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writes: What do people think of allowing your partner to take sexy pictures of you? I'm not talking about nude or even in bra/pants. I'm thinking of a sexy babydoll or chemise, something racy but with no parts showing so if anyone did end up seeing them I wouldn't be completely humilated. Opinions? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): I've seen these types of photos (and even videos) end up on the net after the couple breaks up. So I wouldn't suggest it.
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reader, Honest Answer  +, writes (22 May 2010):
 Only allow pictures that you are comfortable for you entire world to see. It takes but a second to upload a picture on the internet. And from there, you have a world wide audience.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2010): I'd say being in your babydoll is more erotic than being in just brah and pants.
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reader, RyanS  +, writes (22 May 2010):
 Why does he want sexy pictures when he already has you? I don't understand. Please ask him. And yes, every picture can end up on the web, so please do anything carefully. You have a long life ahead of you. take care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2010): Hey, I did something similar to please boyfriends when I was 18, and again when I was 20...I ended up breaking up with them both, and felt kinda nervous about those photos for a long time. The first guy, when I was 18, had taken the photos on his camera, so he had all the originals. I contacted him, and he told me he had thrown the photos/originals away after we broke up, which I guess I have to take his word on, but who's to say they won't surface somewhere one day?? The other guy, well, he took photos on my camera, so I had the originals, he had copies of the photos. I felt better about it because I had the originals, but have never contacted him to see what he's done with the photos. I trust him, so it's ok, but if he'd been someone I didn't trust, I might be worried that they'd end up on the web, which would embarrass me, my family, and might affect my job :(My advice would be make sure you only let him take photos you're comfortable with, that you have the hard copies and give him one set of photos on the understanding that they are for his eyes only, and if you do break up, try and get them back from him 'cos you don't know what he'll do with them in that situation. Hope that helps ;)
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (22 May 2010):
 I suppose it depends on how much you trust the person, or how likely they would be to spread it should they have an argument. Probably better to make a hard copy of a picture like that rather than a digital one as these are harder to post online or send to other people.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 May 2010):
 I think if you are 16-17 then you especially need to NOT do it. You just never know where those pictures end up, specially on the web.
Don't do it.
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reader, Darksonnet  +, writes (21 May 2010):
I think that those types of pictures are fine. Just as long as it's nothing less than a babydoll or so chemise.
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