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writes:Ok please help me im so confused!!My mate and I have been out for s drink, just to hang round together...you know.Hes always been strange round me as he wont talk to me. I never understood why but this particular meet up was a prime example.Normally with anyone else he;d sit down, just talk about whats been going off etc. Laugh, joke with them. He'd be looking forward to the rest of the night but with things are different with me.A part of me this particular night made me feel like he didnt wanna be there at all. He just sat there and wasnt very enthusatic, but then again he never is. As i say he doesnt speak to me. I just cant describe it one part of me feels like he doesnt know what to say(when it shouldnt be that hard as he does it with others) but then again it seems like he just isn't bothered/doesnt wanna be there.Its strange because like he'll be really quiet but for example lets say i ask about a certain situation such as his job he'll answer me and then tell me about his mates have done there but he'll speak normally. If hes got a story to tell he will be fine. What hurts though is its getting ridiculous. i asked if he;d seen much of a mate of ours just to break the silence and all he said was "yea" quietly and had no enthusasm of anything!He wants to be good friends but how can we be if he wont speak back to me. Im trying to make the effort. obviously if he wont stay out for very long the fun in the night cant develop much further as hes not allowing it to.Its his actions as well i cant put them into words. obviously he wants to be friends so i know he doesnt hate me or dislike me(even if he did he;d be better than this)Lets just say hes very weird and doesnt seem very relaxed around me.I dont understand why hes so different with me and wont talk! A part of me thinks he just doesnt wanna be there but im wondering if theres something else behind this. Either way i need help figuring it out so i know the next step to take. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2010): Perhaps he doesn't like you, or perhaps maybe his girlfriend doesn't like you so he doesn't want to hang out with you. Maybe you should leave it
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2010): Maybe he has a girlfriend that dislikes you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2010): does he have a girlfriend that dislikes you?
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