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writes: Me and my Boyfriend have been together for about 5-6 months now and we have been getting on really well untill recently. My boyfriend once lived with his (ex) girlfriend and when they split up she moved out and she is still paying half the mortgage which means she could come back at anytime. she has recently text him sayin she is moving back in, he wont let me go round because he says it will be awkward. so where does that leave me ? i dont want to split up with him because i love him but how can this work? please if you know i would appreciate your help.
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (12 September 2009):
If she is moving back into her HOME, it is likely that he is still with her, and they are trying to fix their relationship. Until they completely break it off (and that means SELL THE HOUSE), your best course of action is to stay out of it.Why would you only settle for half a love? Do you have a fear of intimacy?As a man, I can tell you that if he doesn't want you around when she is there, it is likely you are the "other woman" in the picture, not the first lady.-Frank Kermithttp://www.franktalks.com
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