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36-40,
*akisha
writes: Hi! Everyone help me out here I've liked this guy I've gotten so to the point that I've feel in love and we've been friends for about 5 years every since I was twenty we've past the sex thing I've done a lot for this person but when we first started out we've talked about it and he says u don't know what a relationship is so we've still remained friends but I've had problems to the fact we first met he never called me on weekends then I confronted him about it and he satrted calling he would call me and I would call everyday when he needed somthing I was there but when I need him there was never there and giving me some kind of excuses but I learned not to relie on him. Well we had our ups and downs I knew his family but I never met them but I seen them and they know me I distant my self from him and it work cause he called me ask to come see him I did there was no sex involved well after that he asked me that we can't keep being phone buddies and that he wanted to start up a realationship that was 3 years after we've meet so I was down for it until days later I had a phone call from his b/m telling me things so after that day I cut my tides from him I've haven't spoken to him in since but I have recently talked to him on the phone for 5 min gave him my numbers but he never called.So I'm wondering if he thinks about me or not? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Lakisha +, writes (21 May 2010):
Lakisha is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt may seem like I'm chasing him but I'm not cause after the whole incident he tried to call at times but I just couldn't talk to him at that time cause I was upset at the fact to how are u willing to ask for a relationship when all your things isn't in order.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2010): He sounds quite non-commital, with you doing all the chasing. If he really wanted you he would come after you. I would just leave it.
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