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*ustagal
writes:hello every1,me and my bf r goin out for 5 yrs now. he says he really loves me, he also plans for our future, and when we are together we are so right for each othjer, we also have great sex lifebut the prob is he never initiates our date.he is always busy with work or his band or other things, we only meet once a week. i miss him so much, bt cant ask to meet me, ca if i do i have to listen to an excuse n i get upset.he also calls me only once or twice a day. im really getting upset about this. i think he loves me but someway i think he doesnt want to spend time with me, i mean , com on! once a week, 5-6 hrs ! and sometimes even that dont happens! im really frustrated, what sud i do! i really love him, cnt live without him, but i hate the ignorance. :(
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reader, justagal +, writes (22 May 2010):
justagal is verified as being by the original poster of the question i understand he takes me for granted. but i just cant live without him, is ther anythin i cn do to make this work?
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reader, justagal +, writes (22 May 2010):
justagal is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni sometimes feel too that he is using me, but i am just too much in love with him. is ther any ways i cn make him normal? he really loves me i know that, but i cnt stand nemore of these ignorance, and he is not sleeping with any1 else, i kno that. its a fact that im always available to him and thats why he is taking me for granted. i really love him, pla help me.
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reader, dragonfire  +, writes (22 May 2010):
 Once a week.... sometimes? Thats not gonna cut it. If he doesnt then one day you will. Tell himm how you feel and hopefully he will understand your point of view. Otherwise he may wanna rethink your relationship because it doesnt sound to fulfilling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2010): Your boyfriend works all day and then spends all his nights working at the band that is going to be the next big group, so if you stay with him at he hits the jackpot, lucky you, you will be made. On the other hand 5-6 hours a week in each others company and mostly spent doing sex,how wonderful FOR HIM. Your being used, he keeps tabs on you by calling you twice, just to make you feel wanted. Really the best thing is tell him more quality time or no sex, give him a months trial. If nothing improves call it a day, but don't forget to get his autograph and a few snaps shots of the band, one day they may be worth something if he and the band hits the big time, then all that frustrated time won't have been in vain.
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