno not a good start already). i really love her and i kno she loves me too.. problem is, she tlks to a lot of guys! and i notice guys are always tryna tlk to her and txt her.. i get mad and confront her about it but she says theyre jus friends and she dont c them in that way even if they c her in that way.. so recently she went to the movies with two guys.. from the beginning she knew i wasnt gna like it and i told her i didnt like it but she told me i needed to get over it.. i understand she has guy friends but theirs this one guy in particular i dont even like her txting bcuz it is so clear to me that he doesnt c her as jus a friend. but she invited him to the movies anyways.. i was so mad and upset at that.. we argued about it later and she told me i shouldnt wry about him n blah blah blah.. but i cnt help it. i do trust her to a certain extent and she knows that but she does things anyways. should i not b mad that my gf goes to movies with guys or hangs out with guys in general knowing im uncomfortable about it?
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (22 May 2010):
 Let go of it a little. Stop yourself from saying anything negative to her about it. She will notice and may even stop hanging around with them so much.
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