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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So, lately I've been having some problems with relationships and stuff like that in general.My first boyfriend cheated on me, and so did my second.My last boyfriend and I recently broke up because we needed a break because things weren't working out. And then I found out that he started dating someone else during this "break".Basically, every guy i've ever dated has turned out to be a jerk, and i've never dated anyone who has really been good to me.Not to mention that recently i seem to just be the butt of sexual jokes around guys now. I am a virgin, but it seems like its harder to be a virgin now than it is to not be. Would it be easier just to get it over with, with someone i care for, but don't love?I've started to be very against guys, and i'm losing my faith in them. I really don't want to give up hope and miss one who might actually be a nice one.Well, to get to the point, i feel like i've become kind of a bitch towards men because i'm sick of them treating me like i don't have feelings. I don't know what to do about my situation and i don't want to miss out on a chance at a good relationship because of past problems. Advice, please?(sorry if this is confusing. i have a lot of thoughts going on.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni don't think that i'm doing anything wrong for them to cheat on me. i'm always perfectly honest with them, is it wrong for me to expect them to do the same?
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reader, Lakisha +, writes (21 May 2010):
 Its not your fault u are that way towards men u are just tired of getting hurt we as females know that so I would have a mean streck also if that happened to my wrong but I want u to ask yourself what I'm I doin wrong for the have to cheat like that. Good Luck
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reader, RyanS  +, writes (21 May 2010):
 Hey, don't worry if others are making jokes about you. People make jokes when they can't do anything better. Don't give any importance to such people. If you want to remain a virgin, please stay the same, and you will surely meet a guy who will be much better than your previous bfs. Don't give away sex just like that. You may feel bad later. But if you like someone, have great chemistry, and he is caring and gives you respect (very important), then yes, you can be intimate with him because it will make you both happy.
Summary: Ignore the jokers; remain open to meet a great guy and do things only with him.
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