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writes:!girls please help!!!well im 14 and very nervous because the other day i had the love of my life come over to hang out. and we were laying under the stars and she seemed very happy. so i was happy and i told her i loved her and she said for me 2 wait on how she feels about me. we went back to my house and went into my room and we were laying down in my bed. when we started making out she said that she would do anything for me. and i asked what she meant. and she told me anytjing that i wanted she would do it for me. and i got very nervous and i didnt want know hat to say. i eventually mentioned a blowjob. and she said ok and she made sure i was comfortable with it. she pulled my pants off and started stroking it. then she had to leave and we didnt really get to the sucking part. and when she left she didnt tell me she loved me or if she even liked me. i dont know what it means! or what i should do! please help!
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reader, oBaLLiNo +, writes (12 September 2009):
oBaLLiNo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i kinda figured that girls would know more about it and thanks anyways and maybe ur right maybe she doesnt love me but i know for a fact that i love her. i dont look at girls the same way. everytime i see her my heart skips a beat and everytime shes near me i cant speack without stuttering. it may not seem like much but i go to bed thinking bout her and i wake up thinking about her she told me she loved me recently, i blush like crazy its kinda embarassing tho.(:
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (11 September 2009):
 Your girl may express her love differently then you she may not fully understand what love is at her age but she appreciates your love for her and wants to sho you some people say it some people sho love by what they do some people sho love by giving gifts. Let your gf express it her way. Dont make this a big deal your over analyzing could drive her away.
She pulled out your member but had to leave before she could give you a BJ wow im gonna say being preoccupied with this love thing just cost you a BJ. Because if you where thinking straight you would have had it in her mouth and she wouldnt have been able to say anything any way.
another thing is your 14 a crazy confusing age in my opinion you dont have enough life experience to be in love love has to be tested. I dont mean throwing your self in front of a van for her but to say you love some one at 14 is probably an overstatement.
I would suggest stop telling her you love her save it for emergencies it kinda looses its power if you say it all the time, your girl said she would do what ever you want you have the cash in the bag now just leave the bank.
next time you feel like you want to tell her you love her ask for a bj instead, The odds you will be marrying this girl are low your a kid have fun live a little ten years from now youll understand.
OH and my disclaimer if you start having sex use protection everytime unless you want aids or worst a baby.
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reader, Jenny Junkie +, writes (11 September 2009):
 no unfortunatly she doesnt love u.. just lust.. wen i was 14 I acted the same way towards guys. I'm 18 now and i still dont kno wut love is.seriously tho ur 14 u should wait anyways ur way too young. i no u wont listen tho. i think she just wants to get laid really.... ask her tho and confront her about it.
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